Looking other bdsm sites, where you can see how many male and how less female profiles are published, it does make me not very optimistic on one part. Seems there are not so much women really open about bdsm life style - To meet vanilla is really more easy.

On the other hand it seems i am one of the more lucky men - i have contract, internet as well as real time. - But when please does it lead to permanent?

Why do most Mistresses ask for money? Is there no other way to proove if the sub or slave is real? What about female instincts - yes the right Mistress will have and will know.

Again while vanilla sex i was complimented. Again a lady wants to stay with my, and I feel ashamed that i cant do that. I could have a good life, if that would be my desire - but if one craves to be a slave, where his body, his mind and his sexuallity is totally controlled, this person does find happiness only beneath an owner.

Where are you? - You must be somewhere out there, i know.

i pray for the right owner to come soon

what kind of site is bdsm-com.

So many fake girls here that want to lead sub-men to that site - it is a pay site - so they are agents from that site?

Am I right with that opinion?

as a sub should not say that.

In those fairy tales; which "go deeper" a princess is a girl that has to learn someting very well, is siffering becuase of mistakes or love or whatever.

Some tales from Grimm tell very well about stupid attitudes of "princess".  Andersen is an expert about this question, very ironic too, sometimes.

So considering this archaic stories,  how could a princess be a domme or mistress?

Maybe will be taught here, lol

Richie Rich told me: Princesses go to empty wallets and then to go to next.

A Bdsm-Princess said: Your not really a slave (How does a princess without life experience know?) - but she is right, no owner yet, so not a slave yet.

Lived separated from former wife for more than 5 years. Now finally and happily divorced and more ready to be owned fully.

No past to consider any more.

in know, we males are too much here. Even if most of them are faker, curious men only, the "slave market" is overwhelmed by that. So what should a real Mistress do here to find a real one? Should i say, chose me ...(lol)

I know there are so many fakes here, and also so many who might be real but just curious about the live style, who run away, when it comes closer to real.

Men as well as women.

I understand that some real Mistresses want to solve that problem with "tribute". But in this way it can be solved for the slaves. Because the scammists do same. Some then say, one should feelt the real. Bur till now the evolution did not change us, to feel it through the net - its even hard when you have someone in front of you in person.

I dont know what the best solution will be, to find a real Mistress? Time will bring.

more and more sub males seem to understand. "Prices" of so called Mistresses and Dominas go down. Their business gets worse, very good. They are not into bdsm - so called financial slavery is nothing ....

To make clear, i am not agsainst supprting a Mistress, Domme - if she is real and a real one and met her in real .... before?

Stay careful men

and of course:

Black Mistresses are very welcome!

What i have heard is shocking. Black Mistresses outside USA seem to be hunted here. Some fashists report one black lady after the other outside USA as scammer and so they  get blocked.

We in bdsm all know, from Nigeria and Ghana came a bit too many scamists, so the they have been blocked.

We can ask ourselve why no one blocks ID with pictures with white ladies in USA, who lead to other sites where man should give their credit card details - you may know what happens with this details.

So please dont be rasistic here online!

Online criminiality has no colour. Just take care, dont send money! Dont give credit card details. Simply!

Help us to save collarme from that - copy the text and publish in your ID as well. Thank you!

what i have heard is shocking. Black Mistresses outised USa are hunted here. The site starts to get fashistic. The fashists report black ladies outside USA as scammer and so they  get blocked. We in bdsm all know that from Nigeria and Ghana many scammists came, so the they have been blocked. We can ask ourselve whyx no one blocks ID with pictures with white ladies in USA, who lead to other sites where man should gibe their credit card details - you may n´know what happens with thsi details.

So please dont be rasistic here online!

Onloine cirminiality has no colour. Just take care, dont send money! Dont gibe credit card details. Simply

i was told by someone, it made her laught what i wrote. men always paid for what they  wanted ...... but why nowadays men pay for nothing?

Thought today if i should ask for tribute. If you, the Mistress want to have me foryour fun, why you dod not pay. Males always pay - they should pay the slavegirl, they should pay the Mistress or domme - of course i am joking.

But think as long men pay - called master as dom or pay pig from some "princesses" the principle remains as it is in vanilla life as well.

No, i dont ask for tribute.

And no, i dont send money to pics on a screen.

No one should do and the bdsm sites soonest are wipend out from scammer and online prositutes ....

i have a dream!   oneline bdsm without fakers (smile, i am a reamer, but i am not the only one)

Just most dreamers pay for they dreams.

I am just a real sub and a slave to a good Mistress soonest - i know it.