Collarspace

I am a slave at heart, looking to learn more about my inside desires. i am also somewhat of a switch to my husband. I’ve been called a Sadistic Masochist. lol. I believe i could be a slave for the right person. It is important that the person i'm seeking will click with the both my husband and I. That doesn't necessarily mean You would Dominate both of us, Just that we all get along. That should make sense ~smile, I am not new to the lifestyle, and neither is my husband.

I am a very sensual woman who can be a very soft personality, or very brash, depending on the situation. I am intelligent and expect the same from the One i'm looking for. WIITWD is also about the mental aspect and the mental dynamic between the people doing it. Sex can be a part of it, but i tend to separate them a bit in my mind. Pain is from one place and sexual pleasure is from another. Yet, a good sexual scene is yummy also! I have been told i'm a caring, compassionate person who can be loyal and honest to a fault. Integrity means a lot to me. I am sincere and sensitive and usually wear my feelings on my sleeve, as they say. I tend to analyze things, sometimes too much so. The most used word i hear about me is sweet, soft and adorable. oy! Then again we never see ourselves as others do, now do we?

I would honor a Dominant and give complete faithfullness to them by giving a heart to share, to be able to fill the desires One has , to bring ease, truth, love and compassion, to know and obey and to understand those things that are shared, and hold those values close to my heart

In looking for a Dominant, the ideal person would be caring, consistent, knowledgeable, not play games and have an understanding of where the vanilla life comes into context. Someone who understands what it takes to be with someone that has limitations due to health and some disabilities, as i'm diabetic for one, and have arm limitations also. I believe that it is not the whip that produces the slave within, but the mind that does. Understanding, communication and more communication is always necessary whether your mode d'employ is phone, computer, in person, email. Are you sadistic both physically and mentally? I seek someone who will allow me to grow both physically, mentally and emotionally. The way One talks, looks into your eyes and engulfs your soul is very important too. Namaste