If you're looking for an instant local hook-up or a quick place to run to ... look elsewhere.

We plan on taking the next couple years to find and get to know the right person for us.

We are looking for a younger man (25+ please), in decent shape (or willing to work very hard for it), intelligent and well educated (self-educated is just as good as school-taught), with a sense of adventure and fun. 

Submissive obviously, but not blindly obedient. Someone who we can take along to the theater or gallery as well as have our way with in the shadows.

The goal is not a vapid brainless ken doll sex toy. We're looking for a confidant and muse. Someone who is equally comfortable taking care of the day to day operations of our home as well as conversing at length about various topics both trivial and far reaching.

Sex for us is a full spectrum activity. Sometimes serious and thought out, other times spontaneous and maybe even a little playful. Also not always kink involved. We're not hardcore into any particular type of sex or even kink, but we enjoy exploring and trying out new things.

If this sounds like the experience you are looking for, feel free to contact us with comments and questions. As stated earlier we intend this to be a detailed process to find the right person.

Show respect and you will receive it. Pictures appreciated, but not required in early communications.