Educated, fit professional with an outgoing personality and a positive outlook on life. I enjoy most all outdoor activities and sports, am laid-back to a point and in an ideal situation someone who can meet on a regular basis. I do have a work/business life so I do not live this 24/7, however all work makes Ben a dull master. I have been aware of and explored my dominant side for as long as I can remember. Looking for someone who has a desire to explore your submissive her side. To explore her desire to feel another "in control" or to “serve” another. That feeling that can create a combination of excitement, anxiousness and at the same time eagerness of what direction is next.
The excitement of a learning more about the partner, the exploration of the different facets and desires of your submissiveness. That desire you have to obey or to take your mind and body to those places that you desire to go but have yet to have the opportunity to explore.
About you: Someone who is adventurous and likes the idea of trying new things and has the ability to enjoy yourself. A persona anywhere from normal to professional, nerdish to hippyish. I am attracted onesattitude and desires. There can be something so very exciting and primal about one who desires and needs another "in control"... knowing there is no need for you to make any decisions because you know all those decisions are made for you. The knowledge that another will mold you into his desires. The anticipation of what will be required next to heighten stimulation of both His and yours. Which one of your limits will be stretched and the satisfaction of having stretched your mental and physical desires.... The mark left on you with each exploration and experience... will that mark be a memory in your mind, a hand print on an ass cheek or breast... or something totally different.
