Not sure what to tell you.  You're simply not looking for what you claim.  That's going to manifest issues. When you are a bit more self aware,and your choices match your real goals. Then self analysis will help you to determine which tree for you to bark up. 

There are simple ways to see anyone's agenda. People aren't really honest with themselves.  Which makes it hard to be honest with you.  You can only hope they progress on their path of self awareness.  Arrogance, and ignorance is a devastating combination. 

I am not just the final piece to your life.  I am not going to prove myself worthy,or accommodates your expectations.  Either you want a real connection with a Dominant Man,or you don't. I bring experience and the proper mindset.