Im not interested in online domination, so if thats what you want dont message me. 

Well im a friendly, slightly sadistic, and sometimes shy domme, mainly looking to chat to people in the essex and london area.

Ive become a little jaded with sites like this i guess. 
 
I adore physical play and want lots of input and reactions from my subs or switches.  I dont see that as a weakness, I see it as a way of actually getting better play out of a session and also learning new stuff. 

Mainly though I guess I want to get respect from those I choose to see.  Ive got past the need to put notches on my bedposts, and while it doesnt need to be serious, I would like at least some level of friendship.

One thing that amuses me about these sites is the amount of cut and pasting that goes on when mailing people.  I mean telling me what an interesting and great profile I have when all it said is I will fill this out later is prehaps going over the top a bit.

So please dont cut and paste me messages for a start :)

Also chances are I will not reply if you dont have a picture attached, so it will help if you take the time to send me one.

Im a weird mixture of things for a Domme and believe that I need another Dom or switch to tussel and play with.   Im happy to talk to subs or those who like sub activities but you need to have some fight in you or you will bore me to tears.

As far as my switching goes im not interested in being anyones sub or slave so dont bother asking, though I do like having dominants as lovers as long as your ego can handle me and we actually can have a laugh and not just bitch at each other :)

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