PLEASE READ THE WHOLE PROFILE!!

Update: I am not taking applications right now. Im mainly just wanting to make friends right now, you know ppl to chat with. I have a 3 year old child as well.

About me. OK, I started about ten years ago brand new, when I met my other half. I had about a year to learn and discover the leather world. But way things were we could not practice at home and I was not really able to discover what I liked or was into. So, we ended up going vanilla for 9 years, then early last year we tried again and things didn't pan out so we decided to branch out on our own. (we have a pretty open relationship we've been together for 10 years) So, I am not completely brand new green in the lifestyle, but I am somewhat inexperienced and hoping to make new friends.

I have very little actual real experience, yes, I am real..but I am just beginning with the D/s lifestyle. Yes I want real life, But I mean how does one figure out what one wants out of life if you don't get out there and do it. That's what I'm looking for. Don't come waggling your bits at me, begging me to spank you or berate you because that's what YOU want. I am very caring. I'm not into humiliation.

I am NOT interested in whores!!! I don't go to bars, or clubs of any kind, this is not my style.

What I am looking for is an obedient submissive, who is not always looking for sex. I need housework, and yard work done. I'm not looking for complete exclusivity, I may want to have more than one sub. I have a family, nudity is NOT an option. Must be willing to do real work and not mind getting dirty. Please be LOCAL to me.