I'm starting my profile ALL over.  I guess I'm going to have to set some ground rules .

  DO NOT REQUEST CHATTING ON THIS SITE !!!! I will NOT accepT

1) I will not reply to any messages from the following:

  a) Anyone over the age of 50

  b) Anyone under the age of 30
  c) Messages that do not include a recent, "G" rated photo of sender.

  d) Any Dominants

  e) Cross Dressers.  I'm two years out of a long term relationship with a VERY passable Cross Dresser. I'm just not into that scene for the forseen future.

  f)  Anyone exspecting me to go on cam

  g)  Anyone exspecting me to give "details" of exactly what I would do to them if they were here! I'm NOT on here to chat with anyone so they can jerk off !!!!! I have stated what interests I have in the scene and thats all I will state. Until you have proven to me you are genuine.

  h) If you are just writing me to tell me my spelling is leaves a lot to be desired.

  i)  Or if you are writing to just tell me I'm ugly, or fat , etc..... Only people that are bored with thier own lives take the time to put others down that they don't even know.

   j) Anyone looking for a Domme/Mistress that has her own dungeon, and scene equipment. besides some floggers, a little rope, and paddles, canes, and some anchers in my wall framing,  I do NOT have equipment.

     Sorry if this hurts anyones feelings that I might of been chatting with.  But I have spent over a year on this site with maybe a half dozen "real" submissives, slaves. I have found 90% to be players. So I took the last week off of being on this site.

    So, now I will try and start over with what I am looking for.  I'm in search of a sub/slave, that is either local, or willing to re-locate for the right owner. Someone that is willing to serve a "limited" Mistress. I have a few medical issues. I am disabled, and living on a very minimum income. Anyone coming to live with me and serve me must be able to work to bring in some income to support thier cost of living.  They must be willing serve me as my property AND my partner when I am living my "vanilla" life as well.  But in the back of thier mind, remembering I am in charge and they serve me.

   But I need to make sure they can handle both D/s & Vanilla Life style with me.  I need someone that I can Dominate apon demand, and yet  hold conversations with, tease and laugh with. Watch TV or movies with, weather my mood is to have them be my pillow or foot stool while I do, or cuddle with me , depending on my mood.

   I'm very open and honest about myself and what I can offer a slave/sub. I stated earlier I am disabled, You would not know it to look at me.  My main issue, is "fibromyalgia", which the weather plays a VERY big part in. if its wet and cold even sometimes 2 days before a storm, i may be A LOT of pain, and unabled to physicaly session with my sub/slave. for the day, and I rare occassion a couple of days. But especialy at this time, I LOVE to recieve full body, deep tissue massages !

  Do to my finacial situation I live in a 46 year old trailer on my father's private property. The property is secluded from the town. Its located up on a small hill and totaly surrounded by woods. I own the trailer, but my father owns the property.  But he pretty much lets me do as I please.  Being my trailer is so old, it is litteraly falling apart.  And I haven't the money to fix it right now.  But its a roof over my head, and heat and hot water and food on the table. So I am Happy enough to stay put.

  I am NOT looking for a sub/slave that will support me. I want that VERY clear. As I stated, I do not have much, but I have what I "need".

  As far as dominanting, my favorite things to do in a session are as follows:  OTK spankings, CBT, tease and denile, orgasam control, possible chastity. Recieving LONG, through , full body massages. I belong to three local BDSM communities. I attend munches and play parties  whenever I can afford to. Or if I have a ride to the event. I do not own a car. so my traveling on my own is exstreemly limited. My sub/slave would be required to attend functions with me.

  Well for right now I'll leave this as is. I will more than likely add more at another time.

I wish everyone genuine the best of luck in your search for your match.

  Mistress Darlene

i haven't had the chance to edit my profile. Due to family obligations, I moved in with my father 2 months ago. He is still driving and basicly taking care of himself.......but has had a few very close events that warrents someone to live with him. And since I am the only one of his children that isn't living with spouse and/or children, I was elected.

I am still hoping to find my slave/partner, i'm not sure when it will be possible? I'm stuck living with my father till he no longer needs me. And I can not honestly even guess when that will be?