I was
introduced to D/s about two years ago realised that my previous
relationships/marriages were unfulfilling because there was always a
dynamic missing that I could not, at that time, identify. They did,
however, produce my three children of whom I am very proud and to whom
I am a very loving and committed father.
I currently work in the financial services
sector in Manchester City Centre and live on the outskirts of the city
and, in the interests of practicality, would like to meet someone based
in the North. I have some good friends both inside and outside of the
lifestyle and enjoy my life.
I am now waiting to meet that submissive female; someone I can give a
lot of love and attention and indeed guidance in the type of
relationship I seek and hopefully as a natural consequence, I can make
her life happy and fulfilled too. I am NOT interested in a Master/slave
relationship as I have many doubts about the practical application of
that dynamic in the ordinary 'everyday' world. What I seek is someone
with whom I can have a loving and fulfilling vanilla relationship but
with the added dimension of a D/s dynamic in private and, indeed, if we
decide to explore the scene/club events of this wonderful lifestyle. My
particular interests are detailed within this profile.
I have always gravitated towards women younger than myself; I guess
that's why I have a much younger outlook than my age would indicate.
Ideally between 40 and 50 years of age, my submissive will be
intelligent, articulate, a mother and will share my love of music. She
will need to possess a strong sense of humour as I consider that I can
be quite humorous, a bit mad and I love to laugh. She will be a happy,
outgoing lady who is content and settled in her life generally. She
will be independent, loyal, faithful, possessive but not jealous and
someone who values her life outside of a relationship in terms of
family, friends, career and interests. Someone who is ultimately
seeking a long term committed vanilla relationship but with the magic
of the D/s dynamic ever present.