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IF any submissive form is serious about wanting a true connection they will take the time to actively READ what a Dominant writes. This includes the ENTIRE profile and journal entries. I believe that a submissive form will take the time to try to understand what a Dominant is seeking and looking for.

I am a Sadistic FtM Female to Male Dominant. I Love to inflict sadistic intense mental various types of respectful pain. I Love to test limits and My skills with like minded slave/subs. I Love Domestic service the act of dedication and surrender of the slave/sub’s own personal's needs and ideas to please their Owner. These two factors are what catch and hold My attention within BDSM. I don’t like MY time wasted for those who dream of the Lifestyle go away. I Live it and seek only ACTIVE REAL TIME servitude from those who know what COMMITMENT DEDICATION WORSHIP RESPECT and OBEDIENCE Means.

I am Actively seeking a 24/7 TPE non consensual male or female SLAVE. This is a live in D/s pain slut, domestic skills, or a personal assistant position male or female. This person must be RESPECTFUL, HONEST (within themselves and their current.. right now skills and living situation), COMMITTED, ACTIVELY SEARCHING (not dreaming of it). I see all male slaves who serve Me as "butler and or pain" types, toys for My amusement. The male or female who can converse respectfully and seeks the dynamic that I see both mentally and physically will live within My House if I see a TRUE duel balance of mutual ideas and common beliefs.

I am also seeking local to My area event submissive’s that have the above required mannerisms. You should be comfortable attending local events, in a mask if worried, or non if you are fine with being seen. Gender does not matter for this role your attention for detail, following commands, matters. I attend many social bar munches, fetish or BDSM event parties and I consult in various public venues. If I invite you to attend to one of them it is ONLY to meet with Me in person. To show you that...(1) I am a REAL PERSON and (2) to give you the option to meet with Me in person. This is not a "sure thing you will be My slave" it is just social outing not a date...some of you have to get over yourself. I do this often as I know it may be hard to meet O/other's in the fetish and BDSM Lifestyle.

If you have willing to relocate in your profile listing checked off. Then make sure you put area limitations (only Uk, only USA, internationally or local area only). How hard is it to express what it is that you are seeking and wanting? Why fail to clarify this in your own profile? If Dominants have to ask you what it is that you seek or how far you are willing to move to then obviously your profile was not clear. Those who are WILLING TO RELOCATE must be able to do so within 3-6 months. I am NOT LOOKING FOR slave COUPLES. This means that you have already looked into what is required to close of your affairs and personal assets. For those who are looking into this you would have already started to downsize your affairs.

Building a D/s or M/s relationship is NOT about how many holes that can be filled but how you SERVE and carry out Tasks Orders and Commands. Punishments are punishments. Rewards are rewards. Impact play is a means of teaching new self limitations discipline to the slave. Discipline is a means of correcting the unwanted behavior not the person. Mind Fuck is a form of BDSM performance not to be used to destroy or strip down a human being.

Many things that I seek and look for are already answered in My Journals. My interests listed here within BDSM/Fetish are a LIMITED combination of what I look for in a submissive and what I enjoy performing.This goes for both genders minus the castration of course towards females. Not all what I enjoy are listed on here as the selection is limited I have and do more activities. If you ask something that is already posted here or answered in My journal then...I will know that you did not take the time to actively read to learn more about Me. Then again you might just be a complete idiot and not worth MY time.

If you don’t know proper means of respectful communication and how to conduct yourself then don’t bother to send Me a message. I am NOT interested ni reading how big you think your cock is or how small or how much cum you can swallow. Or for you to tell Me that "I am intense, mean or My pics look hot". I don’t believe in constant email messages that repeat themselves in various ways. Nor do I enjoy reading 5-10 word emails that some of you send via 6 emails to say what could be stated in a paragraph. I can see why some of you are alone behind a computer or device and not in a D/s or vanilla relationship. If you are local and set up an in person meeting with Me and cancel or make excuses you will be also blocked. Don’t call Me “Mizz Mistress or Ma’am” that is not My NAME I sign off each message journal entry with My name. All of these do not impress Me and it will get your messages deleted and you blocked.

If your profile does not have a picture and you are not willing to do provide one then move on. IF you have NO intention of making a phone verification or in person meeting (those locally) then move on. I will only remind you of the picture TWICE (2 times). Then I am NOT interested in you. At that point if I am still talking to you it is out of Me being bored if I don't you have bored Me and I see no reason to continue the pointless conversation. I do not “yahoo or im message nor an I interested in your email address ” So don’t sent Me this information or ask Me as I will know you have not read My profile. I Skype text chat ONLY and you can download this free on any portable device. My handle for this is at the end of each journal entry signature ASK if I want to chat with you don’t just try to add Me I will deny you request. This form of communication is to only to get to know you better via life text chats. NOT TO SEE YOUR DICK OR TITS OR TO SEE YOU STROKE YOUR VARIOUS PARTS ONLINE nor is this for ONLINE SESSIONS. I will not answer your questions or statements if you CAN NOT FOLLOW online simple rules and procedures. If you fail these simple matters it shows the type of person that you are and what I am not willing to have live with Me or serve Me at and event.

ALL PICS ARE OF ME IN VARIOUS FORMS OF BDSM ACTIVITIES WITH FELLOW BDSM PERFORMERS PAST AND CURRENTLY. Or Me on My motorcycle. If you are more so concerned with "who's" in the pictures then it tells Me that you are NOT READY to step out from behind your computer or mobile device and Actively in Real time perform any of the activities that those who are seen in My pictures have and are currently performing. Besides that you show a sense of jealously and insecurity that these folks have the guts to do what you fail to do yourself. Don’t try to chat Me up with bullshit of what fantasies you have. If you are new to the Lifestyle then say so. Don't act like you have being in it for years. Be real with whom you are and the level that you are at. If you want to make an honest connection why start out with lies? My limits are unsafe sex, illegal activities or behaviors, unconstitutional children and images seen by minors, and sexual activities towards or involving animals. Pics 9-11 are of My BBW event pain slut a wonderful woman who I have known and performed on for 20yrs.

Those of you who ARE Serious you have an even harder time to work as Many of Us (Dominants) have heard the same lines over and over again with NO follow up only lies and excuses. If you are not a person who believes in yourself and the skills that you have to offer then don't expect anyone else to believe in you. Proving oneself is key in this Lifestyle. I can come across Many on this site who FAIL to be HONEST WITH THEMSELF and spew who they "want to be or become" in hopes of making a connection. In these mannerisms they FAIL THEMSELVES.

Remember that your first impression on here is no different than if you were in a coffee shop or bar in person. It should be easier for you to express your needs and desires CLEARLY and RESPECTFULLY as you would if you were face to face with someone.

I wish the rest of A/all of you on this site good luck in your searches.

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1/16/2016 7:49:09 PM: Currently looking for female slaves. This is a Live in position. Must be willing to meet in person, speak over the phone and be self relocatable. Duties include but are not limited to: will learn aspects of discipline, punishments, Protocols for both vanilla interaction as well as social BDSM interactions. Age appropriate to enter into bars and over (21yr) venues. Must be able to work unsupervised both Domestically and when visiting other residences in Silent Service. Not looking for a slut or whore or someone who dresses like one. Looking for a mature woman who values her self presentation.

10/18/2015 5:22:01 PM: For those submissive forms on this site that are Local to Toronto Ont. I will be attending the Everything to do with Sex Show. Running this Oct 23-25 Hall B of the Enercare Centre, Exhibition Place (Formerly known as the Direct Energy Centre) 100 Princes' Blvd., Toronto, ON, M6K 3C3 You find Me at one of the folllowing booths BARE RESTRAINTS or BARBIE BITCH. I will be performing hands on light demonstrations to the 'vanilla and those who are interested in 'kink' at the two various booths. Feel free to stop by and get a spanking or live out a humiliation experience. Looking forward to seeing you there.Syr Tigressnla

8/20/2015 9:30:35 PM: Another worthless tool who sent Me a message proving how worthless and unwanted that he is. If you question the Rules Structures and Protocols that are outlined within My profile. Then it is CLEARLY proven that you (peterpony..or whatever the fuck), that you do not understand the BDSM Lifestyle. Why would ANY Dominant figure want you when you rant your insecuritis about following Commands Orders or Instructions? Is it not to better understand what is NEEDED WANTED and DESIRED of the Dominant figure regardless of gender or sexual orientation. How do you expect to find a sutied D/s Dynamic. If what a Dominant states what they are seeking intimates you and your insecurities that you feel the need to bring to attention your incompatance? Sadly for you even having a woman put in writing, what she wants desires and needs, you still fail and feel insecure about your lack to please them. How can you call your self a sub or slave if when reading a profile you question the stated Structure and dicipiline that is wanted. 'too much rules' you say well listen here you little Fuck tard LIFE HAS RULES deal with it. Eveyone here on this site seeks someone who will or can complete their life. Be it to assist in handy, domestic, papering, shopping, sexual, or whatever other services that they so incline to seek. IF reading the mannerisms of what A/another person desires in the manner of how T/they wish to be served scares you GET OFF THE SITE. Stick to your free porn sites and dvds with your two hands and a bottle of lube stroking! That way you still can have a meanless connection, you can remain unstructured like the message you sent, and you don't have to LEARN how to please another person with higher STANDARDS than your pathetic self! Your the type of person who has never been to to a Fetish/BDSM event or venue to see what goes on in REAL life. OR you would the RULES and Structures that are in place for SSC/RISK mannersisms that safe guard those in Fetish/BDSM activities. Your the type who would cause harm to themself by clearly NOT thinking and then scream that it was the other persons fault that you got hurt. Sadly your so clueless to even see that you yourself have a daily or weekly sets of routines. Yet if someone where to ask you to write it down you would be able to. BUT OH NO if ANYONE else has structure rules and protocols you feel the need to point out that their you mannerisms are 'Too Much'. Go Fuck a cantalope or a silicone hand tube...your a sad little insecure boy. Continue to scroll the site and learn how worthless you are to A/another. Don't worry I am in NO WAY offended by your stupid message. In fact I will use such stupidity for My next workshop to teach O/others the dangers of people like yourself who are to incomptant to look futher than a 'quick' relealse of the dangers that this Lifestlye has to offer both physically mentally and emotionally. Without structure rules protocols a person regardless of what side of the D/s dynamic WILL and CAN be hurt if not killed! I can understand why you post no picture of yourself! Who would want to see another worthless loser with no structure, ambition, who can't live up to the basics of disiciipline to please A/another or yet themself. ......Thanks for the laugh at your expense (peterpony or whatever fool you are)Syr Tigressnla

7/22/2015 7:39:09 PM: There s protocol to call yourself a slave..a gentleman never visits a lady without a gift...what has happen to good old fashioned chivalry...A man brings flowers, candy, trinkets, mementos to his 'date.' That use to be called 'wooing.' Gone are the days of such mannerisms.There is something wrong with this generation...Women are still Superior to men and always will be... you need to recognize that first...Get on your knees...pay homage in the manner that is required and fitting for the Dominant not your selfish needs , be fearful, be a perfect submissive/slave...let yourself be taken into rapture without paying at the door...You do not have to go to the door that says ' Pay.' Most of those doors are plainly marked...and some of you knocked at it But not every Dominant is seeking a quick impersonal session. Now it seems that it is about money sex and 'play with my willy'. These folks (so called sbmissive ad slaves) seek to entertain themselves not the Dominant. They show up EXPECTING their needs to be fulfilled not the value of what the Dominant has to offer. Nor the expenses or experiences that the Dominant has. Gifts for some Dominants can and are errands, tasks, or trade skilled offered also. My boys assist in such manners as Owning a House DOES cost money for touch ups, renovations landscaping etc. They tend to such manners by washing My bike, painting the laundry floor, assisting in electrical wiring, cooking skills, assisting Me in building fetish furniture, detailing My truck, landscaping, appliance repair etc. These I consider these skilled gifts of sweat and of personal service not just store bought items. They have more meaning than flowers..(that I am allergic) to or chocolate (that ends within an hour) as these hold longer lasting value to Me besides increasing the value within My House. These 'tributes or mementos' are seen and enjoyed by A/all who come by. I have slaves that are and have been with Me for now 20+ years. Our Dynamic is one of servitude respect and overall friendship. They know what is needed and wanted by Me. I value My crew and lead or try to guide them only on positive ways and mannerisms for their lives. It is not about sex money or gifts. It IS about Devotion on B/both sides. One who guides the other who follows.I have witness some brash, unintelligent slave boys/men who are only looking to be relieved...they are not really into this incredible life style. Just a quick release of sexual fetish self desires. Syr Tigressnla

6/15/2015 6:19:35 PM: Sending out a few messages to My long distance and local sub/slaves who have messaged Me with kind wishes and thoughts. I hope that they all are doing well since the last time W/we have chatted. As for the wankers fakes and trolls... I hope that you remain denied and lost in cyber screen jerking off. It is those few of you trolls that make others who are real difficult to find a connection. Syr Tigressnla