I'm not a slave.  I'm not a "scene" type of girl.  I am the type of girl who needs daily structure and guidance.  I prefer the type of man who takes control, sets healthy rules and boundaries and disciplines failures.  I need a strong man who can maintain his position and not give in easily.  I do not need an asshole who is stuck on himself.  It's about being better.  I want to be a better person for myself and I want to be the best person for the man I am with.