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I am not a SAMmy, but I am smart, attractive,
inquisitive, sarcastic when it is called for, loyal to a fault when it
is earned, blunt and funny.
If you are in my group of friends and/or family, I will do anything to help you if you need it.
I
enjoy many things, some of which are dance of any form, computer games,
art, reading, the occasional show on TV (The Closer and House
specifically hehe), going on walks, listening to music..almost any
kind, needlepoint, photography, live steel and being around kids. I buy
instruments I WILL one day learn how to play *grins*. I am equally at
home at a ball or at the park playing with kids.
My demeanor is assertive, if you are looking for a passive girl all the time...I am not the right sub for you.
I
am not a slave. I am a submissive, and if I have to explain the
difference, I am happy to do so and add you to my friends list, but
that is as far as it will go.
I find intelligence, honesty and a rapier wit more attractive than a cute face. If you cannot engage my mind, you will not engage my body.
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I love this quote!
"There are two kinds of strengths: the strength to lead,
and the strength to follow; the strength to control, and the strength
yield. There are two kinds of power: the power to strip away another's
soul bare, and the power to stand naked."
---Yaldah Tova
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ok, to anyone sending me a message, please do me the courtesy of reading my profile first, my journal would be nice too as it says a lot about who I am.
However, sending me a message ordering me to do anything.....starts us off on the wrong foot immediately.
I will be submissive to the one I choose and only him. I will be submissive to him simply because I can dream of doing nothing else.
I will again state simply I do not respond well to people trying to prove their dominance in our first communication. I am not inferior to you, please do not act as if I am. (Submissive here Gents, not a slave..ever)
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I keep being asked what it is I am looking for here. I
guess it is not something that is immediately obvious from my profile
(I am not a very good writer), and I will try to explain here.
I am not here out of curiosity. I know, accept and embrace who I am. It
has taken me many years to get here, and yet I am sure there are many
more years to come before I understand myself completely, if I ever do.
I am looking for something different:
Someone who can make me laugh, think, dream and I make happy by being there and who makes me
happy simply by being near me. Someone who does not want to share me,
or expect me to share them.
A partner, a lover and a Dom (In
that order)...someone who understands that there is a time for
everything, who won't try to crush me, but who has the patience to
teach.
Know that life is not always easy, that we all have
baggage, but while the past should be learned from, it should never
hold you back.
Treasure living, loving and learning ...
Someone who appreciates humor and the ridiculous as well as the beauty that surrounds us daily.
If you see the beauty and miracle in a child's face, in a wild flower, a
moth or in the stars....are not too grown up to have snowball fights,
dance in the rain or finger paint......
If seeing a child crying, an animal in pain or a human suffering makes your heart ache at least a little......
If you see the point in trying to change the world, or at least making your corner of it just a little bit better.......
If you haven't left dreams, hopes and laughter behind for the 'rat race'....
If you laugh at yourself and let go of taking things seriously occasionally......
If you debate a subject and have fun with someone playing devils advocate without it turning into a fight.....
If you understand passion and feeling it for something as well as someone.....
If most these things are true......
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I know not every type is covered here ...these are just the most amusing ones
The Top 10 Most Commonly Found Doms Online:
1. The 'I Am Dom Hear Me Roar' Dom:
All
shiny new leather wear, with a belt full of toys (just bought at Jack's
Whip-O-Rama). Of *course* he knows what to do! He read SM101...and even
watched Exit To Eden three whole times!
2. The 'I Just Wanna Get Laid' Dom:
Roams
the chatrooms sending IMs to the ladies there telling
them "On your knees! I am a Dom and U R my slave!". When he gets irate
IMs back from the Domme he just sent to by mistake (what, read a
profile? you *must* be kidding, right?), he quickly changes his tune to
"R U a FDom? I am your slave! May I lick your boots?".
3. The 'Dungeon Slut' Dom:
Has
a new 'lady love' each day (sometimes 2 or 3 a day). He swears each
time that *this* one is his 'eternal true love'....at least for the
next two hours.
4. The 'Psycho-Stalker' Dom:
Wants to
know *exactly* what you do...every minute of the day and night. Insists
on BCCs of all sent mail, and Forwards of all read mail, plus access to
your account to check up on you. Do you get the feeling that someone is
watching you? With this one, you're probably right.
5. The 'I Just Wanna Be Your *Friend*' Dom:
Offers to guide you and protect you....you innocent sweet thing you. Oh, those other 10 subs? Just friends. Really.
6. The 'Of Course I am a Dom...Uh Oh My Wife Is Home Gotta Run' Dom:
Warning
signs: Picks 'no response' on marital status in profile. "No honey you
can't call me at home...call my voice mail instead". Often disappears
in the middle of a hot n heavy cyber session...uses an excuse like 'my
power went out' when asked about it. "Of *course* Im not married!"
7. The 'I'm Not *That* Type Of Dom' Dom:
Squeaky-clean
image. The type of Dom that everyone *knows* is a good guy. He would
never do something less than up-front and honorable. Uh-huh.
8. The 'Tom Cruise' Dom:
He's
young, rich, handsome and perfect....until you meet him in person. Then
you find out that the 'Tom Cruise look-alike' you've been subbing to is
5'4", 400 lbs, bald, 48 years old, and living with his elderly mother.
(Oh yeah... and he works as a clerk at 7-11...not as a CEO of a 'major
corp').
9. The 'Alex I'd Like to Buy a Clue For $200' Dom:
Ok, now you've got a sub....now what?
10. The 'I Don't Have A Sub Bone In My Body' Dom:
Really a bottom at heart, just refuses to admit it...even to himself.
And just in case you submissives out there thought you were off the hook....
Top7Subs
1. POOR-ME SUB:
This
"sub" always has something going wrong in her life. Of course, it is
never her fault..she is always being played upon and victimized by
others. If only she found the *perfect* Dom, her life would be
problem-free and forever-blissful.
Favorite IM to send: "Will you be my Dom, sir? I am just a helpless little subbie."
Favorite IM to receive: "Just do what I say, slave!"
2. JUST-DO-ME SUB:
This
"sub" just wants to be beaten. It doesn't really matter by who, or
what..as long as he (I use "he" here because these are typically male)
can feel the lash. Frequently misbehaving on purpose, this sub can
drive a Dom *crazy*.
Favorite IM to send: "I have been naughty and need to be punished. Spank me now, Mistress!"
Favorite IM to receive: "You are a bad sub and need to be punished! Bend over!"
3. BARBIE-SUB:
This
"sub" just likes the way she looks in leather fashions. She is afraid
of the whip, and has never seen a clamp in her life. Her favorite store
is "Dream Dresser", and her whole paycheck is spent there each week.
Favorite IM to send: "Would you like to know what I am wearing, sir?"
Favorite IM to receive: "What are you wearing?"
4. HE-HURT-ME SUB:
This
"sub", without any negotiations, talk of limits or safewords, rushes
out to a country cabin to to play with a dom she met 2 days ago online.
After letting him tie her up and whip her, she decides he is a menace
to society, and can't wait to tell all her "sub" friends he is a "BAD
Dom".
Favorite IM to send: "Sub sis, I need to pass on a warning to you!"
Favorite IM to receive: "My poor sub sis, you have got to warn everyone about this creep!"
5. I-JUST-NEED-A-MAN SUB:
This
"sub", after exhausting all her singles bar and health club meting
places, decides that the D/s world would be a good place to meet a
*man*. she really has no interest in D/s, she just needs someone to
spend the rest of her life with. She is a close relative of POOR-ME
SUB. Amazingly, when she "gets her dom", she suddenly looses interest
in any type of sex.
Favorite IM to send: "Sir, will you take care of me forever?"
Favorite IM to receive: "I have always dreamed of having a large family."
6. NO-ONE-CAN-TOP-ME SUB:
This "sub" longs to submit, yet claims no dom is strong enough to top her. Some say she is really just a domme in disguise.
Favorite IM to send: "Think you are strong enough to put me in my place, jerk?"
Favorite
IM to receive: "No, Mistress, I am really just a weak and helpless
slave. ::falling to the floor and kissing your boots::
7. SUBMISSION IS THE GREATEST GIFT Submissive.
This
submissive has stars in her eyes and naivety in her heart. She swoons
at the mere thought of a Dom, any Dom, asking her to pass the salt. She
writes her Dom's name in the corner of her notebook with little hearts
and flowers around it. She declares that there is no better way to love
than through submission, and that d/s is a "better" and "higher" manner
of loving than anything a silly old vanilla person might do. She lives
on an emotional roller-coaster, sentimental enough to cry when seeing a
long-distance phone company commercial.
Favorite IM to send: "You are all of life to me, there is nothing about life worthwhile without you."
Favorite IM to receive: "I am everything you'll ever want or need, and I'll protect you from everything."
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| Age: 29 |
| Port Charlotte,
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