4/22/2009 6:06:25 PM: i looooove my Sire.. really truly love him. Not only in a D/s way but as a friend, lover, mate, companion, partner in crime lol... i think that love is important in a D/s relationship. To some level you kinda have to love the other "half" of the dynamics. I bet there are times where if Sire didn't love me he would have probably left, likewise there have been times where if i didn't love him i would have left. Hmmm i know i can hear ya' all screaming "OMG that is so not submissive or slave way of thinking" but it's true though, at least for me. The dedication, trust, communication, and constant work that a D/s relationship involves most likely will inspire love in some fashion or another. There are people out there that say that love has nothing to do with a D/s relationship and i guess in a way it's true but i think i D/s relationship with love is better. As long as that love doesn't get in the way of the D/s relationship ... did that make sense lol?

3/12/2009 8:47:29 PM: Been thinking about using this space to write something ... but what to write about? LOL maybe the vanilla side of being a slave, cause as much as we all want to fulfill our fantasies and keep our lives full of mischief, there are very long time periods where even being a slave seems to become very vanilla/mundane. Don't get me wrong but the dishes still need to be made, dinner, laundry, cleaning, work, kids, family, bills, etc... i just happen to do it with a collar. Some people don't think or see that part of the lifestyle when they get involved in it. They see only whips, chains, submission, crawling around on the floor, floggers, shrieks of pain, whimpers, bondage, Domination, etc. 24/7...