I heard someone say once, 'you know a surefire way to rule out someone as your true love? they won't be the one telling you they aren't interested' ...
What happens when they say that they are your true love and just don't act like it? there's another cliche for that: actions speak louder than words.
Now people bend for their true love, they push and pull, they give the benefit of the doubt - and arguably they should.
But if this individual's words are rarely consistent, your heart and mind will fight a battle.
Your heart, but somehow not your love, dies that death of a thousand cuts - one for every lie. You will grow heavy as you allow your lover to hollow you out. And you will stumble trying to lean on someone who isn't really there.
Whatever perfect looks like, that isn't it.
Hehehehe :)
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To whom it may concern,
writing nothing in your profile or 'if you want to know, ask..' is ..kind of retarded. Ask about what? Want to know about who? You are a fuzzy cam pic.
I want to know why you're on collarme, what direction you're moving in (possibly based on prior experience), any particular interests in play you might have had..reading you'd done that you have an opinion on..whether you're a fetishist or have an interest in 24/7 lifestyle bdsm..etc.
People respond based on the content and quality of your profile. And your blank shit is not very entertaining :(
Not related to bdsm, I just love a shared hatred of hipsters.XHTTPX//lookatthisfuckinghipster.tumblr.com/
People are real fuckin annoying.
I *really* like discussion, but for the love of christ, leave anger out of it. Such wild displays of emotion preclude any of the points you're trying to make.
Also, just because I'm a switch doesn't mean that I cannot understand meaningful relationships. I think they've said the same things about bisexuality. I attempt not to pass judgements about people until I have some evidence; because though it might make things simpler for me, it does effect an avoidance of reality, which I disdain.