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Hello,
I am a 28-year-old man who is safe, sane, responsible, well-educated, and stable (financially and socially). I have traveled large parts of the world (and have the pictures to show it), stay current, and can uphold my end of aconversation (and not just about sex and kink). By all outward appearances, I am a perfectly normal, perfectly respectable person.
But I also have a deep and abiding interest in dominance. This is mainly about control and submission. I am not naturally a sadist and dont derive muchenjoyment from senseless pain or physical abuse. What thrills me is the idea of a woman submitting to my control and surrendering to me the responsibility for her satisfaction and mine.
To me, a submissive is not someone who lacks self-worth or dignity. Rather, she is someone searching for the right space to trade her daily cares and responsibilities for the safety of a firm embrace and the comfort of knowing her body is truly desirable and desired, that it gives such pure pleasure and fills the senses. There is, I think, freedom in that letting go. I want to explore that and, if you and I connect, I want to explore you physically and emotionally.
However, Im not looking for 247. Id hope you can hold your own and be your own person when the ball gag is off -- that there can be communication between us about what works and what doesnt, about your needs and mine. And, of course, it should be natural and easy to transition out into the real world, where you would be a confident, accomplished person.
For me, dominance and submission are psychological. Dominance isnt about forcing a woman to do something against her will, it is about creating the right conditions so that she feels permitted -- perhaps compelled -- to do the shameful things that she has secretly wanted to do all along! Submission is a gift, and should be treated as such.
PS I am completely discreet and respectful of privacy. In fact, I will insist on it for my own personal and professional reasons.
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