I again got blocked because I asked what kinks someone was into and how many partners they have had..so mr blah blah..this is my response.. So, no experience then? It is okay to say you don't have any, I would respect you more. Instead, you go straight into name calling because I asked you a couple of questions? Here is how I would have answered the questions. I'm into a wide variety of kinks some are rough body play, rough rope, flogging, and service. I have had five bdsm relationships, two of which were poly and I have a number of established play partners that I have had for a number of years. As you can see, it gives you some insight into the things I like and a little history about me. It should show you I have a bit of experience and references if it ever came down to that. I'm not just a keyboard bdsmer, I was once but that was about 18 years ago before I joined the local community and started to go to bdsm events in the area. Anywho..good luck in your search. Its okay to say you don't have experience. We were all new once and needed that push into learning and practicing kink.

I received my first block yesterday! Why do you ask? Because I asked someone who was messaging me what their experience was and how many play partners they have had. I went from being the cats meow to being uneducated, having no job and being fat. And I should never post a picture again until I loose weight and go to the gym. Well, to let you all know. I am educated which is why I ask the questions I do. I do have a job, and know now the importance of life/work balance. And I do go to the gym, in fact I would love it if my partner would go with me. So, if you are the type of man who gets offend when a girl asks for your experience, don't even bother messaging me. It is my right and duty to ask you how you learned the skills that you claim to have. I am into edge play, I like rough play. That means you have to know what you are doing or one or both of us could get badly hurt. If you are not asking the people you are talking to about their experience you are going to get hurt.

It was time to update my profile to reflect the more up to date me.

There is something about Being pushed up against a wall, face first Cheek resting on rough wallboard Breath caught in your throat Listening to the growling in your ear And trying to remember your own name   There's something about being Pushed up against a wall Your back flat up against it Staring straight into eyes that see through you Swallowing hard Waiting for your heart to start beating again   There's something about Being made to crawl across the floor To a seated Man, staring into your eyes Not letting you not look at Him Not letting you stumble Drawing you to Him without a word Trembling, a whimper caught in your throat   There's something about Being pulled up by your hair Feeling that hand slink up your neck Into your tresses, close to the scalp Grabbing, gripping it, guttural sounds emitting from His lips The pain not nearly as strong as the urge To cry or bite a hole through your bottom lip   There's something about Being bitten Especially on the back of the neck or nipple Feeling His teeth so close to piercing you Wondering, as you cry out, if He will, this time Wondering, if you're going to bleed for your Submission   There's something about Being bent over the back of a chair, without warning Without pretense, without question Having your skirt flipped up, cool air hitting hot skin Your cheeks blushing, with the same color of your ass As He warms it with the striking of the palm of His hand The tears you cry not cooling you The tears you cry because He has found you   There's something about Those words He uses Those names He calls you Those phrases meant to elicit a response And you do respond All of you responds And your body betrays you, always   There's something about Being thrown down and taken Not against your will For your will is to be there To please, to submit, to offer, to relinquish And you cry out for breath, for more, for Him And you know you are home   There's something about Being dragged into the shower Forced to your knees Hissed at for silence Growled at to be still And awaiting the flow That you know Marks You as HIS   There's something about Kneeling quietly beside Him Your body reddened, coated, tired Your mind silent, for once ~ for a time Your head bowed, your eyes closed Your lips quivering as His fingers touch you Your submission, unquestioned Your Peace at Hand   Author Unknown

I had a very nice time at the Flea.. unfortunately I did not get to see all of Midori's class on humiliation play..:(