Hello there...a little about me.

I am not, nor am I interested in any bi-sexuality, topping, daddydoms or threesomes. I prefer to play with people who are very experienced due to the level that I like to play on. I consider myself enlightened enough to know what I like..and what I don't. I don't do Skype/cam/phone calls or cock shots. Now, if after all that, your still interested in knowing me, please read on.

I am a classy, educated, married (yes, he's in the lifestyle as well) and am looking to explore some of my BDSM interests publicly only with others.  I have been in the lifestyle since 1994 so I pretty much know my way around and know most of the players in the game.

Those are the basics folks.

Here is a little bit more about moi:

     I enjoy playful banter, good company, innocent flirting and I try not to take life to serious.   I am spiritual but don't feel like everything I do in life is a spiritual journey. I'm  not into the whole giving my life up to whatever the universe brings.  It's not always the *universe*, sometimes it's just life. I don't suffer for the sake of suffering and suffering is not *joyful* to me.  I have low tolerance for drama queens, mouthy women, whiners and emotional vampires. I really prefer being around people with a positive attitude who are willing to work hard with a smile.  Attitude and choice are what its all about.  

    I work hard, I play hard. I'm protective to a fault, honest and if I call you my friend, then its because we actually get together and you know something about me besides just my measurements.

Things I like to do: Travel to far off places (South county doesn't qualify), entertain, cook, sail, sew, tennis, good wine, good food, read, paddle board, geneology and maintain a beautiful home.

Here comes my clarity to all the wonderful people who have gotten this far: 

  I'm very comfortable with who I am and I genuinely like myself. I don't need fixing, changing or mental help. I don't need to *experience* everything. I abhor cheaters, liars, thieves, and passive aggressive behavior.  I don't do ANY drugs  nor take any medication to keep my behavior stable or make me feel good.  I like being outside and doing physical things. I love my life and feel I have been blessed 

Favorite bdsm activities

1) mind trips..........dangerous..but can be so much fun

2) canes - Yum

3) single tails - Love them..but out of practice

4) fire cupping.....and I'm pretty good at giving

5) over the knee...

6) consensual resistance play.........(NO...not rape play)

So, Enjoy the nice pics, but please be respectful.