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DavidLT

Gay Male Submissive, 34, West Hollywood, California

I live in West Hollywood CA, am single, and am looking for a Dom to train me. I smoke, but no drugs/drink. I am HIV pos, but as you can see in my picture very healthy, and very open and honest about my status.

I look forward to hear from you,

DT


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Onmyknees4uplz

Hello, As I get older, I'm embracing my cuck experience more, it is incredible that more ladies are not into this lifestyle. Woman have told me it is the most satisfying sexual thing they have ever done, humiliate a submissive while being fucked , having the submissive sucking there clit while being pounded by a bull , making a submissive sucking cock eat ass and swallow the cream pie . Seeing the submissive with his chastity cage on, making him yearn for pussy . Of course I still get pegged , spanked and anything else mistress and bull decide . Now I'm back in Indiana for a bit was wondering if this exists in indiana .

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nytekat

People need to know this. Yes! My parents are in my life. We're pretty close. They know about this, but DO NOT know a lot. And I want to keep it that way!!!

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prettyjellybean

It was a good Saturday. I packaged and mailed some paperback books for a book swapping club I belong to. I make an effort to add some artistic flair to the wrapping so the receiver gets a little extra pleasure when the package arrives. I placed an order for a book I'm looking forward to, and I have a new book that I'm starting today. The drive to the post office was very pleasant, the sun was out. But, it's still much colder than usual here so I had to have the heat on in the car and I'm wearing a hoodie in addition to jeans and tshirt. Which brings me to this point... jeans, tshirt and a hoodie are common wear for me. Yes I can dress up a bit for dinner out, but my daily wear does not consist of thigh high boots and a whip. I get a lot of messages here, and some of them are pretty far out in the ozone. Men who have no real life experience and are basing all their notions off of porn, approaching me with a list of demands. Those folks are not exhibiting any behavior that indicates they know how to function in a relationship. Even polite deferrals of, "we are not a match, best wishes on your continued search" are met with tirades and verbal abuse. I expect some social skills. The capacity for polite conversation. The ability to discuss differing viewpoints. An understanding of nuance. A recognition of the need for communication. I'm not here looking for casual kinky pick up play, I'm looking for a long term partner. I think it's reasonable to expect some relationship skills.

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BlakeLiaison

I am talking to some female subs who may be coming to my dungeons to stay a while and help run the place and be my personal submissives with full training and dungeon play. There is of course lots of fantasy on this site, so I trust all are real people. But please feel free to contact me if you are a female or a couple who would like to stay a week or two to help and to play.

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Made4FLR

Due to charater limit, posting my full profile here. I identify myself as a service-oriented slave. I am in this lifestyle for the past 15 years. I had been in a few FLR relationships but due to compatibility issues, we separated and went our ways. I have certain kinks which I like more than others but for me this lifestyle is more than kinks or fetishes. I love providing service and I am good at being a domestic servant who can keep your home clean, tidy and arranged. As a slave other than some hard limits (anything illegal, children, animal or permanent damage), I am open to everything else. As mentioned above, my sexual and D/s preferences don’t matter as long as I am service to my Dominant, make and keep them happy and satisfied. Apart from D/s, I love reading, traveling, gardening (especially grown fruits and vegetables), cooking, watching movies & tv shows. I have a great job, have my own house (still paying mortgage), have good salary (anyone interested). I am looking to form a long-term FLR relationship with Female partner who also wishes to settle down and enjoy this journey together. If this sounds interesting, message me. Please feel free to ask any question you might have.

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LadyArakney

I consider Myself an Equalitarian: One who controls by teaching, mentoring, and leading. If you genuinely want to become your best self; are willing and able to invest the time and do what's asked of you; then let Me know. Don't waste either of O/our time with games.

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MSMagickMan

Things that come up: I am in a secure, Master/slave relationship with my girl; I have always been attracted to certain ages, types, and energies. They are not requirements. I am highly educated and often ask to chat just to expand my knowledge. If I am interested in someone I do my best to be very clear what I am interested in. My profile says be ready to video. Blame it on the fakes, and be as brave as me. Why video? Hard to hide when we are all visible. One other thing, if you do not have your height and weight in your profile, I will ask.

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ChangelingRose

Happy Yuletide, you kinky buggers. xxx

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Secretslut81720

We're fucked and not in a good way!!! The world needs to pray for us!!!! I hope there's a special hell waiting for him and SOON!!!! ( Not interested in snarky comments if you're a magat. You're welcome to keep those to yourself!)

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sincerlee

So I was asked to correct my profile by Mx Willow from Vermont I APPOLGISE to do this at this time BY RELOCATABLE I MEAN I am willing to trade locations to be near you. BUT, as I have found paradise in the warm sun of Las Vegas. There is only a remote chance that I will ever be happy in a cold climate or where there is less than 365 days of sunshine, warm temps and no snow.

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ItsMaster

Some people are ill equipment to hand a strong relationship. Handling a well plan out and control session is easy compared to relationship. There a lot.of trust needed to lead another's emotionally cycles.

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objektxxx

I am looking for real SM, LTR,TPE, CIS ...Real slavery,as extreme as possible,realizing the things forever,offering myself, my mind, body and soul, my life and personality, everything ready to be yours, in every detail, without ability to return, without any right,no safeword, no taboo,real slavery, real SM,existing as your property, slave,realizing everything you want,so everything is possible,because you decide everything.. I am ready to give you my existence, ready to relocate to you...i need it..getting owned, forced, formed, humiliated, broken,realize the extremest,every perversion, every possibilities, every passion, not just playing a roleplay, not only a session, no ending or codeword...everything what you want is possible to be realized,Relationship like TPE,with all the details and much more.I need this, it is more than Lifestyle, more than everything...it is about absolute passion and feeling, it is dominance and submission to the fullest, in a special and extreme way of relationship.. and so much more..Greetings ⭐🍀❤️🙏🏼🔗🗝️

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GingerKinkCA

To be clear: What I mean by full time is not a full time relationship with another. I will not leave my partner or move in permanently with someone else. I mean comtinuing my partner and I's open relationship by adding a real sadist looking for a real masochist for long term regular meetings, time togeather and contact. Real Life In Person Only. Not interested in online relationships.

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richard744

Went to a nice BDSM munch in Orilia. It was nice to meet kinksters in a casual enviorment

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catstar

WENT TO THE DENTIST YESTERDAY. MY MOUTH IS SO SORE, SO IF YOU WANT TO CALL ME, GIVE ME A FEW DAYS TO FEEL BETTER. MY THROAT IS SORE. ALL PART OF GETTING READY TO GET DENTURES. HAVE A GOOD DAY.

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SeekingNewMan

I work so much. I need a good fucking to relax lol. I still want try anal. I guess I wait

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Bellarose860

Why went you tell someone you want what they want do they block you. I'm real. I will go off here if I want you.

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oceancountyman

if you want a playmate I am not him. If you're looking for something serious and long term, that's me

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GordTransport

New picture if it turns out..This morning saw and took picture. It reminded me of a line by this crude comedy duo from Nova Scotia.. The line is.." woke up so horny this morning, I was looking at the crack of dawn"! That was me this morning..lol And so it is stated..I am not into guys, trans, etc.. Ain't my thing..

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pizzapuppiescows

What if mosquitos in fact bite everyone, but not everyone has a reaction to the bite? There's probably science on this, but I like my theory. That's it for today. Wait. I just reread what I wrote at the beginning of the month about overcoming obstacles. My people, I am actively working on it. I have four different professionals for four different things and a to do list a mile long that I shorten as I can. Still some scary stuff, still some out of reach stuff, but progress. I am a (wo)man of my word. At least I'm trying to be. Okay, now that's it for today. I've earned it.

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NeverEasy

Gotta tell ya - I'm *this* close. Youngest I'll ever be, and older than I've ever been.

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Pressie

Update! I can respond to messages now ;)

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Skin1701

To be clear, I will provide my name and a photo if a chat exchange feels positive. But respect, manners, courtesy come first.

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ItsMaster

If I am not your emotional support? Why do I need you in my life? Some people can not handle being that close, it makes them run.

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Miniburro

Today is a day for hanging with the horses! Summer is here, if only had a horse to ride and spend the last of the day getting the barn all squared away. Nothing bette than that. 10/10 would muck a stall over a lot of other work ha.

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Bikinisub

Valentines Day 2024. Since it's my subs birthday as well we started the day scissoring. Next I'm sending her to a place where her body will be professionally smashed (deep tissue massage), smoked (aroma therapy) and burned (hot rock therapy). Tonight is dinner and a special gift. I wanted to make her breakfast but I don't know where the kitchen is! Haha

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pomonagirl

my ideal BDSM play party---what is yours??? my ideal play party is at a venue where it's large enough to be able to wander around, with multiple rooms so if there's stuff going on you don't want to see, you can distance yourself. Also, a nice, large-enough social area where there is no play going on is a must! If there is a Demonstration, Performance or Class before the party begins, even better. Something to watch or learn about. Inspiration! Multiple play rooms with multiple stations. Lots of the classic Dungeon furniture, in good condition, plus some more unusual and creative pieces. Plenty of cleaning supplies in each room. Enough light to see and the music at a low enough volume where it's not distracting, and communication is not inhibited. As far as what would be allowed...i do enjoy the rules and structure of a Dungeon club, but can feel intimidated or restricted when there are too many rules. Micro-managing is a buzzkill. i want to be able to feel safe and have enough information to know what i'm getting myself into. But, i also want that balance where the venue is running on the basic principles of personal responsibility and informed consent. There should be staff presence but hopefully they aren't sticking themselves into situations unless a safeword has been ignored. So we have the most beautiful, well appointed venue with loose-enough rules and cool staff. But what about the attendees? The attendees should be educated on basic BDSM Dungeon Etiquette---it should be a must that anyone attending a play party should go through an Orientation class first (or be a guest of a member/regular). That way people are on the same page about how to go about things. Even if we all have different Kinks, the basics of no loud conversations in play rooms...asking for consent before touching/sitting down next to someone/engaging in play...keeping a respectful distance from a scene should be practiced by all attendees. A large-enough group so that there is …

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brattysub2025

Lupus is the finally diagnosis . I am glad I have something to fight and battle instead of myself. spreading The fuckery continues

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ItsMaster

Did you really lose yourself or are you blaming someone who discovered the real you?

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FLRsubsubcouple

Hey y'all thank you for contacting us and everything, I'm sorry but we broke up as she left me.

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NakedManservant

Recently I believe I offended a Mistress I respected with an info-dump that sounded more like an over-eager babbling schoolboy rather than taking things slowly and respectfully. I have been hoping I may make up to her for this in the future and win her approval and acceptance, but that made me think about how she sees me and whether I might deserve a firmer hand to correct me. The thought of severe punishment came to mind.I'm not a fetishist, that whole scene of fetish play, scenes, costumes and devices leave me cold compared to the simpler, direct approach of a sophisticated natural Mistress and naked slave.For many in the fetish scene the idea of a severe punishment might take a thousand and one tortuous forms, mostly inspired by bad Hollywood movies and porn. That has no impact on me, and impact, emotional, psychological and sexual, is essential.This left me with only one thought - the whipping. The naked boy hanging in the stables in Mistress's home, the crack of the whip, the scream, the exhaustion and abandonment, alone, to reflect on my misbehaviour.I am not a masochist and know how severe a whipping could be for me, but that's the point. A slave must take the whip and serve the Mistress. Nothing else matters. I hope one day she will forgive me.

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tonyfbfl

I've been wearing my cage for a little over 14 hours now and I'm kind of liking the way it makes my balls ache especially when my cock tries to get hard

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sensualpetal

Open Book I'm an open book, That fingers have held and carresed, Who's cover is aged and worn, Who's edges are all frayed and tattered, Who's pages are now folded and battered, Who's stories once mattered, Who's slowly being closed, Who's been put upon a shelf, That is soon to be forgotten, I'm no longer an open book. *petal*

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alenaslight

You, however, keep on speaking what is consistent with wholesome teaching. 2 Let the older men be moderate in habits, serious, sound in mind, healthy in faith, in love, in endurance. 3 Likewise, let the older women be reverent in behavior, not slanderous, not enslaved to a lot of wine, teachers of what is good, 4 so that they may advise the younger women to love their husbands, to love their children, 5 to be sound in mind, chaste, working at home, good, subjecting themselves to their own husbands, so that the word of God may not be spoken of abusively. 6 Likewise, keep on urging the younger men to be sound in mind, 7 showing yourself to be an example of fine works in every way. Teach what is pure with all seriousness, 8 using wholesome speech that cannot be criticized, so that those who oppose may be put to shame, having nothing negative to say about us. 9 Let slaves be in subjection to their owners in all things, trying to please them, not talking back, 10 not stealing from them, but showing complete trustworthiness, so that in every way they may adorn the teaching of our Savior, God. 11 For the undeserved kindness of God has been manifested, bringing salvation to all sorts of people. 12 It trains us to reject ungodliness and worldly desires and to live with soundness of mind and righteousness and godly devotion amid this present system of things, 13 while we wait for the happy hope and glorious manifestation of the great God and of our Savior, Jesus Christ, 14 who gave himself for us to set us free from every sort of lawlessness and to cleanse for himself a people who are his own special possession, zealous for fine works. 15 Keep on speaking these things and exhorting and reproving with full authority. Do not let anyone look down on you. Titus 2:1-15

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Bikinisub

I wouldn’t let anyone whip me like that! The sound of a chain hoist makes an unmistakable rattling noise when it’s being used. You can hear it wherever you are in the dungeon. The crowd watches as I’m slowly being hoisted up into the air. They see my torturer playing around with a very long single tail and let’s a crack a few times, CRACK! It sounds like a gun shot. Through the mask I can see the dungeon monitors making the crowd, over a hundred by now, stand back so there’s plenty of room for the scene about to take place. The first lash was a doozy, WU-TISH! It wrapped around my waist and left a nice red welt across my belly. There was a pause and then another lash WU-TSIH! That one was across my tits leaving another welt. This went on for awhile until my body was covered in beautiful red welts from my tits to my knees. I could hear some guy nearby get up from his seat and say “There’s no way I would let anyone whip me like that!” and storm off to another part of the dungeon. I have to say that I thought his reaction was funny because only a newbie would say that. I’m like dude, I’m enjoying this! I guess my moans and grunts during my whipping really caused a stir as the crowd now swelled to a lot of people. As for me, my pain level is a 7. I’m in pain but I know it’s not over. I drop one of the safety balls I was holding onto (which in my opinion is better than a safeword) and it signals my torturer that I’m ready for the last part of the scene.

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YNGNEUK

Its 2022 and the world is a different place. But some things just dont appear to change. Human nature in some is just as bad.

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MyLadyin29

Been trying to update all this stuff. It keeps asking me to log in over n over. Cancer tryed to take me this may it be 3 years ago. Still looking for a replacement slave. I had for 5 years. I cant handle crazys anymore.

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Eboncat

Sometimes I want to chat people up. Until I remember that most don't know how to keep it honest.

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LordAK

It's so tempting maintaining control. Giving your will to another is scary. Planting myself in your mind and triggering you where and when I want, such a rewarding experience. You'll slowly surrender to my voice. You never know when you're going to submit. When the proverbial rug of sanity will disappear under your foot, just it will happen. Your body will tremble. My voice is stronger than you desire to disobey. When I speak, you wait expecting. Can you live in that terror. Always expecting. Do I terrify you. Are you willing to give it all

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J4truth

I have not written a note in so long. Life has been changing so much lately. new job, different city, then another new job and another old city. Now I am on a summer sabbatical of travel through the Atlanta and Savannah areas because I find it peaceful and love both cities for different reasons. I need a new boy. A real boy with great energy, quiet strength and a cute smile. I want him to dance for me. I want him to cook for me and share his secret thoughts that he seems too shy to tell anyone else. I want him naked and begging for me. I want him to clean and work for me. I want him to smile for me. I want that sweetness that is calm and not weak while also not being arrogant. I want him to NOT know everything because I still do NOT. I should be the ONE who gets to decide everything but I should NOT HAVE to be the ONE who THINKS of everything. I wonder if this is to be found anywhere? I will hope for it. You don't have to be a perfect boy to start with me, but you do have to HOPE to become one for me.

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ItsMaster

The aftercare of a session is different than the aftercare of a relationship. Too many leave broken ones in the wake in life.

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Pawpaws

The sub that craves the lack of choice- being taken and thoroughly controlled and used with no say in the matter at all. The only thing he can do is endure. What he's enduring also contains this enjoyable sexual experience. A passive psychology coupled with a body that is wired towards a more intense physical sensation - and he's the result. He wants to submit, he wants to perform as expected, he needs to please and to be sure that he has. He is willing to go to great lengths to demonstrate how completely eager he is to give himself to another along with a deep need to be taken to that level. He is a slave who craves the intense sexual sensation, the knowledge that he is giving great pleasure to another and to satisfy all the needs of the other, and through that he gains his satisfaction, pleasure, gratification and the positive sense of self as well as the ease and peace that comes from total surrender.

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SilkyPrincess

My journal entries are 95% fantasy. I will never actually do these sexual acts.

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MissMiles

Jacking off wearing leather gloves. SO fucking horny right now.

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LadyDiRainicorn

Why old guys still write me? Most of them having kids, exes and other backgrounds. What they can suggest me except themselves? I want young or the same age sub husband. Without other kids. No matter the age of kids. I don't have kids. And I don't want my own kids. Maybe I will want them with right partner.

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malesub2u

Its been a long time since ive posted here.... the site has had its moments. All the same..Im still the same although a bit older Im still seeking what Ive always sought... One day Ill find you!

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ItsMaster

It chased a security bit that rolled under the washing machine.. I smiled, it pleased me.

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MasterM1957

Is there a woman of 50+ that wants to be in a LTR? Masterm1957

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pride22

On my iPad i can not see Verification String so can't respond or do anything else. Until it's fixed, i will not be using this site. I'm not going to give up the comfort and ease of the iPad for one site i use occasionally. For those who sent me a message if i did not respond. Perhaps they will fix this site in the future. Support on this site seems to move at a snails pace.

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nytekat

I WANT to be polyamorous. But at the SAME time I want to "belong" to someone.

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LadyArakney

A mediocre Dominant tells, a good Dominant teaches, a excellent Dominant explains ... but a true Dominant Inspires!

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MnMan5

So many scammers out here. So many not willing to follow when they say they belong to me. No people with age regression roles. I want an adult - mature and responsible. No very heavy people either. I used to be 310 pounds. Now am in 205-222 pound range. I need to be this weight or lower. I figure being with someone who is very overwieght isn't going to help that. Not about prejudges, about me and my health. Doctor says I could be more healthy if I lost another 20 to 30 pounds. I would be happy getting under 200 and staying there. No single men. I have no use for single men. Sorry, but not sorry about this. NO SINGLE MEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Secretslut81720

Freezing my nuts off here in Ga. Ooops I mean titties!!!!. 1° with the wind chill factor. 🥶

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ForcefulDutch

Why do so many after a few talks want to fly across the world to meet? Patience. It is not a little step.

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softnsquidgeyd

july update. still looking. I am looking for an online subie to explore with, learn with and share bad jokes with :) My requirements for you... none. Ideal: cute and must have fantastic hair.My journey so far has led me to hair.

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LadyJordan

The eagles are flying again. Not sure they will be able to fly all the way to the Super Bowl, The Ravens are soaring. In August my buddy said he was rooting for the following. Eagles sf Kc and Balt I wished for the following. Eagles atl. Steelers Balt Looks like neither of us were able to pick the top four teams. We shall see how it ends One should have hope at this time of the season says my favorite Starbucks barista!!

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Seekingslave4metot

LOOKING also for a roommate asap.!

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DomofthePast

If you are MARRIED or are in ANY FORM of Relationship Pass Me BY! I still have values and morals!

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MadameTessaH

I have finally gotten moved. Still setting up everything but I am enjoying the peace and quiet. I would say that health wise I am about 75 - 80%. I find I tire easily and fetching mail or taking the trash out wears me out. Hopefully things will continue getting better.

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HypnoticHart

I haven't been on this site much recently but today I've found myself with some time, was in the right mood and thought it would be nice to find someone to chat with and possibly even hypnotise or maybe even find a lady who might hypnotise me (yes, I enjoy being on the other side from time to time too with the right person). Sadly, no one interesting or interested in chatting. But something interesting HAS happened whilst I've been on here, so I thought I would relate that instead. Now in the past I've written journals and blogs on various websites like this that are designed to hypnotise you simply by you reading them, whether you even realise it or not, and subtly implant suggestions in your subconscious for you to get in touch and tell me what you would like us to do together hypngtically or to just mae more and more horny as you read them, but this isn't going to be one of those so you have nothing to worry about: there are no hidden suggestions (unless you're massively suggestible, in which case... awesome... but you've probably already decided to contact me anyway if that is the case. Anyway, I digress. I'm killing time in a coffee shop in London after a meeting and before an event this evening. How better to spend my time than by logging on here? I'm sitting in a booth at the back downstairs, slightly away from everyone, and in a position where no one is going to walk past and see my screen. Suddenly I look up and an increadibly attractive lady is heading towards me. When I say attractive, I mean she is absolutely my type.. and not just because she's wearing a large erotic watch (which she is, Rolex no less!) but just because she's casual, smiley, confident. Mid to late-30s with thick naturally dark blonde hair, she's weairng a white, tied shirt over a tight low top and jeans. My eye is drawn to her plunging breast line by the necklace she's wearing. Now those of you who have read my other blogs will know that this is my fa…

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ItsMaster

Yes you can bell a cat and you can bell a submissive also. With the invention of the body cam. You can track your submissive now. Keeping up with technology creates great opportunities.

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MrWereWolf108

I’m not a perfect Dom/Sadist/Master or play partner as you read in your fantasy eroticas, but I’m confident I can give and receive the best experience based on mutual effort. If you expect constant pleasing with nothing in return, count me out. . With 6-7 years on Fetlife and over 10 years of kink knowledge, I’ve had positive real-life experiences. If you're more experienced, I’m open to learning. Also, I’m here for real-life connections, not endless text games. The 6 feet + man who believes more in exploring as much aspaspects of the kink world . Gentle to high pain, respectful and caring to degrading, dominating & enslaving woman. I love it all. . view profile ›

BiMM4LocalFriends

It's been awhile since I've been on here or posted anything. I was finally able to give my beautiful Domme the gift She ordered. A prolonged, close-up video of me performing oral, gagging, drooling, swallowing, and thanking her for it on video. It's truly a gift to serve You Goddess. Thank You!

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mlk1974

Dan messaged me the nextmorning and asked if i was at home alone. I said i was. H asked if i had a balcony or yard. i told him i was on the 2nd level and i had a balcony/deck. Dan told me maky myself a coffee and go out one my balcony naked. My balcony faces a semi busy road. i was like ugh. i did it. Dan asked if i had any security cameras. i do not. he said he wanted to get me a few to put up and he would pay for them/ I was like ok. he tells me to go to Best Buy and get some Ring cameras and he will Venmo me. I do, I get 3 wireless cameras. I spend a good 3 -4 hours setting them up. 1 over my front door, 1 over my balcony, 1 in my livingroom. Dan is paying for them and sets them up. He tells me to strip naked and stand out in front of my front door. I do and he sees me in real time. He has me do into my livingroom and out onto mt balcony. he loves it.

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MsPam4u

I opened my profile and was overwhelmed with mails. Some from old friends. Some from people I didn't know. I did continue conversations with a couple new people I was anxious to get to know (one near, one far), and ghosted by both. I may have said or done something unintentionally in a way that could be taken wrong, I have been rather ill with a sinus thing (not the kind of sick I am use to) and a tad grouchy and needy. But still something could have been said in a message perhaps?

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XecutivePowerCpl

Also note that a lot has changed since this profile was created 7 years ago but I know there is no admin for the site so I cant change it without losing the ability to message forever. I was not able to keep business going through COVID and I am in the process of getting SSDI and then I will be starting another business. I am naturally dominant but not in a cruel way. Its not a role or fetish. Men defer to me even dominant men seem to follow my lead and seek my approval. I have high standards, few meet them and are treated accordingly. Service / labor slaves to the front of the line.

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Msxx

I hope everyone had a wonderful holiday and that 2026 has been good to you so far.

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Drayon2

I am seeking a permanent collar. As a 24/7 slave. Am in high hopes that I am able to find a mature Mistress that is also seeking

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wayward5oul

Oh, I knew something was missing from my life when I left here. The journals, OMFG. I hadforgotten about the sort of stuff that people write about on here. The extreme fantasies that people write about as if they are reality... I guess we all need our outlets, but jeebuz these people better hope their fantasies really never come true.

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OlderBoyBitch

Never mistake submission for bat-shit crazy!

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CDsubTina

Seems like the slut has to go in a more rubbery direction, it hopes the leather experience will make the two-holed Slutty bait more attractive for real men out there

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ItsMaster

I am not a solution to your problems. I am not the Walmart of bdsm. I am not your wallet. I am not your next vacation destination. I am not your cure for your boredom. Laughs silly people..

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shesaysido18

For the longest time I tried to hide my inadequacy, that deeply humiliating, most shamefull of all inadequacies, the smallness of my flaccid penis. With a not inconsiderable degree of relief, my diminishment is not at the level of a micro penis deformity but seems almost that it very nearly could have been. Erect my upright shaft does present a woman slight in build and of a diminutive hand girth with some degree of possibility for grappling between thumb and potentially two fingers, a hold just behind my cock tip, but flaccid, the button mushroom sized helmet shrunk back on a shrivelled, seemingly non existent shaftlet presents barely an acorn sized bishops head on a triangular slab of pale pubic fat easily mistaken for that billboard of delight, the female mound, over the slit of silk in any womans crotch.

I got curious and just had to come and look...I knew I wouldn't like what I found if I found Him. 😞 well, I found Him. I wish I wouldn't have come here, would give anything to unsee what I saw. I wish He wanted me they way I want...need Him. To feel His touch, to taste Him, to please Him. i would give anything to be wrapped in His arms, where I know I belong...if only He knew it too.

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Sadista

Now that the journals are back maybe we'll get the forums next.

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pomonagirl

Hi Friends! i will probably not be checking in here too often anymore. i will miss my friends in the chatroom but i just never know about this website. LOL! i am still findable on fetlife under the username pomonagirl. cheers!

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QueenMaryJ

As much as we would love a little weekend fun we aren't into play dates, If you're not looking to be owned don't message us. The messages we have been getting lately are clear indications that people around here just don't read profiles.

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YoureA7

We're thinking more about the impact smells have in a scene. Whenyou're too busy to shower and your BO is happening, which body part(s) do you secretly love to smell?

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subwill2please

i am a true submissive that would love to have a dominant Mistress with me as a good cuckold for her.

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ItsMaster

When relationships end, the responsibility thing is to ween the person off of you. The stronger the relationship, the need for aftercare is important. Points for emotional maturity..

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GrandRapidsDom1

In Charlotte, NC on business for the week. Looking for a sub/slave to enjoy.

I'm just gonna leave this out here... worship is bringing the best of what you have to offer to your god, regadless of the sacrifice to yourself, and placing it reverentially at their feet in hopes that they will accept it. Worship is hoarding and savouring every little tidbit of whatever they see fit to bless you with, to immerse yourself in your own utter appreciation of it. Worship is not pawing at some body clumsily immersed in your own excitement. Worship is not slobbering over something you know you cannot afford and do not deserve. Worship is not defiling something to make yourself feel good -- it is, arguably the opposite, to defile yourself to preserve the sanctity of the thing you worship. Sexualised worship is a delicate thing. It is something that can only tolerate being called for by the Dominant. It is no longer worship when requested, directed, demanded or expected by the sub/slave. Then, it just becomes sex. Yes, even if there is no penetration or ejaculation. Worship calls for sacrifice and some measure of suffering on the part of the supplicant. If you are not giving up anything, if it does not hurt you in some way, then you have worshipped nothing. Men keep trying to trick women into doing what men want... they tell a woman she must fuck anything that wants her to fuck them regardless of how she feels about it, that doing as they tell her is the only way to prove she is empowered and free...... but are you ever in control when someone else is calling the shots? They tell a woman that she must keep her sub happy and safe, take all the mental load from them and tell them exactly how to make her happy, and that she is doing a bad job if she cannot find a way to make him feel appreciated and worthy in his weaponised incompetence...... so then at what point is the sub actually being submissive when all there is is her making sure he's happily kept? They tell a woman that she must crave being obeyed, to be willing to do anything to be obeyed, th…

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NeverEasy

This is interesting - I used to have some "Admirers". I mean several. Now, I have one. I sincerely don't know whether I'm more surprised that I have so few, or that I still have the one left. At this rate, though, I think a cool new feature (are you listening, CS?) would be "Haters" - a list of people who can't stand you. But EVEN cooler would be "Meh." - a list of people who are filled with ennui when it comes to you.

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DrMisogyny

How can there be a shortage of infant formula in the United States of America?!

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Senster

Journals are back! :)

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PrincessLexi

ATTN!!!!! having issues with the site, it's not loading, which means i can't get it to load enough to open/send messages properly. stop taking it personally people, or if you do you liteally have no fucking patience nd i can't halp what the internet does so it's your patience and real life isn't gonna work.

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FatCocoChick

I truly don't understand why men ignore profiles. it just passes off the person they message

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yourgirljoy

So many letters. I'm trying to answer them all so please be patient. So many amazing people from all over the world! I'm making new friends fast. But where are the Dominant men in Illinois. Are they shy? tune in for the next journal, where I'll be talking a bit about DD/LG and where I fit in with that catagory. your girl joy

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ItsMaster

Does a structure life really mean less freedom? If your know what your going to have for food, planning in advance can be much easier. If you have dietary issues they can be addressed. Keeping a person on a regular schedule sleep and exercise allows your life not to give you alot of mental stress. Knowing what to wear, when to do laundry, when to shower, keeps you clean and ready for life. While other see these as restrictions, it a life where you are kept strong and ready for life.

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MsMeowKitty

Some come and drink from my golden fountain....

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pomonagirl

getting dumped three times in two years has taught me one thing: i am definitely the problem.

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Eboncat

If you know what you need and want to reach. Chat me up. I'm too busy, to deal with the unsure.

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slavohom

is it so difficult to find true FLR relationship ? I wonder the important is regarding the service and the real commitment ? A lot FLR relationship failed because they choose a person who is not stable in his/her commitment and go away after some months or years like the butterfly to see other landscapes. Why ? i think it is because young people cannot have a stable commitment in a FLR relationship like older one.

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alenaslight

Welcome back Fallen. When I said I'd burn for you I meant it. I think I was always meant to be yours.

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allyriacelene

I am not a domme. If you are a submissive, do yourself a favor and pass me by.

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delphius1

Happy New Year to everyone. I hope you find what you are seeking whatever that may be.

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GoblinCreature

i am only here to chat and make friends.

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Urgoodgirlalways

I was quite surprised when I met someone on here that lived close by and Even More surprised at his approach on training. We started training last week and I am amazed at the things I've experienced and learned and the relatoon ship building through Skype without his physical touch. thank you Sir

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BlueFyre

OMG, WHAT?! Is the journal function really working again?! *mouth agape*

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MissyMichelle

Advice for messaging*It is disrespectful and insulting when someone sends an introductory email which does not mention anything specific about my profile or interact with it at all. Ask yourself this question. Could the majority of your email to me be copied and pasted to 100 other people and be just as valid? If the answer is yes and you send this to me then you have just identified yourself as a time waster. Do you want me to think of you as a time waster? Is this really how you want to introduce yourself?*If your spelling and grammar are poor, you are not putting in enough effort. This identifies you as LAZY. Some try to excuse their laziness with various reasons but you can always have a friend read what you write or just reread what you type out loud a few times before you hit the send button. I do realize that some bad punctuation is facilitated by the text editor here because this site strips out most punctuation except commas, question marks, periods, and exclaimation points. Hopefully this will be addressed someday, but till then you can still find creative ways to mimic other punctuation.*But the main form of showing disrespect through a lack of effort is just not typing very many words. Incomplete sentences, only one sentence, or worse, one word or just a bit of text speak show a lack of effort, interest, and concern. Many people do not want to communicate over a phone, they only want to type, but then they also are not willing to put in much effort at typing either. So I quickly find an imbalance of effort as I see the words I type quickly outpacing the other person. This makes the other person seem uninvolved and unappreciateive of my efforts. They insist that I type and not TALK to them but then they do not put effort in to type either!Frequently, I find that I spend a great deal more energy and effort typing long messages to people who do not put any effort into what they se…

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serveuwell1967

More self examination. Am I looking for someone else to take responsibility because I don't wish to face what I've let myself become? I know my size has become more of a problem, the larger I get. However, I have to wonder if I was really submissive at all when in my primary dynamic? Upon reflection, I'd have to say no. My secondary dynamic with Sir was definitely HOH/DD but still I had to be accountable. It has worked for me for many years. While I CAN get by on my own, the joy in life is gone. Maybe I'm just a masochistic bottom? Perhaps there are facets of that but I enjoy pleasing another so much. Not sure how it all meshes together. Guess more thinking needs to be done... more self reflection.

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Okdaddydom2022

Well once again collarspace never disappoints to disappoint. Seriously don't know why I ever come back. You would think after the first twenty times I would learn. And to the people that say you are too far away, come on really unless you live in a huge city with tons of people in the community who the hell else are you going to talk to. The odds that if you live in a small to med community that will connect with anyone are so remote it's ridiculous. Don't be a dick, if someone says hello have the courtsey to at least say hello back. You never know who is out there that could be your new best friend. It won't kill you. This might be counterintuitive on here but we need to be a kinder gentler people. and if you are dick on here it means probably are dick in person. Take a dick don't be a dick. Dont take my civility to mean I'm not a dom. Real men know how to treat people of all sexes with kindness, and still be a dominate man. To quote Bill Bixby (youngens' wont get this reference) "Don't make me angry. You wouldn't like me when i'm angry?

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LordAK

Alaska is a beautiful Lady, she is a deadly bitch and She will kill you in a heartbeat. If you don't understand what I'm going to say about Alaska, ask and I will explain. What I'm looking for is life long commitment . What I expect. you will respond to My voice. you will let my voice control your mind. I will plant my words to trigger you. My triggers will cause your body to react as conditioned. I'm not hard core abusive but you will walk a fine line of constant excitement. Open your mind to me and I WILL put your pussy outside your body. It's so tempting maintaining control. Giving your will to another is scary. Planting myself in your mind and triggering you where and when I want, such a rewarding experience. You'll slowly surrender to my voice. You never know when you're going to submit. When the proverbial rug of sanity will disappear under your foot, just it will happen. My voice is stronger than you desire to disobey. When I speak, you wait expecting. Your body will tremble. Weather is getting cold here in Alaska. Almost time for subbies and slaves taken to the Mountains. Have your body stripped of warm clothing. Its so enjoyable to watch your face as your warm pussy is placed on a large rock at 40 below. Should I bring some ice cubes to help the spreading of cold slowly clawing its way into your pussy. Alaskan winters offer so much enjoyment. I hope to enjoy this winter, how about you? These are serious things to think about. I'm telling you now what your end results with me look like. Can you handle knowing what you will look like when I finish playing with your mind Can you live in that terror. Always expecting. Do I terrify you. Are you willing to give it …

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BarterDomme

Note- I am not seeking anything LTR now or anytime soon. 1-I do not have the time commitment it requires. 2- I am not ready. 3- I am a little self absorbd with my new work right now so I am hardly here! If you are seeking something more, I wish you well but I am not her right now. I am putting ME first and learning a new field and it is intense and time consuming.

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LilMiera

Just started this account on here. I'm excited and hopeful!

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pinktmara

a fresh bdsm test for you: == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Exhibitionist 100% Submissive 100% Girl 91% Degradee 88% Experimentalist 84% Ageplayer 84% Rope bunny 82% Primal (Prey) 80% Slave 69% Brat 65% Masochist 58% Voyeur 42% Vanilla 37% Pet 36% Non-monogamist 0% Switch http://bdsmtest.org/r/PyvQrePt

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subNhou

Appears i am a permanent chastity sub/slave. Locked 842 days as of 01/20/22. As the sub, it’s a turn-off to see a sub-cumin during play. While important both enjoy the scene, it’s all about the pleasure of the Dom. An exception to “enjoy” is a discipline The scene is about Dom’s pleasure and the sub should focus on them.

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MrDiscipline74

And just like that, the talks have ended and I've sent that prospective slave on her way. There were two very big (imo) factors as to why she would not have worked out. The first being a big communication problem. When I speak, I speak directly and clearly as to what I want, think, feel or am asking. If I'm asking a question, I expect an answer to the question asked. Not what you think you feel the question is or pretains to. That tells me you aren't listening to my words, just your feelings. And that will lead a slave to failure every time. The next problem is ideals vs reality. I see this as rampant throughout these bdsm sites. A slave will search for their ideals and not except that the reality is rarely, if ever, matches what their idea of being a slave is. The fact is, thought the slave wants to be kept in a cage and only brought out to be played with, bills need to be paid, the house needs to be cleaned, meals need to be cooked. These are, to me and other Masters, part and parcel to being a slave. The fantasy slavery is good for maybe a weekend or so. But not something feasible for the long run. So for now, it seems I am still looking for a slave. As I continue on this journey, I think I'll continue to use this form of media as a sounding board.

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pizzapuppiescows

I cry a lot lately. During movies. Listening to songs. In the middle of therapy. Either I'm having some sort of an emotional breakthrough, or a breakdown. Or, Jesus Christ, I'm hormonal. Shut up. No, really. Shut. Up.

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snowcatsub

Please, please, please take the time to read my profile and interests. I am getting way too many messages from people who clearly haven't. Yes I will look at your profile before messaging you back. If I am uncomfortable with your profile or just don't feel like talking then more than likely I won't message back, if I do not respond then it more than likely means I am not interested so no need to constantly message me asking if I want to talk or not. If you already have a sub then I more than likely won't be interested, I'm not into sharing a Dom. If you're profile is outdated then please tell me in your first message otherwise I will have to assume that some things are still relevant.

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Kitnix14

Moving to Arizona for the winter of 24-25 and looking for play partners.

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DevineFuit

After midnight tonight If there is no picture attached to each reply. I'm not wasting my time reading a message.

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quirkylittle4daddy

the little girl's anthem naive to the bone marie davidson's album Adieux Au Dancefloor has a lot of songs that are great for little headspace. but this is the penultimate one. not only in lyrics but in the soundscape as well. the clapping adding to it is very smol bean headspace inducing as well. i have no idea if she's one of us but her i dedicate my life is also very empowered, strong, and whimsical. this is one of our anthems of what it is to be an adult that is also a little girl and one you scream singing at the top of your lungs. I DON'T HIDE. when people tell us to grow up or think smarter or harder or regular, I DON'T NEED YOUR LOVE. and while we are still connected to our inner child more than others, MY LIFE IS NOT A GAME. and even in the bdsm world where people often look down or misunderstand us and our dedication, discipline, submission, and beating intense hearts I'VE GOT NOTHING TO PROVE TO YOU. It seems like honesty is not so fashionable these days It's true, I ask a lot of questions You call me naive? I'll tell you what I'm naive to the bone Do you think I'm too soft? Because I don't hide, or Is it that you're lost when I smile? I don't need your love But, I'll dare to ask you how you feel about me Just to get things straight I have no cards to hide My life's not a game Let me picture my future A large room, where you can hear the silence No place for arrogance No pain in my chest Just, the beating of my heart J'suis pas qu'un boumIs it that you feel superior behind a costume of indifference? In the middle ages, people used to wear cloaks It's 2016 Get real So you think I'm too soft? I've got nothing to prove I have no advice for you But, remember what Terrence said The last dance, we dance alone =================== Core Themes: Empowerment Through Authenticity: The lyrics and your interpretation emphasize owning who you are, unapologetically. This connaspects to themes of sovereignty and standin…

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AustralianGoddess

Some instructions and FAQ I do not do small talk. Please send me messages of substance otherwise I will ignore you. If you do not identify as a slave, I am not interested. I have no interest in cuckolding. I do not do coffee dates. Don't be ridiculous. I do not do sessions. If you are incapable of taking initiative and direction, I am not for you.

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mlk1974

I shared a couple pics that were nice and innocent. he liked them and did ask for a totally naked pic with face. I did. he responded about 2 hrs later. his cousins loved the pics. he asked if he could tell them my name and if they could friend request me. I said yes.

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angeldmort

Keeping in mind that as soon as I saw that he had written before, I rolled my eyes and made a choice to respond, knowing how this was gonna go, and since I'm in a mood, it was slightly amusing and I almost chuckled when he did exactly what I expected him to do. Which I'm sure would have pissed him off worse... I received this today from someone listed as a Dom, who had contacted me well over a year ago, then again last December. Just 4 months ago, but he's once again completely forgotten that he wrote me before, that he was asked to do something then disappeared, forgot that he had written the second time and was REMINDED, and asked if he had done it yet, but wanted me to commit to being interested (in someone who had ghosted once already and hadn't done anything he was asked to do, which was to read and EDUCATE HIMSELF, not do anything that benefited ME, but instead forgot even speaking to me) and now he's written me again. With the same message as the first two times. 3/6/22 6:48 AM "Good morning, Miss, Hope you are doing well I am wondering if per chance you could possibly be open to a 64 going on 34 year old sub and iring slave located in North Aurora, west of chicago who is intelligent openminded kinky adventurous fun and selfassured about who and what he is? Most of all one who seeks a true Owner and Domme who is a totally devoted to you like me? It is so hard to find a genuine and suitable Domme and Owner in this lifestyle I hope you find me to be exceptional seems like we want the very same thingfor You to take total control of memind body and soul And what you depict your profile is quite interesting and just what I know I need Although my profile says I am a Dom, I have come to realize I am a stone sub I have the ability desire and wherewithal to host and come visit and ultimately relocate should it come to that I travel your way quite a bit on business But most of all I would love to just have the honor and privilege to get to know you you seem so …

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EWithAC

No men over 43 please.

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ForcefulDutch

Funny how people think a conversation is a one way action. Then when you do not talk anymore..ask if you are not interested anymore.

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felicitousdove

Master Hawk, my Husband and life partner died on June 29th, quietly and unexpectedly in His bed. Feeling lost without him but I'm doing everything I can in hopes he would've been proud of me.

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Lynda73

The chat room, is it me, chrome, or something else? I can't seem to get on

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ForcefulDutch

For many thisis a game. Games have cheaters too.

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LeDiableRouge

They know me not...test me in this.

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Wildman42

I had to cut my profile down to appease the CS gods on here. Somewhere in my bio they assumed I was asking for money.... Not the case... I was only asking for one to bring themselves if the find the courage to relocate. On that note... It's hard to find people that are not just talk... Too many fakes out here made it hard for real people wanting something real has put everyone on defense mode.To clear that up with me. I am real and if you want someone real, look me up!!!

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TvToBeCollared

Not sure how much of this I have already posted but should have my replacement car within the next month. I have been diagnosed with mixed neurogenic bladder disorder meaning some times i can not pass urine others can not stop and do not even realise i am doing it. I have an internal catheter but the connections are not great and have been coming apart in the night, therefore i am disconnecting the bag from the catheter tonight and seeing how effective nappies are for overnight Am now taking laxatives and suppositories due to bowel issues including haemorrhoids and constipation probably due to where i am sitting all day in the wheelchair. So if a sissy baby who can not stand or walk, and is reliant on a catheter or nappies interest you please let me know.

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ForcedBiGoddess

Halloween is coming. Every year we do something special, since it's such an opportunity to be exactly who we are openly. This year, we have something very fun planned. Some of you are going to dress up as sluts, or you want to. So we're going to provide the opportunity to be exactly that. You dress up in your favorite slut wear, and I'll provide a very safe neutral office space for you to go trick or treating. Get on your knees, open your mouth, and I'll watch while you use that pretty mouth to get a treat from My pet. Ultra safe, discreet, d/d free, and extremely reliable. Tire kickers and "I wish I lived closer" please don't write. I get fifty of those a day. So, ready to be a slut?

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LadyDiRainicorn

Are you here, my soulmate? My perfect sub husband, loving caring and getting punishments, vanilla on public and bottom behind closed doors, where are you?

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Elorin

I miss the emerald green water and sugar white sand. I miss Karkeke park and tidal pools. I miss mountains everywhere you turn. I'm not feeling very San Antonio tonight.

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LittlePhoenix12

Anyone else watch the Royal Windsor Horse Show (aka something that happens every year but is somehow this year a star studded jubilee event)? Anyone else wonder how the United Kingdom is somehow, according to the producer, made up of Scotland, Northern Ireland, Wales and that's it? I mean seriously, they couldn't find a few people to jingle some bells while hitting sticks and belting out 'Jerusalem'? I wonder if the Queen is with it enough to realise that she does reign in England too. Yesterday's show wouldn't have given her a clue - we can feature people from Oman and Azerbijan, but not one morris dancer or English singer to be seen.

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missyts

Hello Everyone, I wanted to let all of you know that I will be having an orchidectomy surgery next month. The time has come for me to move forward in my life as a woman, and this seems to be the right decision. People very close to me, including my ex-girlfriend, have been big supporters. This is a big step, and I know deep down it will be better for my health and well-being. Missy

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OurOtherSelf

Happy Christmas, everyone and hopefully you all have a prosperous New Year. The last year had been a tough one for everyone I am sure. However, keep your head up, keep smiling and don't stop laughing at the absurdity of this world of ours. To paraphrase Sultans of Ping FC said, "Things can only get better, even if you have lost your brand new sweater" A little 90s indie pop reference there for all you indy kids out there!

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pizzapuppiescows

I am being outmaneuvered by my dog. She is on two new medications. Pill pockets used to do the trick. For some reason she now knows what is inside that pocket. She eats around it or spits it out. Or, like this morning, sniffed it and walked away. This week I have tried peanut butter, cheese, chicken, and hot dogs. They all worked. At first. And now I'm back where I started, with a pill she spits out or eats around. Luckily she didn't notice the first pill, but this is the more important one so I have to figure this out. I'll pick up some liverwurst later and see if that helps for a while. I swear, this dog. You could put a juicy steak in front of her and she would sniff it and walk away. I'm running out of options. Maybe chicken nuggets?

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tallia

So fruatrating to be offline while updating the profiles now, only update is age, am now 45 and no longer owned... looking to get back to having a little fun

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malochato

I am looking for a willing hypnosub. She does not need to have prior experience with hypnosis, although that is a plus, as are obedience, vivid imagination, and desire to please. I prefer long term, but in the meantime I am okay with an occasional play partner, if and only if we get to know each other first and have proper negotiations and safeties. Yes, I expect to discuss things ahead of time, even if you get your wish of remembering none of it afterwards.

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DarkPassionDom

When it comes to this site, two words come to mind. Limbo and Purgatory.

Over stimulation has some odd effaspects on a person. Some become extremely angry and slashes out any attempts to calm a person down. Some become these little creatures that just look for sexual play and they will happily play with themselves until they fall asleep. Some will become snuggle bugs in blankets and soft toys. Some will just sit quietly desperately trying to process what they have gone through.. Some will just cry uncontrollable. Some cry happy other cry angry. Insert people are like a box of chocolate..

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LadyArakney

Seeking a grunt for some menial chores to prove himself. When this is done to My satisfaction , only then I will consider further training. This helps Me weed out the players. If you're local (within an hour of Me, available and serious, let Me know.

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thetruebossman

I jonied today and its going okay, looking to taslking with all of you

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tyMeMtMe

Mary Roach: 10 things you didn't know about orgasm | TED Talk This is an enteraining talk. ty

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youngsubmanNJ

i dont know where in my profile it says im interested in men. no interest at all

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TheBlaqueQNGodess

Ok. So I don't believe in New Years resolutions, but I do believe in creating "themes" for the year. What's your theme for 2025?

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msjaclyn

to all those who are interested i am dominant and a sadist and will remain so if u are one who wishes to criticise me then move on i know who i am and you dont so there now to those who wish to meet me just hit me up id love to tempt u mmmmmmm kisses msjaclyn devious and demanding queen!!!!

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LadyJordan

Geography can be such a cruel master sometimes. Why can't Hawaii be closer? Why can't New York be just down the street? Why can't every city never sleep like Vegas? Why does my favorite resturant have to be so far away from my kitchen? Wouldn't be nice to be like Dorothy and her ruby red slippers and just click your leather thigh high boots and say there is no place like home and be transported to the place of your desire at that moment?

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ItsMaster

Breaking is easy.. creating is hard. Keeping your passions high is as important as life itself. If you amp up a person, you have to understand that it will get more attention. If it is not use to intense attention sooner or later, it will wander off. Grass is always greener syndrome. If you close that door. Doors don't open up again or someone has taken it's place.

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BondageSissy4You

Mmmm, looking forward to some play time Mon/Tue/Wed night. Submitting to you, Mistress. Sissification, high heels, bondage, gags... Send a short note here.b. sissy

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SDPS

More than anything, I'm instantly weakened by Women in positions of authority or power. Judges, lawyers, HR directors, CEO's, detectives, counselors... I can almost hear their voice when the door closes. "Kneel" My fantasies are simple. Nothing about pleasing me physically. A message. An order. "Bring me coffee, now". Even if we've never met. Obeying without question, followed by an extremely brief and embarrassing interview. "Would you.....". The answer is yes. To all of it. Women are the predators, the hunters, in every species except our own. They should be. In any setting at any moment. This is the world that exists in my head, and hope to find one Woman who knows the power She possesses, and wields it.

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optionsigive

It has been brought to my attention that there are alot of submissives that are over my weight requirement of 200 lbs. It has also been brought to my attention that there are alot of over that weight requirement that need love, direction and discipline. So with that being said i no longer have a weight limit.

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Walkingblind34

Lately the call lights are the gurgling sound of someone's last breath, my new perfume has become the smell of death.

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yinyang73

It looks like any changes to a profile are still problematic. Because it's risky to change my profile, I'll announce that I turned 50 recently. The housing crisis that was brewing finally came. I moved 3 times from October to December. I whittled down my stuff, and I have no emotional, legal, or financial attachment to where I'm living now. I can move easily. Right now, I'm still close to Cumming, Georgia. (Yes, that's really the name.)My top / potential Dom versus slave seesaw keeps teetering. On one hand, I am still interested in being a live-in slave. On the other, I have great memories of my several months as a top, which was years ago. I am NOT expecting to switch. I think it may be doable, but most women don't think it's doable, so that's fine. I can commit to one or the other. If I find a woman to submit to, I expect to become a totally obedient slave. I am open to the idea that the slavery will eventually become permanent. I understand it is not the place of the slave to make demands. With that said, I can't envision myself as a slave without worshiping HER feet. I also envision bondage, pain, and cages, but I'm not sure that is essential.On the other hand, if SHE wants to give pain, I hope to learn to take whatever she gives. I hope she'll start slowly. On the top side, I am open to that, too. As for being a Dom versus a top, I am pretty sure I could first play the Dom role and then become the role. We'd have to discuss. There is a question whether I'm in a place in life to project Dominance, but that obviously depends on the potential sub.As for history, years ago my woman liked being called slave girl, even though BDSM was only in the bedroom. I'll use the term slave or sub for simplicity's sake. Slave girl got lots of excellent foot massages, but she also got the opposite. After some research and starting very sl…

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nytekat

Although I hate this question myself? I do like when people ask if I have a picture? I DO use it myself. I want to see what you look like!

To Daddy From little gurl Oh Daddy I’m so ready to truly begin our journey tog Daddy I can say with 100% honesty that this little daily ritual you gave me has become something your little gurl looks forward to everyday.j There is no misunderstanding Daddy. Just as you’re choosing me to be your submissive to own, I want you as my Daddy.I commit myself to you. I commit my mind, body, and soul to submit to you. I eager await all your lessons. I understand some may be veryj hard. I know some will make me very emotional and I may even cry. I believe you will guide me to achieve my dream of being the beautiful sexy desirable woman I’ve always felt inside of me.

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Mysterium

Alright, feral creatures. Drag your claws in a circle and listen. If your master plan is to speed run your BDSM bucket list with strangers like you’re farming achievements, you are not practicing power exchange. You are running a fantasy drive thru. Hi yes, I’ll take one degradation scene, extra intensity, no emotional labor. That’s not dominance. That’s not submission. That’s transactional self gratification wearing a harness. Power exchange is not a vending machine. It is not a same night shipping option for your curiosity. It is a relational structure built on trust, communication, and actual human care. You cannot ethically hold power over someone you do not care about. Period. Now let’s talk about pick up play before someone starts twitching. Picking up someone you’ve seen in the community? Someone you’ve observed at events? You’ve watched how they negotiate. How they respond to a safeword. How they treat people after scenes. How they handle NO. You’ve seen them interact when they’re not performing. That’s informed risk. Scooping up a total stranger with zero shared community, zero references, zero behavioral observation, and hoping adrenaline carries you through? That’s rolling dice with someone’s nervous system. Vibes are not vetting. And while we’re here get involved in the community. Go to munches. Go to vettings. Go to classes/workshops. Go sit at a table and actually talk to people without trying to collect them. Observe. Watch how people interact. Notice who listens. Notice who interrupts. Notice who respaspects space. Notice who name drops. Notice who checks in after someone looks overwhelmed. Notice who vanishes when cleanup starts. Munches are not play parties. Vettings are not…

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RAWRSUB

Why do I exist: Why do I exist in this vast expanse? A fleeting speck in the cosmic dance, Am I a mere accident of chance, Or part of a grand, divine romance? Do I wander aimlessly without a cause, Lost in the labyrinth of life's applause? Am I a whisper in nature's laws, Or a beacon in destiny's claws? Do I exist to love and to dream, To unravel the mysteries that gleam? Am I a ripple in life's stream, Or a figment of an endless scheme? Why do I exist, I often ponder, In this universe, do I wander? Am I a question without an answer, Or a journey to realms much grander? In the silence of night, I search for clues, In the stars, in the wind, in the morning dew. Why do I exist? Is there a muse To guide me through this cosmic ruse? Questions linger, unanswered still, In the depths of my being, an unquenchable thrill. Why do I exist? Time's hands fulfill The mystery of life, a quest until

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Tennwhiskey2025

sold the house finally. Got to see family and pushed on west. Adventures ahead. Made it to Colorado but not with having to make some repairs to Rv. Instate hwys are in horrible conditions. Gonna spend a week here to do repairs and rest.

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pizzapuppiescows

Me: I had the best apple the other day. Apples remind me of blah blah personal details and connections. Just about every message from the general you: Oranges are orange.

The Flood It looked like the devil was right. God finally regretted making humans because of all the wickedness upon the earth in Noah's days. He decided he was going to end the world. The devil seemed to be right, humans were bad. However someone caught his attention. Noah. The only one righteous on the earth in the face of all the wickedness. The only one left calling on God and teaching his family to do the same. God couldn't destroy him. So he would save him and his family and some animals and restart. Hopefully the faith of Noah and his family in God could be taught to the generations that would come after him and through him. God hurting for what creation had become flooded the earth. Saving Noah and his family in the Ark. God told Noah he would never destroy the world with a flood again. It was a tough decision for God but he did what was right. Enough was enough.

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Keva

I started a new job on Monday. I now work 8-5. And I am loving this job!!!

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RickyWhoreq00

This is another step on my journey. It is who I have always been, who I am meant to be, and now I eagerly embrace it. Started w/ female doms and a defining moment was when forced me to sick another slaves cock while she penetrated me w/ a strap on. When he came in my mouth, I loved it!!! Since then I have sucked a few cocks, mostly at adult arcades. Now I realize what I need is a man to take total control of me and have give my whole body, mind and soul to pleasuring him and anyone else he selaspects. I dream of ghis. I love watching kink.co, especially the upper floor and public disgrace videos. I also am starting to feel more flexible w/ my gender. I must explore this. Eventually, becoming a gay sex slave is something I am curious about. I have been seeking people to explore this with. When I was much younger I squandered some opportunities to experience these things and I now regret it. I fantasize about being 18 and entering this world...it would have been cool. But all I can do is seek people who will accept t me as I am now and explore the mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual aspaspects of my real identity. Should be 9nteresting.

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Wolven

Stepping back and giving up the chase for a bit. I will likely be back, but not pursuing anyone until the docs have helped me beat the cancer I just found out I have. Not all surprises are wonderful. But, just another challenge to conquer. Anyway, until I beat that I won't be able to take care of anyone else. If I'm here and things haven't changed for the better, I'm just chat''n and daydreaming.

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OlderBoyBitch

I have lost a phone to Skype and Google chat is not secure. If you don't want to chat on Whatsapp (free app that is encrypted n safe) then you are not serious. BTW I only would invite you if I'm serious, as I get a lot of msgs on CS and it gets distracting.

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AZSubmissiveGirl

Authenticity Many say they seek an authenic partner from CS although the longer I am on here it shows me that it has become a place that is an escape from reality for most. Some here are honestly seeking a partner in this lifestyle to create a dynamic with another however they will define it. Although the time wasters here makes it very difficult for those individuals to find one another. I know for myself, it has been a very frustrating process and journey.

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MissHispa

Please , if you want an answer , try to type something interesting , a bit longer than a line and that i can at least supose is not a copy of other women messages. example: hello , meet me on msn XXXXXXX takes me a second to ignore.

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LadyJordan

Life is fully of the unexpected. Sometimes that is a wonderful happening and at other times not so likeable. This month has been one for both phenonma.

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SeriousCBMaso

Long holliday weekends are wasted for me. I really need to find a guy or even a few men to torture and abuse my cock and balls. I want and need to suffer and service your needs.

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widowedslave

I've been feminized and there's no turning back

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Daala

Random ficlet: I gleefully stood, naked, and allowed my my hands to be bound together by a man who I knew wanted nothing more than to devour me. I grinned in anticipation as he guided my bound hands above my head and looped to tail of the rope through a chain hanging from the rafters above us. Once the rope was looped through the chain, I noticed him smirk as he pulled the rope tight and my arms were stretched further over my head until I had to rest mostly on the balls of my feet, leaving me in an unsteady stance. I was so wet that I felt like my slick was dripping down my thighs and my pussy was clenching in anticipation and nervousness. I couldn't help but shift around in my eagerness and groaned as I felt my naked thighs sliding wetly against each each other as my pussy practically drips with want. My eyes were wide as you faced me and pulled my right leg up to expose my pussy. You clutched your throbbing dick in your hand. I felt you take a moment to rub your cock along my wet slit, I hear you groan when your dick meets the warm and wet folds of my pussy lips. I feel your grip on my thigh tighten right as you slide your dick easily into my wet, slutty hole. I groaned, and before I even had time to register the intrusion, you were pumping into me, eager to feel more of my slick, clenching hole. This didn't last long, though, as it wasn't nearly all that you wanted. You pulled out, much to my displeasure, my pussy was throbbing and needed much more. I saw you retrieve the leather belt from your discard pants and knew my ass and thighs were about to be on fire and I shuddered in a combination of trepidation and want. I watched you loop the belt in half and pull it taught, making the leather snap delightfully. When our eyes met, I watched your face turn predatory when you met my playful and challenging look. I grinned, and hoping to sound more confident than I was in that moment, I looked up at you said "Do not bo…

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psurugger

Lust, pleasure, and the quest for eternal orgasm should never be forbidden, nor be limited from whom to whom the pleasure is being given or received. Lust and pleasure is the original, the innocent state of man, the highest virtue, the most sacred, the most innocent form of pure, untainted expressions of love and life. Therefore, I believe that cumming, or any forms orgasmic bliss is the highest state of spiritual enlightenment. Being soaked in cum is a blessed state of being, and to cum, to reach the state of orgasm, is to reach the most sacred, the most divine form of being. To cum, and to be cummed on, is to reach the state of the original innocence, to be one with God and The Universe themselves. --credit to unknown author

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AlphaOmegaAZ

well it happened again, I tell a girl I won't give her money for her sob story and I find I've been blocked ... Another scammer and or hustler found, if you want the name, contact Me I'll give it to you, I won't give it out in public

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MsTxStorm

R.I.P. Dickey Betts!!!!!

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StoryofA

Important note, I'm a masichost. I like needle play and I like pushing myself to limits, it's fun to see what my body and I can do. I have my limits but... 😌 sadists welcome! And sensual sadist too. Ok talk soon Make me beg for you to stop.

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rubberxslut

It is really challenging. An individual keeps writing me and for some reason, I'm blocked from responding. It says the individual has blocked my messages. I so wish they would see my journal and figure out how to fix the problem.

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retiredsman

i have had a few conversations here. I am not sure I understand some concepts or dynamics

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MaamsBitch

I am very happy to see they have fixed this part!!!!!!

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TheFluffySadist

I like the opposites, hurt you then hold you, coerce you but care for you, taking risks but in the safest possible way, when the taboo things sound so wrong but feel perfectly right. I offer structure and rules, with the appropriate consequences when broken. I don't do pain or humiliation for punishment, but I will if we both enjoy it. Mostly I like a lot of laughs with my kink.

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slave019

I read this profile today and think its nearly perfect" Hello slaves and Masters. Dom is looking for slave who knows that he/she was born to serve. Im looking for slave bois for permanent ownership. I will break you down. I will show you that your place in life is to serve and please me. I will degrade and discipline you. I wont stop until you truly believe you are shit and that you were destined to be mine. I will make you an my own personal property. Im looking for a live in , cleaning ,sex slave, dinner makeing, foot stool, urinal, cumdumpster, whipping post, slave Im looking to humiliate abuse, degrade slaveboy for my pleasure. Only interested in smooth, submissive, straight acting, slim bois who know that they are made to suffer, serve, obey, please, and commit accept any order from their Master. Absolutely every decision will be taken by Me, what the slave eats, drinks, when, where and how long it sleeps, what to wear should outside activity be granted, no social contact to others. I also do online training so slaves welcome. Im also looking for disabled slaves and Masters, sissies My rules are: The proper way of things. i.e the way it will be As My slave you have no rights; in fact you have nothing at all. You will take your place in fully recognizing the truth of My Supremacy, My Superiority and your own lowly status. You will obey My commands eagerly to the letter without questioning any of them and you will accept My authority and judgment of your servitude. My word is law and My whip is the implement of its enforcement. You will spend all your waking hours learning to exist exclusively for My pleasure, comfort, and glory and that of all masters . You will not allow your mind to wander even for a moment from Me and when it is not occupied in My service you will remember that all you do is at My whim and command. Even the basic privileges for you to…

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urbanleatherlife

Spanking scenes available with notice. floggers crops paddles of differing assortments all for O/our pleasure😌😌

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aslenderslave

Sometimes I feel such a fraud. During lockdown I had a really intense online interaction with a somewhat dominant guy in London. The idea was that we'd meet up once restictions lifted, but when they did he wouldn't commit to meeting and the thing fizzled out. Then around New Year he got back in touch saying he did want to get together, kept thinking about me and the things we talked about, etc - and he's kept writing ever since. I have been quite distant and offish with him, because I have mentally moved on. But here I am, still looking for a Dominant Man to master me, and there he is, offering to be that guy - and yet I keep saying no. What am I thinking about? Surely I should just write to him, apologise for being so rude and submit to him - and let this thing go where it will go. If I don't - what does that say about me?

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AdoptingAPet

New questions from applicants: Q: Can a family member who disapproves of my lifestyle come stay in your house with me for months at a time? A: No. We have an in-home opening because we choose to embrace how we live and love every day of the year in the privacy and safe space of our home. Q: If I decide to leave after a little while, will you give me money? A: We respect that sex work is work, but that's not what we are here for. So, no.

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PainfulOwners

In addition to wanting to meet those that wish to expand their BDSM horizons our needs at the moment are for SERVICE oriented slaves/subs, an excellent oppertunity is here for a cuck couple. We are sailing down the ICW and require people to attend to our shore needs like fetching groceries and going to hardware stores. Like bondage? We've got rope coming out our ears here on the boat haha! Long term at this point in not likely but great kink is always a possibility.

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Jop7777

I'm beginning to think nobody here is real

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pomonagirl

"do you remember the first time (part 1) i saw a status update asking people about their first time attending a Play Party...such a great topic and it inspired me to write a bit about my first time! i had taken a lot of "baby steps" and done a lot of research before attending my first play party. i wasn't going to events because i naturally wanted to---after a year of playing privately with "doms" i met on the internet, it had come down to three choices: either leave BDSM behind, keep doing what i was doing and end up in the hospital or worse, or....start attending events. So yeah. It was basically my only choice, if i wanted to continue to explore and play, without risk of grievous injury and/or complete mental breakdown. After much consideration, i chose to attend a night at a pretty famous Dungeon here in Los Angeles...The Lair De Sade. i had chosen a night that they called "Insight". The evening started with a program of classes (a BDSM101/Dungeon Etiquette Class, then a Flogging Class), then there would be a play party for the rest of the night. "Sir, will i enjoy this?" i remember asking my then-Dom and Mentor. "you will enjoy the class, the play party...maybe not so much..." i remember him telling me. He had been encouraging me to start attending things for months, urging that i would meet "a better class of Gentlemen Pervert there". He knew, more clearer than i, what danger i was putting myself in with each "Coffee Meet and Play In Private" i was doing. Although he knew diving into "the scene" of BDSM Dungeons was my best option, he also made it clear that not everyone there was to be trusted. Attending a BDSM Dungeon wasn't a guarantee of safety, but it WAS another tool that i could utilize to be safer. So knowing all this, i went with an open mind, yet set my boundaries firmly in advance: i'd go and attend the classes, then stay at the play party a l…

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ItsMaster

Some where some one is having a heck of a great time. Shouldn't it be you?

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MsCy76

I have decided to implement a new rule. If you are serious about FLR, but yet all you want to talk about is bdsm, I doubt your sincerity. FLR is MORE then just bdsm. There is a lot of vanilla as well. So the rule is this...for every bdsm topic talked about, the next topic is vanilla related. Don't like this rule? Then don't talk to me

if your curious what I look like just ask site is to buggy to add pictures to my profile I have tried

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pomonagirl

once i began my BDSM education at Dungeons/in the public community...i started to become annoyingly level-headed and realistic about play. but, over time, if you allow me to see your true character...if you can respect my boundaries and play within my parameters... if you can create a space for me to feel safe, then all those boundaries start to fade away.

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MadammeNoire

Evidently so many have been naughty this year and seeking a spiritual cleansing of sorts... to atone for discretions and misbehaving in general this past year.. I've been quite busy doing intense caning..ballbusting ...trampling.....enforced chastity..etc .. Enjoying every moment..like a kid in a candy store.... being the Sadist that I am. The best mode of cleaning the soul..Absolutely.

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Arianaa

I love that version and really, anything that they sing is fantastic. I listen for hours just devouring the words and the pain and longing.

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LAActress4U

The blackbird dies tonight. I can't do it anymore. And I don't want to. MEN, I AM LOOKING FOR SOMEONE SPECIAL. WE WILL LAUGH, SMILE AND CUM. The best men in my liife have found me. Sir, please come find me. (3 hole Slut) MEN COME TALK TO ME , PLEASE.

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newtransmistress24

right king might be fisting it put up a typo and I am not editing it as that will put me back into review process

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Aedinesidhe

Due to the pain in the rear-end of updating my profile I will be updating here. I'm currently in North Dakota for the foreseeable future. My future goal is to buy a large acreage and learn how to ranch through permaculture as well as homesteading. Due to recently moving I am unable relocate at this time.

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fetishmilf50

hello. currently looking for more in to extreme side of bdsm relation. possible no limit relation with right partner who understand no limit play idea .

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transbitchuk

if you want to see more and know more i'm on fet with the same name xxx

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ItsMaster

Have strength to be who you are.

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pim217

Dominant, 32, little to no taboos looking for a female of couple to play with

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mollymight

It's OK to chat online for a while but if you are not prepared to move to more conventional and open forms of communication then I will lose interest and suspect that you maybe not be all you claim to be. I can spot you all now with ease, having wasted a lot of time talking to fakes in the past. My profile needs updating as I'm 60 now... How old are you?

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