Collarspace

I'm reciprocally collared and married, and I take it seriously, so please don't inquire about me changing my mind. If you do, you'll find yourself blocked in a heartbeat.

I'm here to keep in touch with real time friends and guide those who are new to the local groups in the Upstate of SC.

Online is okay, but nothing beats the safety factor of hooking up with the gossip chain about who is honorable and who is plain bugnuts.

If you think you've met me RT, and just aren't sure, feel free to contact me and I'll be happy to play the when/where game to find out. I'm not unreasonable, just tired of being solicited to fulfill the fantasies of folks who are just not ready to come out into the light of day.

No, I do not desire online play. No, I am not looking for a boy to rub my feet. I did a decade as a slave and I do not wish one of my own. Yes, I do top occasionally, but only with close friends whom I've known for a long time in real life. If you're interested in the lifestyle, I'll be quite happy to point you towards real time groups in your area, but I will not see to your education personally.

*laughing* Okay, with all the disclaimers done, I do heartily encourage you to seek out your local groups and get to know folks who can teach you more in a month than you can learn online in a year. No amount of book learning can possibly replace seeing it actually done to someone. You may or may not find your one true love in the groups, but you'll certainly be more prepared to do your best by them when they arrive!

My partner and I run the Coffee/Espresso events in Greenville, so drop me a line if you're interested in attending!