It has been many years since I have been here, so, it is time to update this profile. Telling you who I am and what I am looking for, can not be summed up in a couple of paragraphs. In order to save you time from reading and weed out unwanted responses, I will start with what I am NOT interested in.

Please do not waste your time or mine, if you are searching for anything in the following list.

I have absolutely no interest in anything short term. Do not contact me if you are looking for hook-ups, random sessions, play groups, play dates, scenes, or individual/singular training (for you or your sub/slave). Nor do I have any interest in people wanting to remain locked up in a dungeon. Do not waste time writing, if you are only here for some variation of sexual gratification (kinky or otherwise). This includes, but is not limited to; sexting, cybersex, one night stands, lap dances, erotic massages, etc. 

"Friend" collectors, "online" only, "pic" traders, or people who want to spend months emailing, need not apply. It would be an exercise in futility for scammers, trolls, cat-fishers, or fools by any other name (you know who you are), to contact me. I will not be sending you airfare to return stateside from Nairobi.  I will not buy you from your master or some "training dungeon". I will not be providing you any of my banking information. Et cetera, et cetera, et cetera.

I am not interested in how much "lifestyle" experience, that you do or do not have. Sharing stories of your conquests, favorite positions, number of toys you have, or any of your special sexual superpowers, will leave me utterly and unequivocally unimpressed. 

If you are searching for, or are the type of person listed above...I wish you well in your search, but you should leave this page now.

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Since you are still reading, I want to congratulate you. The odds are that you are one of the 5% of people. who are not here to pretend to be someone they are not and/or trying to live out some part-time fantasy. You may even be one of the few people, I would actually like to speak to. Continue reading to find out.

As you have undoubtedly concluded, I am not here for the fulfillment of some sexual fantasy. Nor am I here to waste my time with people who are.  I have been around the block more times than the mailman. If I put notches on my bed post, it would look like a beaver attacked it. Please understand, I do not say this to impress you, but rather to impress upon you, that I am not in search of some simple kink.

I have shared plenty of things that I am not interested in. Now I would like to share some of what I would like to hear about. 

Put into the simplest form; What do you seek and what do you offer in return? Basically, I would like to know what would make you an asset to me and what would you require for your service? What type of skills and experience (nonsexual) do you have? What are your hopes and aspirations? What do you need, to be your best self?

Over the past 40 years, I have lived many lives and closed many chapters. I will always carry those experiences with me, but now I am at the crux of a crucible. As I stand at the proverbial precipice, of this new beginning, I am looking for those who are willing to follow me and take the leap together.

All leaders were once followers, yet not all followers can lead. How you define yourself or what title you have adopted, means little to me. What I do care about, is your ability to serve.

With that being said, if you list yourself as anything other than sub or slave, I will probably not be making first contact with you. The reasoning should be self-evident. If you found this profile on your own, you should not expect me to contact you, simply because you show up on the "viewing me" tab. Take a moment to introduce yourself and I will be kind enough to reply (providing you do not send a one-liner).

In summary: I am searching for those with a servants heart, who I can help shape into their best self, while aiming their efforts toward a greater goal. I am looking for people, who want their skills and abilities used efficiently, to better all of our lives. 

I care more for loyalty and dedication, than I do for experience or skill set. Most everyone can be trained to be of some use. Not everyone can be devoted. 

A little bit about myself:

First off, in person, I try to be more approachable and humble, than I ever could seem in a profile. With that being said, I am rather self-assured, with a healthy dose of "amour propre". Then again, how many great men weren't at least borderline narcissistic?

Are you conceited, if you have evidence to support your claims? I do not feel the urge to be the best at any one thing, because I am good at just about everything I try.

You may not have picked up on it through my writing, but I often use humor and quick wit to disarm people. Although, often times you will find truth in jest. I am also confident enough, that I can easily make myself the brunt of a joke; especially if it will make someone else feel better about themselves. 

Every I.Q. test I have ever taken was scored in the genius level (even the one I took while inebriated). See it is funny because I was intoxicated when I took the test, but the truth in jest, is that I really did score that high. Pun intended.

I got my diploma at 17 after attending 14 different schools. I was a military brat, so, I have traveled all over. This has given me a rather unique perspective and I can blend in just about anywhere. I am equally comfortable having dinner with "blue bloods" and politicians, as I am with ditch diggers and gang bangers.

I know a little bit of a lot of different languages, but I always act as if I know less. I almost always root for the underdog. I hate bullies with a passion. I am always willing to go one step further than my opposition. I push people to reach for their potential. 

In my youth, I was a prize fighter and backroom brawler. I can be intimidating to many people, because of my stature and presence. It has been said, "Before the boogeyman goes to sleep, he checks his closet and under his bed, to make sure I am not there." I am very protective of my people, so there are times when that comes in handy. 

I am a serial entrepreneur (been involved in many different businesses in various fields). I am more interested in creating jobs and bettering the lives of people around me, than I am with the idea of becoming "rich". 

I started my first business and hired my first employees when I was 12. I have been lucky enough to meet many amazing people and mentors. Before I was 30 I had lost almost everything twice, in two different hurricanes.

I have lived on the street and I have been well to do. I prefer the latter. Money can't buy happiness, but it can get rid of a whole lot of unhappiness. By no means am I rich, but I live better than most people. 

I became a father before I could legally buy alcohol. A few years later, I became a single father raising a little girl. If it wasn't for my mother and sister (sometimes), I would have ripped all my hair out. Now my daughter is grown and at the University, studying to be a doctor.

When I was a teen, I was introduced to cuckolding. The stories that could be told, originating in military housing, could make a porn star blush. A few years later, I was taught to be a Pro-Dom (male version of a findomme). I was paid to tour multiple private and public dungeons. Training multiple findommes was more fun and much more financially rewarding.

I listed nothing sexual in the "interests" section, because to me, these are just skills and they are easily taught. My interest in being back here, runs deeper that just kink or sex.  As a matter of fact, serving me is by no means a guarantee that we would ever have sex. Nor would that dictate your level of importance to me. 

Sadism from me, is something to be feared. If I what to harm you sadistically, there is a problem and you will be promptly and unceremoniously dismissed. "Funnishment", on the other hand, is a skill to be utilized as a reward. If you are the type of person who likes to anger others to get "punished", you would not do well here.

I will probably update and or adjust this in the near future. Feel free to ask me anything you wish. You may refer to me as Don.

p.s. Congratulations for reading this far.

I am a serial entrepreneur (been involved in many different businesses in various fields). I do not feel the urge to be the best at any one thing, because I am good at just about everything I try. I am more interested in creating jobs and bettering the lives of people around me, than I am with the idea of becoming "rich".