I've been away for a very long time and decided to give this site another go.
I'm a heavy mental dominant moreso than physical. I do enjoy physical play, but mental play is what I adore. I've been doing erotic hypnosis for nearly 20 years and I have explored everything from quick, casual play, to deep conditioning with a long-term partner.
I am seeking someone with whom I can share an actual connection with. I do not do hookups, or short term flings. I want to get to know my partner before moving onto play. I want someone that I can enjoy outside of the bedroom.
I'm also not seeking anyone for exclusively online play. A bit of playing as a precursor to meeting is one thing. But, just playing online is not something I enjoy.
Please, be genuine and well spoken. I always do so and ask for the courtesy of the same from others.
This is a very brief update, and I intend to post a much more in-depth one in the future.
I have recently come to a decision in my life. Before I was searching for play partners and sex. This is no longer true, I realized that one night stands are pointless. I want to know someone before I become more intimate with them. While what we do is fun on a casual level, the true spirit and joy of BDSM, can only be enjoyed with someone whom you know more than just as a friend.
There have been some comments by others about the issue of profile photos. I am aware that my face does not show in my profile photo, this is because of my intended career field. In law enforcement and military both one cannot be open about lifestyle choices such as this, and I do know that agencies monitor sites such as this while doing background checks on potential applicants.I can and will provide face pictures should anyone be interested, all you have to do is ask.
