Collarspace

Do NOT contact me if you are not serious about the lifestyle. If you approach me in conversation be prepared NOT to waste my time if you are not serious. NO gamers, NO quick fix, NO temporary players, NO subs who try to top from the bottom or pretend to be something they are not.

Do not come to me with conversation of stating how I should view submission or slavery. Yes it is a process of negotiating, but never a process of dictating the dynamics of the Ds partnership. If the intention is to seek possibilities it must done without prejudice, misunderstanding, or judgement. This process will be done with patience not haste.

I am serious about my domination, and seek a sensual male submissive(s). Must have the capability of tuning in instinctively to this Mistress. My submissive(s) must fully understand the concept of Ds and you must feel it naturally. The submissive must truly and naturally want to please, observe and sense what this Dominant is communicating and be able to translate that into the right thing to do. You must be able to beg easily with tenderness and surrender gratefully and sweetly. Accept denial and orgasm control and understand the reaction from this action and its expansion. Must accept that sensuousness is the rule and pain is given and received as a of sensuous stimulation. Light pain as opposed to severe. You must enjoy some of bondage, humiliation (not degradation of your masculinity). I have four rules Sensuality, Devotion, Obedience, and absolute Loyalty.

This Dominant does not like the situation of constantly repeating and forcing a particular behavior (submission) to occur, and feels when a compatible submissive is found that things will happen as a progression of the interaction. It is not the activities but the willingness of surrender as the result of my sensual Domination. Creativity and emotional methodology is an important part of the LTR. This behavior for this Mistress has always been part of her life.

This relationship will be based on intellectual aspect, into the philosophy, psychology mechanism of this lifestyle. You must be able to understand the concepts and consequential interactions and can put it into real time.

There must be common ground if not then I wish you the best.