UPDATE TIMES TWO:

This is what want looks like, some of it is what need looks like:

A friend

A lover

Someone with inner strength who will not disappear when things become difficult.

Someone that at the end of the day who wants to hold hands while waiting for sleep to come and discuss the this and that of our day.

Someone who laughs, finds humor in the absurd, in me and our life together.

The need to be someone's priority, maybe not number one, but on the list.

The want to be able to bring pleasure to him.

The want to be able to show my service in the thousand ways that make up life..whether it is keeping a nice home, sharing the joys and burdens of family, cooking, teasing...

The want to share the quirky and silly side of me, as well as the serious side.

I am a homebody who loves to learn and explore...and therein lies the dichotomy.

I would like to share me with someone who is real, understands that real is not the kink, but the day to day...the sharing, the caring, the desire to give and to take.

As with most things in life this is a work in progress.  Please bear with me as I try to define who I am, who and what it is I am seeking.

Whether you are an "old" friend or new, please stop and say hello.

Thank you for taking the time to read this.