I want to feel close to something vital, and I want to give myself to a man who knows how to take me. That's why I'm here. I have always associated sex with struggle, one in which the male completely overpowers and overwhelms the female. More extreme aspects of BDSM (fire play, full bondage, piercing, etc.) have no appeal for me. However, I am in no way opposed to physical and mental intensity, and, if you're interested in showing me who's boss, I'd love to hear your methods. 

As a note: I know no one ever really thinks of themself as an idiot--especially on this site--but if you suspect you might be one, please do not contact me.