You must be intelligent and well-read. You don't need to be a fucking scholar but you should be able to carry a conversation while sounding like an adult. You must maintain your appearances and be comfortable in your skin. If you're trans then you should be feminine. Be a slut. Be an exhibitionist. You should derive pleasure from performance. Have cam and toys. You're no good to me if I can't see you. Humiliate yourself for me. Crave my attention. Expect nothing in return.