Collarspace

Let's face it... the men and women on this site are generally looking to get laid. However, what most haven't figured out is that you just have to be yourself, normal, real, respectful, and fun.

The problem for most though, is that they have just a second or two to catch someone's attention. Whether it be through a message or a profile, there needs to be something on there that people can relate to, and are interested in... In general (and we all hate generalities, don't we?), women get that... and we men don't. What makes me different than what you typically see on here? I do actually think between these ears. Would I like to get laid tonight? Sure, who wouldn't? But let's be realistic... meeting a stranger for sex isn't exactly what most are willing to do... rather like playing russian roulette.

Who am I? I'm complicated. Feel free to take the time to figure me out if you want... I'm fairly well perverted by some standards... I love bondage, discipline, sensuality, sexuality... but does that define me? No, that is part of who I am, but there is far more to me.

I don't have a photo on here... I don't feel the need to leave corroborative evidence that I'm a sexual deviant for anyone interested to view. Sue me. Do I have a photo? Yes. Am I willing to show it? Absolutely. Will I share it simply because you ask? Forget it... let's talk and if we click enough I want to meet you, I'll happily share what I look like with you. Am I a troll, ogre, or some other hideous creature and hiding behind anonymity? Um... no, but you'll never figure that out if the only thing you look for is looks... I get plenty of glances offline to know I'm appreciated, so I don't feel the need for the approval (or not) of the online community, thankyouverymuch.

Now, that being said, don't think that I'm only about intellectualism... I'm typically a pretty damned horny bastard. (yes, I was born out of wedlock, so the term works out just fine, thanks). Anyway, I have a backhanded sense of humor, and I have a particular fondness for sitting at a ballpark, relaxing in the sun and having a beer occasionally...

but let's face it, most of us are on here for sex... so if you've managed to get to the bottom of this, I have to figure I've gotten your interest... I love toys, bondage, giving and getting oral, cuddling and spooning, blindfolding my partner, and generally nibbling, licking, sucking, tying down, and otherwise exerting my control over my partner to the point that at the end of the experience she is left a quivering heap of womanflesh....

If I didn't, I'd never expect to be invited back.