Seeking a submissive   

Although my handle/nickname may come across "extreme " 

I also like to spank, paddle, slipper and use a hair brush on the buttocks.

I was raised in a rather buttoned-hole...stiff collar.... high starch smart service family.

Where sex was never mentioned, so I became rather a non-sexual person.

I discovered the SM scene in Germany when I was serving in the army....

A mix of vanilla and kinky fun would be ideal.

I am very  understanding , educated, would consider to wine and dine on the first meeting with-out play. 

Or just meet for a coffee or afternoon tea somewhere !

I would be happy to socialize with you on the BDSM scene.

Attend low key local munches

Or just play in private.... or what ..... ever suits you..

Please note-
I have had requests for 24/7 slavery !!

This is very demanding  for both dominant/submissive and from experience, it just does not work long term.

Would you be willing to wear a collar 24/7 ?

Even to work ?

Ok.....

For the person who contacted me who mentioned a collar was worn to work for her-Master for a long period of time .

I must admit I am very impressed .... so well done !!!!!

Thank you for your time sending me the message .....

I am so pleased for you.

I stand corrected....lol

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Although I am interested in a 24/7 relationship .....

I am also interested in a relationship that involves BDSM play
Not to put any genuine person off....

Please read the..  "story of O "   may be of interest to you.

I like the idea of  "submission" for what ever length of time, so if 24/7  suits you let me know your thoughts ?

Also have you  tried  "objectification" long term role-playing games.........with consistent actions........?

My assertiveness is based on common sense..

          My Philosophy

Never hurt more than necessary and  "create experiences you both want to create"

My preference is hand warm up or light paddle or cane,.....mm

With most increasing and varied intensity while I use appropriate tools.

Continuing until we both receive the pleasure we seek !

Have Fun !!!!!