I have been involved in the Chicago scene, but am still getting to know kinky people closer to home. I'm interested in making friends as well as in finding local play partners who are well-proportioned and attractive. I prefer slim women in general. A good match will be a woman who either has the confidence to know what she wants or the confidence to explore and find out what she wants.
When you meet me, you're likely to notice my red hair, my quiet demeanor, and my scowl. Well, not really. I'm smiling on the inside. Quiet at first, but, like most introverts, once you get to know me I can talk your ear off. Beyond BDSM, I'm interested in politics, history, computers, D&D, playing guitar and reading (especially sci-fi/fantasy novels). My kinky side loves gags, corsets, stockings, pulling hair, nipple pinching, ass spanking, neck biting, hip poking, face slapping, rough body play, forced oral sex, and fucking (especially from behind). Also, I've been getting more and more into rope bondage.
After more than a decade together, my wife and I realized that our occasional light kinky play is more of a passion to be explored deeply. In our relationship, we are equals; but in our play, I am a Dominant Sadist. Some may find it a contradiction, but I'm also a masochist. However, receiving pain makes me want to react in a consensually violent way.
