Time for an update on the profile, I think. 

I like filling in the blank. I consider myself a switch, and comfortable with being both dominant and submissive, though because I have a harder time finding dominant partners I have to admit I'm more open to finding someone to play the sub for (lean strongly toward submissive if given the choice). But dom or sub, I really do love scratching someone else's psychological or fetish itch.

I particularly enjoy playing the missing component for a couple--in part because I enjoy the dynamic, but also because as someone very much in flux it's easier to feel needed when there is more than one person's needs to entertain. 

As for the insanely long list of love/like/dislikes CM has us click away at, I'm sure there are things on there I could delete or add, but the list is an accurate reflection of past experiences and curiosities, so I think I'll leave it for now.

I love to talk and meet new people, but I don't keep chat programs up and running during the day. It's a personal preference. I am happy to meet face to face or email back and forth with possible play partners, but I just don't use Yahoo Chat or anything like that.  My schedule is a bit wild, but if I respond or reach out, I sincerely have an interest--I might not be able to rush out the door for that cup of coffee, but I do want to get to know you. 

I hide most of my face for the same reason a lot of us do--sometimes it's just safer to not have that floating around out there. (Same reason I don't show my ink.) I do love taking semi-erotic photos, though--I think manipulation of light and posing to anonymize (fake word! I like it!) ourselves can be a lot of fun. I'm a part time photographer and a part-time art model, so if you have an interest in photography (even if it doesn't involve play) I'd love to hear from you. 

Thanks for taking the time to read my profile. Cheers, all.