I am married but my wife is not into BDSM... so am looking for another who is interested to share ideas and chat about experiences.
I classify myself as a switch because I want to experience all this type of lifestyle has to offer. On the submissive side there is nothing hotter than being bound and forced to lick pussy while enduring various forms of CBT. On the dominant side, I love to bind a womens breasts; the color purple is my favorite. I love to tie and torment a women with various forms of pain play (NOT into blood or injury) and predicament bondage; and finally I LOVE to strap a vibrator to a womens clit and make her cum over and over and over. I am SO JEALOUS of you ladies and your ability to have multiple orgasms! This lifestyle is about exploring each others fantasies (while still remaining safe, sane and consensual) enjoying each others bodies (having fun). I love to involve various forms of games in sex; things like making the sub endure a handful of forced vibrator orgasms, when her clit becomes super sensitive then I make her eat me; I won't remove the vibrator from her throbbing sensitive clit until I cum; I have received some very motived head this way.. all you doms with female subs give this one a try I love to make "sexual favor" bets or compete in sports or games where the winner gets their fantasy granted. I feel a mix of fun, edginess, a sharing of ones most private thoughts; a very intimate relationship. I believe that one's fantasies should not just be an unfulfilled dream. I enjoy a certain amount of pain; as light/medium pain can be very stimulating. The endorphins build up and it makes the orgasm so intense. The most pain can be endured if you can see that your suffering is really satisfying to your partner. Heavy pain with a mentally disinterested top is not sexually exhilaratingly it is just pain (Ouch.. no thanks). I love to enjoy BDSM sessions for 1 to 2 hours (or longer occasionally). Except for quick sex in weird places I am really not into the wham-bam-thankyou-mam mode of sex. I want enough time to become completely focused on the mental, physical and emotional aspects of the sexual activity. Blindfolds are often good at bringing mental focus and heightening the sense of touch (not to mention the anticipation of what is going to happen next).
