Update 2/19/2013

If You wish to contact me, please be a straight Dominant Male.  If You decided when You joined this site, to check the box marked "Dominant" then in Your profile state that You are a straight male, then why are a LOT of You so called straight males looking for, sub trans?  If You even entertain the thought of a dick flopping around near Your face, ass or hands, then guess what?  You aren't straight.  The only dick that straight men touch, is their own!

I reside in Ft Myers, FL.

Update  6/12/12

1. I'm NOT a slave, hence my screen name.

2. I will NOT be dominated via IM's, emails, cam etc.

3. I have a brain, and a mouth, and I'm not afraid to use them.

4. I am intelligent and witty.  If you should decide to contact me with some nonsense,    I will ignore you.  I'm NOT here to font fight with morons!

5.  N0 response to a read e-mail, IS a response.  It doesn't mean that I'm not submissive, it means YOU cannot read and I'm simply not interested in men with no reading comprehension skills.

6.  If your profile says something along the lines of, "These sub/slaves profiles have "demands" in them...."....yes most do.  We know what we want and what we don't want, much like YOU!  So if your profile says something along those lines, pass me by.  Most of us won't settle!  Learn this, we know you aren't a match and you seek a doormat.  So...MOVE ALONG!   ;o)

7.  Don't be so quick to judge a strong  willed sub due to her having intelligence, wit, and an opinion.  A woman that drops to her knees all that quickly for you, will in turn, be on her knees for EVERYONE else too!  Food for thought.


 My name is Tonya and I am a submissive female.  I'm 48 yrs old and I've been in the Lifestyle for close to 25 years. 

I have 2 great kids, one grown and out of the nest attending college, and a 15 year old son. 

I'm not about relocating unless I meet someone worth me relocating for and that won't happen overnight.

Hard limits, children, animals, scat.
No, those can't be pushed.

If you're from another country or state, please don't waste my time or yours, unless you want to be email pals.   I live in Ft Myers, FL



My story of "O"

The "O" meaning Owned.  Does someone have to physically "Own" someone for that person to feel "owned"?

Does someone need to physically say, "I Own you" to feel they do?

Does "Owned" come from words, or how one feels?

I hear the word "Owned" thrown around in this L/lifestyle like the word "the".  

Truth be told, I "Own" my car.  The bank "Owns" my home ( at least for another 17 years).   I know that my car isn't going anywhere.  Can you say that about the person you claim to "Own"?

You can't keep something that doesn't want to be kept.  People change, circumstances change.  People's lives go into directions that they didn't expect or foresee.  People grow apart.  Needs change.  Wants change.

Think of the things you've "owned".  Now think of the things you presently "own".  Have they not changed?

This L/lifestyle as wonderful as it is, can grow tiresome with all the protocol and bullshit that's attached to it.   Most of it is caused by the participants.  I've found that here on CM for the most part, that the people here aren't necessarily who they claim .  Most are actors and actresses that  have grown tired of the mundane.  The profiles change, the "Owner" changes, and people go on about their lives. 

Now that being said, I have to wonder what Company is used to repossess  the now "UnOwned"

I have a fondness for DaddyDoms.  I find that relationship the best in all it's forms.  Some think it's age play.  I guess you have to have been in one to appreciate it.

Thank you!

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