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Female Switch, 33, London, Ontario, Canada 

I am a big fan of bdsm as a means of conditioning and behaviour modification.




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local Toronto talent!


 


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Older profile (oh, me at 25..hehe):



I list myself as a switch because I really could go either way on the issue. Any person I share a dynamic with will have an affect on the way I will operate -- whoever I end up with will be closer to a muse.

I enjoy meeting new people here and I will extend the courtesy of developing our relationship as far as it can go. But if we can't talk, we can't be friends..which means we can't have sex...which means 24/7 is out of the question.

Please, don't be vulgar or spam me with prewritten bullshit...but do note that I may be one of the few and the proud that still remembers 'you' with three letters.

I warn you now that I have a very hectic lifestyle, but please don't take this to mean that I am in a rush. The best strategy will be a good impression...


thx.


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Although I don't have to be 'in love' to play with someone--I won't make the mistake of playing with someone I'll end up hating. Because my only real concern is compatibility; I don't state an age limit.. but I find that between 5 and 15 years older is preferable. 


I don't care if it's a friend-play/love-play situation or have other people that you play with (there's a difference between intimacy and commitment). 


Limits that tend to get in the way immediately are:
- I don't care for toilet-play
- W/we must be able to communicate easily
- If I'm to submit to you, I must feel that you *are* the more dominant person--and I'd better be confident that your being in control is more beneficial for the both of us
-If I'm to dominate you, you'd better realize that I don't dominate weak men. 


Good luck in your searches..

I heard someone say once, 'you know a surefire way to rule out someone as your true love?  they won't be the one telling you they aren't interested' ...

What happens when they say that they are your true love and just don't act like it?  there's another cliche for that: actions speak louder than words.

Now people bend for their true love, they push and pull, they give the benefit of the doubt - and arguably they should.  

But if this individual's words are rarely consistent, your heart and mind will fight a battle.

 Your heart, but somehow not your love, dies that death of a thousand cuts - one for every lie.  You will grow heavy as you allow your lover to hollow you out.  And you will stumble trying to lean on someone who isn't really there.

Whatever perfect looks like, that isn't it.

Hehehehe :)


 


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"BDSM Correlated With Better Mental Health, Says Study"


 



To whom it may concern,

writing nothing in your profile or 'if you want to know, ask..' is ..kind of retarded. Ask about what? Want to know about who? You are a fuzzy cam pic.

I want to know why you're on collarme, what direction you're moving in (possibly based on prior experience), any particular interests in play you might have had..reading you'd done that you have an opinion on..whether you're a fetishist or have an interest in 24/7 lifestyle bdsm..etc.

People respond based on the content and quality of your profile. And your blank shit is not very entertaining :(

Not related to bdsm, I just love a shared hatred of hipsters.XHTTPX//lookatthisfuckinghipster.tumblr.com/

People are real fuckin annoying.

I *really* like discussion, but for the love of christ, leave anger out of it.  Such wild displays of emotion preclude any of the points you're trying to make.

Also, just because I'm a switch doesn't mean that I cannot understand meaningful relationships.  I think they've said the same things about bisexuality.  I attempt not to pass judgements about people until I have some evidence; because though it might make things simpler for me, it does effect an avoidance of reality, which I disdain.
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