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sassy sub seeks charming and deviant Dom...
for fucking, play, friendship, and more.
- Profile Update 7/9/2017 -
sorry, but i'm not in the market for casual hook-ups.
ultimately i am looking for a dominant life partner. a guide, a lover, a mentor, and a friend. someone who is intelligent, honest, and ethical. someone who inspires both trust and lust.
obviously no relationship starts out longterm and life changing. people have to interact, touch, talk, spend time, fuck, play, and laugh together before friendship and trust are built. and i certainly don't expect monogamy, commitment, or dare i say love to be instantaneous.
if the intellectual and physical attraction is there, lust and even temporary infatuation follow soon after. it is a joy finding someone you can connect with on several different levels, and often those first few weeks are a blur of pleasure and excitement. i am all about that and i derive great enjoyment from learning about my new lover. what excites him, what pleases him, what makes him laugh, what upsets him, how he likes to be touched and served.
but eventually the relationship either progresses or it stagnates, at least for me. lust doesn't last if there isn't continued mutual interest. getting together for fucking alone gets old. simply put, i want more than that.
so if you are looking for a submissive with no strings attached, please move on. i'm not your gal. it's a choice for me, n0t a necessity. i am not submissive because i think i deserve to be punished or used. i enjoy that on a sexual level because it turns me on, not because i think i am worthless. and i don't get off on being humiliated or degraded. i only submit to men who value the gift and value me.
please be assured that i understand completely if i am not the kind of sub or slave you seek, and i wish you the best of luck in your search regardless of that.
below is my original profile. it is still pertinent and i am still that woman, so please read on if you're still with me at all. i just felt the need to make sure everybody stopping by my profile these days is on the same page that i am. and please know that i have no wish to offend or irritate anyone with this new profile clarification.
thanks for taking the time to read what i have to say.
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i have a long windy discouraged profile below. but for now let's cut to the chase.
the qualities i look for in a lover are the same qualities i look for in a mate. my current theory is that one day i'll run into someone i like (intelligent, sense of humor, patient, funny, sexy) who happens to have a penchant for bondage and rough sex. and that maybe love will grow over time from friendship and lust and mutual respect.
i am 45, divorced, pretty but somewhat overweight, sexually voracious,
intelligent, a little flighty, and incredibly tired of playing games. so know what you want, know what you're capable of, and be honest about both right off the bat.
if you're game then let's talk and see where it takes us.
ok here's the long windy profile. please take it with a grain of salt. i think i had just broken up with someone.
good luck in your search and thanks for stopping by.
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i've had twenty years of vanilla sex and now i'm done with it, but that doesn't mean i'm done with men who have compassion, who enjoy their lives outside of sex, who have matured into responsible and well adjusted human beings and who are able to love. in my opinion, enjoying all that D/s has to offer does not preclude having those very necessary and vital attributes.
i am intelligent, affectionate and i love sex. i have varied interests outside the bedroom, i'm well traveled and i'm well read. i am assertive in life despite my sexually submissive stance and i have no tolerance for lies or bullshit. i love to laugh and talk, and i now live my life as if there is no tomorrow. time slows down for no one and i have wasted too much of it already.
finally i think of myself as a free spirit, yet i have an innate desire to please my partner both sexually and in the rest of our lives. and i always try to make sure i am well worthy of His praise.
so here are my terms:
if you are married or otherwise attached, please don't contact me. i seek a primary and hopefully longterm real life relationship, and that would be impossible with someone who already has one.
if you are still deriving great enjoyment from playing the field, the same applies. i've been on my own for over a year now and have had my fill of empty sex and men who have no interest in something deeper and to my mind more rewarding than that. sex with substance is far more intense than sex without it, and if you have not learned that by now then it's likely you never will. that said, i have no problems playing with others on occasion as long as the primary relationship remains sacrosanct.
if being a Dom is the only way you can feel powerful and in control of your life, please don't contact me. i need to be with someone who has the rest of His life well in hand, not just his dick.
and if you think my being submissive means that i have no desire for physical pleasure or that i am willing to be walked on, please don't contact me. my submission is a gift for the right man and i intend to find Him.
but if there is something here that resonates with you and you're still reading this admittedly slightly brutal and definitely frustrated profile, please drop me a line and let's talk.
i'm not perfect and i don't expect perfection, but i'm looking for more than a sex partner. i'm looking for my other half and i know He's out there. somewhere.
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Strong women with submissive tendencies in the bedroom are picky bitches, and I am no exception. I'm looking for a strong man I can respect, both in the bedroom and outside of it. I am: pleasing to the eye, smart as a whip, fond of laughing, interested in what makes people tick, and addicted to sex. And hopefully so are you.
I'm finding it difficult to describe my sexual proclivities and preferences here, perhaps because I think that should be an exploratory and intimate process. But here are the basics:
I need to be with someone who likes to fuck and play and who likes to take the lead when it comes to sex.
I like to be restrained, but I am choosy about that.
A really good kiss will get me wet in a heartbeat.
I want to be spanked by someone who knows how.
And that's just for starters...
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