Thank you Sir E for letting me reprint this.
Beware of the Dom who only wants to talk about sex and what he wants to do to you, or what he wants you to do to him at a very early stage in getting to know you.
Real Dom's are interested in sex, don't get me wrong but they are also interested in control, respect, honesty and getting to know if you have a submissive nature and heart.
Beware of the Dom who tells you that "You are not a real sub because you won't do a certain act" at an early stage of a relationship. A real Dom knows that there are many forms of submission and you are to be respected and nurtured to bring out the best in you.
Beware of the Dom who won't give you adequate information about himself and also will not give references. Ask for a home phone # and ask permission to call and talk at anytime.
Many Want-a-be's are married or living with another submissive and will only give cell phone #'s or work #'s.
A real Dom will give you references and have you talk to others that he mentored or know him. He will also welcome the chance to talk to you anytime and give advice and council
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