~~~~~Profile Update~~~~~
I am ONLY looking for friends at the moment ...

I am 38 years old, i was born in Cuba, but left to the states when i was 5 years old. I live in Miami Florida at the moment, have lived many places but have yet to find that one place i can call home. I am a single mother of two boys ages 13 and 14 and no I dont need a daddy for them they have one! With that said ....

I have lived the L/s real time I am out spoken and having said that if you are looking for someone who will walk around mentally thinking shes wearing a ball gag in her mouth You might want to move along.
Being submissive doesnt change the fact that i can think and have opinions even if it is ultimitly the Dom/Master's word that stands in the end.
A lot of  people think i am  fragile but i'm on my own and @ times things have gotten overwhelming but i have always dusted myself off and picked myself up again.
Someday i will find my one, all things come along with time. The one that comes into my life has to understand that aside from being submissive i am a mother and my children come first at all times.
When the right one comes along, a friendship will start than trust will build than if everything fits, a relationship will blossom, no rush this way it leaves little room for mistakes.
Ask me things You want to know do not make assumptions, they often lead to wrong impressions, If You cant be honest from the get go than move along i dont have time for head games or to babysit a Man i have two kids already.
If You are looking for someone to share with a few of Your budies again move along, the one i want in my life has to care so much for me that he wouldnt want another man to touch me. This has nothing to do with lack of trust in my One it has to do with self respect and things that go beyond words to me. I hold nothing against those that do it * to each thier own * just i dont want to be in that boat. I have done polly before but after two situations of it not working i am no longer interested in it.

Take the time to get to know me if You wish, dont send me one worded emails, dont send me emails demanding anything last i checked ** im unowned ** i answer to me myself and i , untill than enjoy Your day and if we happen to click yay for us if not i have lost nothing

** It is said that One with nothing left to loose has nothing to live for ** well i live for my children anything else takes second place