1/12/2018 8:52:31 AM: I don't know what to think about this site. Sometimes it is just a matter of timing. I have written people long emails I have done short. I get people who contact me first and some that don't. I get a wide variety as do most people on here. I have a hard time with the people that say they will delete you if you just have a short message. I have a hard time with people that instant block other people when they just ask a simple question. I can understand some people get tired of others but don't take it out on random people you don't know. I know people who instant block others on here, Facebook, fetlife, any of the systems. I have been blocked by people like this myself. I do nothing wrong but it happens. For example there was a couple on here and they had all photos of the guy. Nothing of the girl, I suggested to put one of the girl and they said 'No, instant block'. I don't care, I wasn't interested besides friends in this lifestyle. I found that rude and uncalled for but I won't loose any sleep over it. I know friends are made at other friends and they block on FB. If you have a problem just say it, don't block and if you don't want to talk to people, just say it. Odds are they will leave you alone and if not, then you block. Sorry, I just felt like I had to rant for a little..