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714Lovin
 Couple, 36/34, Chandler, Arizona 
714Lovin

Updated 4/9/2010

Hello and Thank you for taking the time to read our profile. 

I am a Dom that leads a 24/7 lifestyle.  I believe that the title "Master" is not taken, but rather earned through the expansion and development of one's own skills and the ability to control oneself through self-discipline.  And the patience and perseverance to lovingly stay the course as he teaches and bestow these traits on his daughter slave.   It is not something that you achieve, but rather a lifelong journey to subdue your passions to find the truest forms of dedication and devotion from yourself and your slave subjects.


It is my goal to have a small but extremely tight knit D/s family that will travel on the same road together over our life time.  A family that lives and works under my guidance where my shackled bonds are only the start to your captivity.  Where enslavement runs so deep in you that your commitment to me and our family is the anchor in which you see the world and the joy that is revealed to you is the very same  divinity and pride that I see when I look at my slave.


I live with my slave wife who has grown into being the dedicated and dutiful daughter I always knew she would become.  She adeptly understands that her training has no end and shows devotion into ever working and striving to always be better and better for her owner.  With that struggle she becomes one with me because I am on the same course with my life to improve myself.  Her service knows no bounds and she is always struggling to grow further in her enslavement.  She is my slave, but very much a switch.  She can show great strength at my command and thoroughly dominate or submit to anyone and in any way of my choosing remaining always proud of her service.   I have found a pretty little pet to call my own and she has lived with me as my slave since 6/18/2008. She relocated from Ohio to be kept as my wife, little girl, slave whore, servant, and property.  She serves her Master with pride and is 100% dedicated to being completely mine forever.  She is very petite, 5'0", 100lbs, gorgeous and opens all her holes for her ruler without question and without hesitation like the truest of all sluts. She is a work in progress and has a long way to go until perfection, but I am committed to taking her there by my side. I love her completely and am very proud of the progress she has made thus far.  I hope one day to see her become the Mistress of the house and help her owner raise another daughter slave as I have raised her and continue to lead her and our family into its great potential.  We are very eager to find the perfect candidate to join us, but we need to be very picky to ensure that we maintain the purity, harmony, and synergy that has been created in our house.


I have many years BDSM and lifestyle experience.  I have owned a few different slave for a few years each and have learned a lot about what works and what does not.  I have learned what type of slave works for me and how best to train a slave to serve my will and pleasure.  I seek only slaves that are fully committed to improving themselves, whatever their starting point, to be better, more dedicated, completely enslaved, and owned from the core of their soul with every action they take.  I seek a bond that can only be developed through a life of service.  I don't expect all slaves to serve in the same way.  I have seen how different slaves require different training to realize their true inner potential.  I don't exercise a cookie cutter training program for someone I seek to own.  I develop a curriculum that is based on her areas of lacking and take small steps to ensure that she moves forward to the place I would like her to be, ever improving those areas bringing her deeper into my enslavement.  I use intuition and mental bondage to pull her deeper into my embrace and make her heart and mind mine. 


I lead life as an exploration of myself and the connections with people that I make.  I have an incredible drive to better myself and to try new ventures.  I thrive on making goals and working to achieve them.  Most people would say I focus too much on work, but to me I am just living a life of purpose.  I live a 24/7 lifestyle with my slave.  In her I have found someone that fulfills my natural desire to lead, to care for, and to watch over.  It is my goal to include my slave into all aspects of my life. I have a yearning to be worshipped, to be respected to the extreme, and to grow and learn about myself through the instruction of her.  We are always on the lookout for another submissive to add to our family.  "Family" being the most important word there.  Someone who is completely committed to our loving and passionate home.  I long for a soft, subservient, obedient, and submissive woman who has integrity and such a high level of devotion that she can only be happy when her heart is dedicated to her mentor, her setting sun, her Master. She is confident and comfortable with whom she is. She has accepted her submissive heart and seeks only to be better in her natural role rather than trying to accept society’s preconceived ideas of who she should be. She wants to give 100% of all that she is and she has the ability to let her heart run wild in a healthy manner. I think a submissive is a woman that is so unselfish that she is only pleased when she pleases others. A slave is simply a submissive in love and will dedicate her existence to her master. She will strive to be better than she is for the will and pleasure of the one who holds the key to her lock. I need a slave to guide; a slave to lead; a slave to protect and shelter. I need these things for the same reason you need to give your heart to a Master. Together we express the duality of all that is right between a man and a woman and until my collar is around your neck it is wasted while it lays dormant.

 

 

I have had a couple of poly relationships in the past, one of which was with my slave wife.  I learned a lot about what does and doesn't not work with poly relationships.  I seek a Polyfidelitous relationship where I rule over my slaves.  They exist as very close lovers, friends, sisters, and servants.  They understand that they exist to selflessly please each other as well as please me.  Like good daughters they ensure that the family and household are always drama-free and filled with harmony and above all, love.  There is no jealousy, mind games, or drama; only the choice to submit to your Master and to the household under his rule.  There is no room for bratty girls; only selfless, subservient, loving slaves that truly want to create a solid family with us.  Some Dominants may like a bratty girl and enjoy the challenge, but I do not.  Life and D/s relationships are full of their own challenges and I am not interested in working on that type of challenge.  I need a family that will not be broken by the hardships of life and love.  A family that is pure in all its intentions and not so pure in its hedonistic exploits.  There will be a hierarchy or structure to help me keep order to the household and that structure will be always respected.  I have found that in order to build a deep, loving relationship with sister slaves that they should be completely in touch with each other and should be completely bisexual.  They will be more than friends, they will be true soul mates and have a profound dedication to each other.

 

I’m not interested in fitting any preset condition of traditional D/s protocols. I am a Free Man and as such want to create my own universe; my own dynamic that fits my world and not aligns itself with how someone else thinks how I should instruct my slave. Come to me with a completely open mind or don’t come to me at all. Some of my instruction might be similar with how another DOM raises his slave and some definitely will not. I rule my slave from the inside out. I have a collar around her mind, heart, and her slender neck. I seep into her at all levels. From her tippy toes to her crown, I make her mine.

 

There are many kinds of submissive women and generally I have a hard time excluding certain types of submissive women merely based on how they best serve. I have had subs that worked jobs and I have had subs that stay at home as house girls.  It really depends on the individual and how she best serves her Master.  How she is best put to use for her owner.  I do know that however her Master instructs her to spend her day that she should spend it with His best interests at heart. That she should perform all of her actions as if he stands above her and is hovering the strands of his flogger over her naked back. The bonds of her submission cannot comprehend distance, nor the presence of her owner.  I shape slaves based on who they already are and help them to grow within themselves.   You may be a little girl slave that longs for her daddy’s stern hand and soft touch. Maybe you are more responsive to a very sadistic Master that is extreme in governing your every action and freedom. It could be that you are a 1950’s type woman that needs a man that knows how to run a household. Perhaps you need to be treated like an animal or a piece of property and remain objectified. It is my hope that you are a combination thereof. A teacher that can only instruct one type of student is not a very good teacher at all, nor is a student that is only proficient in one discipline. I will Master you however will best achieve my aim. My aim is the perfection of you and our family union and to keep it prospering forever.


 I am open to casual play partners or part-time slaves that show firm dedication, but that are not in a situation where they can serve in a live-in 24/7 situation.  Although, I would hope after reading this you would understand by now that I seek a 24/7 long term, Master/slave relationship.  Complete ownership leading to a lifelong contract.  The levels of bdsm that I take my slave to cannot be obtained in casual affair, but more so built over a lifetime. I’m not interested in women that are married because it is a dead end road. I do not date or have sex with vanilla women at all, although I have no problem taking a slave with no experience that is deeply committed to accepting this part of her. You just have to know what it is you are and what it is you want. I’m not interested in women full of conflict or uncertainly about whom they are or what type of man they seek. She is affectionate, caring, and loving. She is soft spoken, yet she knows when to speak. She takes good care of herself for her Master. Never bratty or ego-centric, but rather charming with a warm, thoughtful, and caring presence. She is never sloppy and is exact with her movements and actions.  SHE NEVER SPEAKS WHILE I AM SPEAKING.  I don’t care about her level of intelligence, but she doesn’t act smarter than she really is nor does she play dumb. She must have the ability to listen, follow direction, and learn from her instruction.  She is uninhabited and a completely open-minded. She is able to release herself from any limits she has preconceived in her mind and allows her Master to limit her. She is not jaded nor does she hide behind a thousand layers of protective shell. She is ready for change, ready to be consumed, ready to be owned. I want to be proud of my slave; never embarrassed or ashamed of her.  I need someone that is in touch with her intuition and able to tap into her instincts to see me for what I am. She is able to relax her fears and let me in. In fact she can already feel me seep into her as she reads these words.   She understands that all relationships are hard and require work and that D/s relationships, specifically D/s Poly relationships, are equally if not harder and she is fully prepared to do the work that needs to be done for it to be successful.


I speak quietly and calmly, expecting you to open your ears when I speak.  It is of the highest importance that you have the ability to shut your mouth when I am speaking to you, listen to what I have to say, and learn.  There is meaning and purpose in my words and they should not be wasted.  I am never pleased when I have to raise my voice to be heard or am interrupted; and in fact in makes me quite angry.  Once trained you will be able to read volumes into any kind of look I give you. That is not to say I do not verbally communicate well, but I want our minds to be able to connect on a deeper level. I am very sensual in how I handle the body of my property. My sliding firm hand can penetrate you to the core. At the same time I can be very forceful and enjoy taking you how you need to be taken. I am primitive with how you get fucked or your mouth gets raped, but comfortable enough with whom I am to be gentle and sincere as well. I can go from a passionate kiss to a slap across the face in a breath. I can go from holding you so tight to drilling you like my fuck hole slave on a whim. I can be in the deepest of love with you and yet place you in the corner ignoring your tears. I can control you so completely because I spent a life time striving for complete control of myself.  I am a emotional and physical sadist, and always continue to Master these traits for the pleasure and benefit of my household.


We enjoy medium to heavy S&M (caning, crops, belts, flogging, paddling, pinching, choking, biting, hair pulling, slapping, straps, whips, electro play, needle play, and the sort), Humiliation (Name calling, spitting, piss play, corner time, and other forms of objectification and degradation.), Role-play (Age play (meaning daddy/little girl, not diapers and cribs), Rape play, abandonment, Pimp/Whore, and others) and Bondage (restraints, chains, shackles, ball gags, collars, blindfolds, hoods, cling film, typical D/s torments, and what not). We're also very sexual and like to experiment with depraved sex acts and kinks. Nothing can be too kinky. Sexually we're into oral, anal sex, anal play, rimming, strap-ons, and hardcore, very rough sex and just about anything else. We do not like things that are phony or feel like acting. There is always room for role play of course, but it should be natural and not too rehearsed or scripted. In fact, we wouldn’t really define what I do as role-playing. It’s more of how we naturally live our relationships and our life. 


I am very open-minded sexually and just like to keep things fresh and exciting. I like to hear about what turns my slave on and like her to be free to express herself about what she likes to do or have done to her. There is nothing that I consider taboo or that I think gross. There are things I’m into and not into, but I don’t judge other people based on what they are into sexually. So be up front about what you are into and you will find your sharing is very welcomed. I promise in no time you will be telling me the fantasies in your head that you never thought you would share with anyone. Those fantasies could soon be a reality.


In addition to being my slave I charge you with bringing warmth into our lives. I want you to be someone that we can spend time with. Someone who likes enjoying a nice dinner, hanging out on the couch watching a good movie, and all around able to share a vanilla life and yet at the same time ALWAYS know you are my slave and a sister slave always acting accordingly. I spend a lot of time with my slave and give her a lot of attention so I need her to be very versatile and fit a lot of roles. She will be my personal cum slut, my maid, my jester, my cocksucker, my secretary, my errand runner, my cook, my masseuse, my play thing, my fuck toy, my cuddle monkey, my whore,  sister slave, our lover, and most importantly she will be MINE and will be TOTALLY obedient in all areas at all times. She will be charged with keeping our life fresh, exciting, and drama-free. I'm a cancer, so I like to spend a lot of time being cozy at home so you should enjoy that.


We are also very hardworking and are very passionate about the work we do for our family.  If you are lazy or unproductive you will not fit in well with us.   We love our three dogs to pieces and they are a huge part of our family. If you don't like dogs you will not fit in well.  Our family comes as a whole and cannot, ever, be divided.  We really get into movies and rarely watch TV, but do love certain TV series. I like drama movies or movies that move or inspire me. I adore most kinds of music except pop, funk, hip-hop, or rap. I mostly like mellow music with strong, thought provoking lyrics or 40s/big band.  BDSM is a big part of our life and we are definitely life-stylers, 24/7.  Always looking to delve deeper into our D/s world.  We rarely play in public, but sometimes go to different fetish clubs and parties.


We are totally real so if you email us or respond to our email save us some time and include your photo, and contact information outside of this site. Let me know how you might fit with us. I’m impressed with a girl who knows what she wants and goes after it. I love eager slaves that are intuitive enough to know her DOM when he comes along. In your heart of hearts if you think I’m the master you have been looking for, show me with a sense of urgency about beginning our life together. I will take you so much more seriously if you know what you want. Due to the amount of fake, scam artists, and online fantasy seekers I do not take anyone very serious before I talk to them on the phone and meet them in person. I DO NOT HAVE CYBER SEX OR PHONE SEX. If that is what you want, you are not for us. I am on a worldwide search for a dedicated, devoted slave, but if you are not local to Arizona than you need to be free to relocate/visit here.

 

 

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4/3/2011 1:27:06 PM: Any hot couples or single females near chandler, arizona interested in Dogging?

6/26/2010 9:21:02 AM: Relocating this week to Arizona - Super HOT!

11/8/2009 10:05:39 AM: In addition to finding a 24/7 female slave to join our family we would love to find a bisexual male or female submissive / bottom to join is on professional domination sessions.  We are only looking for subs or slave that would just like to do this for fun, but will also take it very seriously.  No flakes or games.  If you are interested contact us through Collarme and we will direct your to our website for more information and we'll talk.

9/24/2009 5:24:50 PM: What is the perfect slave? My slave is always striving to be perfect for me.  When she fails at her task or behaves inappropriately she is corrected, but it at times becomes crushing in her.  She feel a deep regret and anger toward herself because she knows that she has misbehaved.  You can almost see the crushing weight of despair on her face as a million thoughts roar through her mind of what she should have done, could have done, and what she has actually done.  To me, the perfect slave is one that always tries her very best to do as she has been trained and to always learns the lesson when she has misbehaved and has been corrected.   Often times what happens when a slave is scolded for misbehaving she feels a surge of emotion that clouds her mind.  Her actions and behavior from that point forward is then influenced by that emotions and often time leads to furthering upset her Master and complicating the situation.  She might struggle to find excuses or justification of her actions.  She might start crying and show a lack of disciple while her owner lectures her on her misdeeds.  Regardless, her mind should be calm and clear so she can better understand what exactly done to upset her owner.  She should be composed and focus on his instruction and not a flurry of emotions.   I have experienced this with several slaves in my life and I don't know if it is just common with slaves that I have trained or common to slaves in general.  One thing is certain it is common in my life.   I feel that this situation is derived from the slave not having yet learned the lesson of control that her Master seeks to demonstrate to her through his example.  That she must learn that her Master seeks to control her from the inside out and that would include the control of her emotions during turbulent times.  I think, as always, it is crucial that a Master maintains his level and constant composer not get sucked into a slaves emotional state. He must subdue his passions and focus on the objective lesson there is to be learned by the slave.  This is never an easy thing for a passionate Dom, but as he seeks to perfect, he must also seek to perfect himself.   I get it that when a Master is upset with his subject that the collar on her heart is deeply fastened to her soul and any tug on that leash causes a strong impact felt to her core.   I completely understand that.  I feel like Mastering a slave is all about building this type of strong connection and ensuring that this connection is always maintained, always strong, and on the right path.  Always mastering how to control this surge of emotions that bounces around in your slave is a task not easy to learn.  Most don't want a robot slave with no emotions, but you do not want an emotional wreck either.  Finding this balance ensure the success of a Master's training and a slave's continued growth with him.  It is as if one is taming a lion of emotional passion that romps within with her.  Left uncheck most slaves lead a difficult life and is the reason they have sought a master in the first place.  It must be dealt with.  This can be accomplished by, first and foremost, pure persistence and the unwavering understanding that this is a process that is built over time and is different for everyone.  I think it requires the commitment to always be ready to stop everything at any given moment and spend as much time that is required to instill in a slave how she has behaved incorrectly and what is required of her in the future.  As well as to inflict the proper punishment on her that will incite the proper level of emotions for her to fully understand the level of her wrong doing nor, is it pushing her to far for the sin that she has committed.  The punishment truly has to fit the crime.  I think that if she begins to let her emotions run wild it is important for her Master to demonstrate how she is furthering her disobedience by acting on these emotions, if she is.  Often times this will cause her emotions to grow out of control and her behavior to deteriorate as she gets even more emotional.  For me staying the course is essential.  If a Master relaxes his lesson because of her outburst he is simply bending to her will and failing to correct the problem out of convenience.   She must be help along the path of redemption.  It is easy enough to push the slave over the edge, but the true challenge is not hurting her, but instructing her in the lessons you wish to teach.  She must be guided through the experience.  You must have enough knowledge of her and enough intuition to push he to an emotional state and throttle her back without allowing her to spin out of control.  As an emotional sadist, this is not an easy feat, but it is no different than controlling your actions during a caning or flogging session.  Subduing your passions is key here.  The point is to see her blossom, grow, and learn so bigger and better lessons can be undertaken, and not to set her up to fail.   So the perfect slave is one who never stops trying for her Master and always wants to follow and learn from his training as he instructs.  The perfect Master on the other hand, I think is one that can bring out these qualities in his slave and as he exhibits that control of his slave he exhibits that control of himself.  This perfection invites continued growth as a family.

8/30/2009 3:40:52 PM: Went to Dangon Gate's play party last night and it was awesome.  A lot of people playing which is what was lacking at the last few clubs we went to.  It was very enjoyable for sure! We really like the the liar last week, but there were not enough people playing or in attendance.  We are hoping the next time we are there the party will be more happening because the facility was awesome.

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