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Pan Male Dominant, 70, Palm Beach, Florida 

Kinky, crazy and constantly funny.  In search of a mature trans woman with a good sense of humor, an easy laugh and a weak bladder.  We may be a bit too old to conquer the world, but with your weak bladder we sure can keep the flowers well watered. 

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In Januaury of last year I started a path I never saw myself doing... I hired a trainer and started working out 4 days a week... I feel like there should have been a betting pool, or something, because I NEVER expected to be on that same path a year and four months later...but here I am, healthier, at least 40 pounds lighter, and feeling so much better, physically, mentally, emotionally and about myself. I constatnly amaze myself with things, like how four years ago my doctors said I'd never lift more than 10 pounds... last Wednesday, I did dead lifts at 205 pounds for 5 reps... or how they said I would never be able to handle running again, I started jogging on the treadmill (supervised of course) and have a total of 5 minuets over 2 days, not bad for something I haven't done in over 20 years, and for someone with "heart failure"... In the last 20 years of my life, I've gone from an active live to inactive, a 30 waist to a 46, now back down to a 38, inching (get it?) closer to 36 actually... and all I can thinks is "Wow! I really like doing this!" You see, when I was a kid, it was the "jocks" the weightlifters, the football ogres, I mean players, that bullied harrased and made me feel insecure about being gay, if only they tried that today... anyhow, I never figured that this training I do now would be enjoyable because of that. Actually it's more than enjoyable. I get out of bed in the mornings with energy, ready to conqure my day and all that it throws at me! All because one day, I decided I wasn't gonna let heart failure win. Because I decided to be a healtheir, better me. And because I literally dared myself to do it! Who knows, maybe in a few weeks I'll give a progress update...
I long to have both the ownership the passion of giving the freedom of use and the security of safety with the man that I belong to and trust implicitly. Someone I can be devoted to, grow with, walk alongside, sleep next to, but always put him first, serve and give my love to. Forever.  But ha! I also know that's a tall order, a huge idea.  But a girl can dream, eh?  Long for is probably too mild of a word...but crave isn't the right word either, as my need isn't craven or out of control, it's measured, desired, planned, developed.  I'm at heart a kitten, a babygirl, searching for her Daddy. Not an age play Daddy tho, and I have hard limits about age play, diapers, too much little play, etc. But if you are a strong, thoughtful, intelligent, kind and caring Dominant who is looking for a devoted intelligent sexy funny healthy kitten to serve take care of and love you, then you've found me!  Do I have faults? Do you? Of course we do. But we work on them and grow, we always talk, we don't mind fuck each other, we have emotional and psychological intelligence to go along with our strength of character. But you lead, and I follow.  I've never had this, not even close. I've had many Doms of course. But I've always been the one who ends up leading, who knows, who does the right thing, who laughs, who isn't afraid to fail, the one to cry and forgive. The one to stand and walk away.  Will you let me be me, your girl, your slut, your kitten? Will you be my number 1? My Dominant? My man? My love?  Here's looking at you, Sir. 
A more honest name for this site is Fantasy Space since most men on here are more interested in a fantasy than a collar. When I first found this site it was called Collar Me but for some reason the name was changed. Anyway, My point is that I have been here for a very long time. During that time I have met some really good people who ultimately became really good friends. But most of the men on here are just here to experience a vicarious thrill and have no intention of ever daring to take a walk on the wild side. I like Lou Reed and I am sure that it is twenty minutes after four somewhere. The really cool thing about writing something is that you don’t have to try in vain to remember what you were saying because you can go back and read it. As I was saying most of the men must lead very sad lives if they get off on fantasizing about adventures that they do not dare to have. I have pretty much done everything I have ever fantasized about and when I am very very old I will not be regretting the things that I did not do. Some of you are very good and go so far as to research flights and local hotels. I wonder is the fantasy more fulfilling if you go into very specific details about your proposed visit? But there are always little tells that give you away. Sometimes it’s not too difficult to figure out that you are married or you live in mother’s basement or you are a college kid experimenting with BDSM. The signs are sometimes there. I don’t feel too sorry for you and those are your problems not Mine. I do feel just the slightest bit of sympathy for the rest of you those of you who do not have an inconvenient wife and or family and have got your act together sufficiently to be able to afford the price of a trip to Austin. One thing I always check when I look at someone’s profile is the date that he joined and I am suspicious of anyone who joined yesterday so I tend to let My guard down a little when you have been on here for four o…
I came to the conclusion years ago that most men are on this site because they aren't truely honest with themselves.  So they have been on here long term, 1 year 5 years 10 years and more.  Why ?  Because they get comfortable in lying to themselves and eventually lying to others.  I'm not actually talking about dom men.  I'm more talking about sub/slaves.  If your just looking for weekend kink , just say so.  If your never going to move and your shoes are nailed down to the floor, just  put it in your profile or tell people that. If your never going to move but don't mind meeting someone and let her take control of your life , online, phone and meeting in person sometimes. No problem just say so.    The lies will ever get you anywhere. you might come on here in your 40's and next thing you know your in your 50's and beyond and just fooling yourself.  Chasing something you'll never get. What a waste of time and a life.  Do you think working and having some money means anything when your last breath is at hand ?   I promise you that you will look back and see what an actual waste your life was. you take nothing with you in the end , but still, you hold on to your pathitic life and lies.   It is a free man that breaks away from that thought and becomes what he knows in his heart is the right thing to do . It might sound like a contradition or an irony .... someone free enough to be enslaved by someone.  But in reality  it's about following your heart and mind and breaking away from all the " things " in this world.  I know not everyone will understand what I wrote but hopefully you'll re-read it and ask yourself serious questions.  The answers are in yourself as well. 
This is an odd request.  No, it's actually a very odd request. I'm not sure where to begin with this.  I guess I'll just give a brief summary and then get right to the request.  If anyone who reads this wants more details, then contact me privately. Since June 9th, I have been conducting an experiment on myself.  I have chosen to not have an orgasm and I have done this without wearing a chastity cage.  When I started, it was just to see how long I could go.  But a few weeks into it, I decided that I was going to aim for 100 days. Aside from when in the shower, I have not touched myself with my hands since I started.  I have, however, been edging myself to the point of addiction.  To do this, I use (get ready for it) ...... a magic wand massager!   And with the exception of a little bit of (ahem) spooge that came out on the 25th day, I have been cum-free and orgasm-free. In the past week or so, I have begun leaking a little.  But I have come up with a comical remedy for this, a "band-aid" for the problem, if you will. As I type this message, it is the 80th day.  20 to go, putting the "explosion day" on September 17th! All that being said ... onto my request ...   Once I hit the 100th day, I'd like to be observed as I orgasm for the first time since June 9th.  It would be sort of like a watch party, I suppose? The request is for information.  Does anyone know any sort of a webcam site that would allow me to do this? I'm not interested in a paysite I need to buy membership to in order to do this. There's bound to be a free website out there. Does anyone know of such a website?   Thank you, Nicky  
It's irresponsible of me to remain a mystery for too much longer, so here is my first journal entry. I am excited to have a potential play partner, a wonderfully sexy sub-leaning male switch. That means I'm not actively search in for a partner right now. I am open to meeting mentors and making friends.  I have some scattered experience as a service top and bottom, but I feel ready at this point in my life to explore my dominant side more.  I absolutely love seeing the male body tied up. There's something about a man tied down or tied up, completely helpless and at my mercy. I have a dream of assembling a little album of beautiful shibari starring my sweet switch as the muse. I appreciate any recommendations of good shibari resources. Messages from enthusiastic riggers and rope bunnies are more than welcome.  I'm also curious about male orgasm control, I'm looking for some fun games to play involving edging or bondage.  If you're still reading I suppose it's fair to describe myself a little. I'm a natural redhead with a soft body. I have a very specific taste in men, some of you know what, of which I have an insatiable appetite for. I'm sensual- I love to enjoy good food and music and great sex. I'm not a very strict Domme and I'm not a very obedient sub, but I think I make up for it by being a pretty good time! I'm writing this to round out my profile and to record the start of my journey as a Domme. If you feel compelled to message me after reading this, you're welcome to, but please don't be boring, I have to be selective about who I reply to now. -MM
My "Tips" for Beginner Baby Girls Age Play Tip for Today ~ Keep one foot always in Reality, so you can always Return---------------------------------------------------------------------------------- There are some people that do want to be full little time, but I'm not one of them... lots of times you have to be adult and do adult things.  I consider age play like play... you jump into it and play when you want to, and jump out of it when you don't.   As  much or as little as you like.   Those who want to be it all the time and never come back... are probably trying to hide from something or have mental issues.   In my opinion that's not what age play is for...  age play is play, a way to frolic in your imagination and pretend and live in your imagination as someone else you fantasize to be for a while.  You can go full little and live it and be "there"... it's kind of wild... like falling down a rabbit hole... for minutes, hours, days, weeks even... but you also want to keep one foot in the real world so you can jump back out if you need to.   It is an escape or can be, from yourself, or all your exhausting problems and worries and cares in the world, where they all disappear and give your mind a break from them all.... but you don't want to escape forever.  Then you become the "lost" or "unreturned" and are probably a candidate for a mental hospital.  At some point you'll wake up and all your problems will still be there.As for being in public, well, you want for the most part to return to being an adult for that.  You can though do it surrepeticiously guerilla style, because age play mostly happens in your imagination anyway.  Nobody can see what's going on in inside your head as you walk through a mall or grocery store holding your daddy's hand, for example.You don't need a daddy to be a little girl, or anything else, you can do it all in your head just by closing your eyes and ima…
Please do not lie to me!  If you lie you may get away with it for a short while but you will doom the relationship to fail in the long run. If you and I get to the point where I accept you into my service you will give all contact information like your real name, address, and phone number and we will communicate by phone and sometimes on video and we will work toward getting on a plane for real life visits.  If you can not do this, or if you dont want to do this, then do not write me and tell me that you want to serve.  I am tired of people telling me that they want to sweep my floor but they don't feel comfortable telling me their name!  Get real.I will train you in how to think and how to serve.  Training your thinking is detailed and involves defining words so that you and I mean the same thing when we speak.  It does not start out sexual at all.  It will be like school.  You will take notes and be tested.  But before we start that process you will provide the same kind of identifying information you would need to provide to a school about who you are.  It is not the first thing I ask, but I will ask for it eventually so don't start out telling lies.I can accept MANY things about you from your past.  When I say that I accept them it means that I accept that you have these things in your past.  It does not mean that you will be able to continue those things.  If you have made mistakes you can tell me, and we will decide how you should proceed from this point.  If you can be submitted and committed, then you can succeed.  If you want to say how things should be or how they will progess then you will fail.Do you still want to serve?If you do want to serve be sure to show me that you have read this journal article by summarizing this article, and any other journal articles, and summarizing my profile in your own words in your first letter to me.  This will show me that you have read my fu…
So, it's kinda ridiculous to try to update the simplest things, so I'm going to make a few notes here. I don't have everything checked that I'm looking for, or open to. If you are a human with a desire to dominate, or to have a sister sub/slave for your dominant, then I'm interested in hearing from you. If you have a kink or taboo, chances are that I'm willing to try it. Some exclusions apply, but I might be convinced anyway, with a lot of effort and trust. I apologize if it sounds like I have no standards, as that is not true, however I find it hard to put into words exactly what those are. It's much easier to chat and just know if it feels right or not. I'm currently caretaking for my mother, so I would need time to make arrangements before relocating. I'm still fighting for SSDI, so I have no means of my own. I'm not looking to leech or scam off of anyone, I'm serious about living the lifestyle with the right person(s). I just want to be upfront with my ability to go places or equip myself. As of December of 2023, I will have been off of HRT for 2 years, which has been hard both physically and mentally. I went through a pretty rough patch while my mom was in the hospital for 2 months, and I put some weight back on. I want to get to under 180 lbs at minimum, so I have 90-100 lbs to lose to get there. Once I'm there, hopefully I can still lose some more weight and get a more dainty figure. And yes, I plan to get back on HRT and continue transitioning, it's just really difficult right now. Doesn't help that my PCP has been questioning my transgender identity due to me not finding some way to get back on HRT without an income, even though Medicaid here keeps getting more restrictive about covering anything that might be considered trans care.
    Need me to rub your belly???? Feel the warmth of my lip and gentle flow of my breath As I softly kiss around your naval My breast slide over your penis. You feel the warmth of my breath It's hard and pulsating   I can feel it throbbing Tell me that you want me I stand and allow you to undress me I push you back on the bed Leaning over you, looking into your eyes, I place a kiss on your head So nice and hard I must taste Pulsating in my mouth Leaking a juice so sweet I crawl on the bed and pull you on top of me and tell you Put it inside me now!!! I am so aroused I cum quickly Working on my next explosion Grabbing you and pulling you deeper inside me I am taking every inch of you My breast are bouncing And you gentle hold them down as you suck pull and bite my nipples I tell you not to move I just want to feel myself grinding on you I cum again So nice and hot as it squirts all over us both I slap your ass and tell you fuck me hard We repo to a scissor position My knee bent to my face as you lean in for leverage I rub my clit as you are pounding my pussy I cum again I tell you to take your cock out and rub my juices around my pussy and ass I make you stand and I suck my juices off your cock and balls I play with your cock rubbing sucking and stroking. Massaging your balls, so very hard You moan and you want to grab my head and I tell you not to touch Edging you and then easing off I slow the licking and sucking down You have some much sweet juice just leaking I allow drops on my breast I rub the head over my nipples covering my breast with your juice I think shall I let you cum?   You say oh yes mistress plea
Face to face - A work of fiction. (by me) The door bell chimed, he took one step back composed himself and took three deep breaths. The Square of frosted glass lit orange and he heard footsteps approaching. He swallowed. They had met online some couple of months previous and instantly liked each other . He appealed to her sensually dominant side, she wanted to respect and enjoy the men in her life . She also wanted to pull them closer, to wrap them around her little finger. She appealed to his submissive. The little boy inside who craved that guidance. The worshipful serf in need of his Queen. They both wanted to fall in love. One final breath and the door was open. The masculine and feminine greetings crossed through the silence between the two and they embraced there on the front step almost immediately. It was warm and familiar to both and both felt a charge. He felt like he was drinking her in. The scent from her hair, her neck, her clothes all combined and rushed to his stomach. She knew that he meant this embrace, she felt his passion and new that she had him, if she wanted him. She broke off first and pecked him on the cheek. Very lovely to finally meet you, you smell very nice. Come in and shut the door behind you. Yes Ma'am He responded. They had agreed on this title some time back but saying it out loud now made it real. She liked the sound of it from him. He liked saying it to her. You brought wine I see, thank you, go through to the left and take a seat and I'll bring us some glasses. Make yourself comfortable. He watched her turn and leave and she felt him watching and it felt right to both. They sat and they talked like old friends catching up yet one friend had developed a crush on the other and the other knew it. She found him charming and charismatic. He had a shine and a passion that she liked. He found her alluring and intriguing. She had a presence and grace that he loved. Should I open another bottle do you think? Entirely up to …
Just a simple journal entry.  my goal is to hopefully one day be a full time chaste male service slave. With all that implies for anyone that understands old school lifestyle BDSM. But I'm also seeking all that can bring to the table as far as benefits.  Thats not going to happen overnight and it's just a goal or ideal that's about service itself being the real reason. But I'm seeking a (preferably) female Dominant that might want something similar for her own reasons. They do not need to match mine exactly. Just hopefully in vision. Hers also. Someone poly would be extremely welcome if it enabled us to do Her thing for Her reasons.  im not trying to dictate a certain outcome either. But this feels to me like it would be very rewarding on a level that's emotional and psychological as far as how i serve and what the real reward is. The relationship based on service.  Somewhere out there is a Woman that will hopefully read this and smile. You don't need to be monogamou. You can be poly. You can have others. You can have me kneeling before you waiting for Your command.  im not inflexible. This is very simply what I would like to give you or find for you someday. Something devoted and basically unconditional. That would bring joy to my soul and you would be the light of my existence.  It feels that if this inflection point could be found then basically anything could happen. That I could become what someone wanted. Maybe things change or maybe they don't. I'm not sure it's the ultimate limit to break. But anything else might fall. This is not a bad thing to want or to want to give. It's hopefully about finding my complete surrender.    You want this too. 
Some things to think about written by Ms Rika (she writes books about femdom and the power dynamics). I don't always agree with her 100% but I enjoy her thought provoking article. Rika thoughts   Ms_Rika SOOO many conflated, fantasy-driven thoughts in one place! FLR does not mean femdom. They are different things. They MAY coincide...often times they do...but they do not necessarily have to go together. If you mean Femdom, say Femdom. Marriage is an institution that is legal, often religious, and personal - and completely independent of power dynamics. You can layer a power dynamic on ANY type of relationship, "Spouse" is just one of them. The reason to marry someone is the same whether there is a power dynamic or not and it's not a power dynamic decision. Therefore, the reasons a marriage with a power dynamic dissolves are the same as the reasons one without a power dynamic dissolves. Femdom (and FLR) does not equate to cuckolding. Cuckolding relates to cuckolding. You can be a cuckold and NOT be a Femdom relationship (or an FLR, for that matter). Sometimes cuckolding is done within a relationship - sometimes it's not. Often the man doesn't know (technically, the man doesn't know). While it is possible that some power dynamics limit sexual interaction between the couple, not all do - and power dynamics certainly DO NOT imply a reduction in sexual activity. Sexless marriages are due to people whose libidos drift - or who no longer are interested in their spouse sexually. It has nothing to do with power dynamics
How I Knew - Nature So many arguments can be made for nature versus nurture, as to how one started down the path into this lifestyle, and there are no right or wrong answers. Everyone has their own reasons for seeking out kink - but I’m fairly certain that in my case, it was primarily nature, though a little nurture might have had a role. However, that’s not what this is about… not yet, at least. When I was younger… much younger, like single-digit younger, I had a recurring fantasy that I would visit quite frequently. In it, I was a stage magician, and I was on tour. At each of my performances, I would close the show by selecting a young woman out of the audience, and make her vanish on stage, then make myself vanish as the curtains fell. Now, I would distinctly not make her reappear as part of the show, so people would always assume that she was a clandestine assistant planted in the audience, and think nothing more of it. However, that was not the case. The scene would then shift to me returning to my home, and making my way down to my secret basement dungeon, where my most recent “assistant” was chained to a table. And while she was there, I would do… things… to her. Mind you, I was of an age when I did not actually have a concept of what those “things” might be, so the details are a bit fuzzy. Anyway, after I had done whatever I chose to do to her, she would then find herself chained to a wall in a room with my previous “assistants” lining the walls… and that would be the end of the fantasy. So, yeah, pretty basic, as far as BDSM fantasies go, but considering that I had not had any exposure to bondage, outside of perhaps watching Penelope Pitstop and the Ant-Hill Mob on Saturday morning cartoons… I think it is safe to say that the concept of kink has been a part of me from the start.
Maybe it will be fun to finally allow myself to write that "must not be" list I've been avoiding at great personal cost all these years. I have tried to stay positive, to not sound like a complainer like so many on here do, but I'm going to give in to the temptation to let loose with a laundry list of hate.  Ready? I AM NOT INTERESTED IN... "Daddy doms". If you describe yourself as a daddy ANYWHERE in your profile, and especially in your user name, I don't want to know you.  And stop with your rationalizing about how seeking a "daughter" is not really about incest and just represents a caring and nurturing relationship. Bull. You can use all sorts of words to indicate an interest in love and cuddles and whatnot. The fact that you refer to "daddy-daughter" or "seeking little" or whatever means you are the gross kind of perv instead of the hot kind. Anybody who calls himself an Alpha male. Only the omega-iest omegas self-label. A real Alpha is comfortable with himself and others, and doesn't need to go around beating on his chest to prove his superiority. Alphas usually but not always are dripping in women so don't need a site like this. I knew an exception once who was physically deformed and thus not drowning in pussy. But he was still confident, humorous (unlike all the deadly serious pseudo-Alphas), and very, very successful at what he did.  Alphaness speaks for itself, it doesn't wear a label.  Anybody who expects to be addressed as Sir or Master right off the bat. You earn those words. Or more likely, you won't.   Gorean or Shades aficionados. If you need a set of books to tell you how to conduct your sex life, you shouldn't even be in charge of yourself, let alone anyone else. Men who send impersonal cut and paste messages.  If you can't be bothered to read and digest someone's profile and then send them a customized note, you are also someone who wouldn't put much effort into being someone's partner. You're one of tho…
PROFILE UPDATE: So to avoid being locked out of my account, I will make my updates here. Something to note, the age range here superceeds all other age requirements listed in any of my writings and profile.  Who and what I'm looking for: Service submissives and/slaves Ages 21 - 48 Anticipatory Service Service Submission Real time service  What I'm not looking for: Online Service Those who only want to talkThose who are over 50 years old Those who are sissies are looking for feminization. Not my kink! To be your kink dispensary.    MY KINKS IN NO PARTICULAR ORDER: Domestic servitude(s/s/b doing handy work, mechanical work, chores, personal care - whether you do it yourself or pay for it to be done) Impact Play: I love taking My bare hands to someone's ass cheeks, but I also love using floggers, riding crops, whips and paddles. I am happy at varying levels of impact play. Tease and Denial/Anticipation Co-topping with a fellow Domme/Dom Hair pulling Collars and leashes Face slapping Some small forms of humiliation Manners Kissing THINGS I AM OPEN TO WITH THE RIGHT PERSON/IN THE RIGHT CIRCUMSTANCES SUCH AS THOSE IN SEVITUDE TO ME AND THOSE WHO SHOW THEY ARE CONSISTENT IN THEIR SUBMISSION TO ME: Foot worship: If I form a relationship with a sub who has a foot fetish, I will indulge. CBT: If this is something that a cock having sub would like done. Pussy Torture - I am very fond of whipping Sensual Domination: I love making someone's skin tingle, whether it be from scratching, caressing, biting, or sucking on their inner thighs. I also live for making My subs melt into Me from hot, drawn out make-out sessions and sensation play.. Strap-ons Anal play/Pegging Face sitting and smothering view profile ›
Picture it Feb 14, 20?? (to protect the innocent). A friend of mine was getting married. I always had a little crush on his girlfriend but I would never do anything to jeopardize their relationship. Little did I know that she felt the same way about me, and I was about to find out. The day before of the wedding she called me up and asked if I could help her with a few things.She gave me the address and told me to stop by. When she opened the door she was wearing a robe and holding two wine glasses. She invited me in and we sat on the couch. We started talking about tomorrow's events and she said her feet were killing her from practicing walking around in the high heel shoes. She asked me if I could give her a foot massage. I rubbed her feet and I could tell she was really getting into it. She was at the nail salon earlier and didn't want to chip a nail and asked me if I could help her at a shower. So we went into the bathroom and she took off her robe. Now up to this point we only gave each other hello or goodbye hugs, and now she is standing in front of me naked. I am trying not to stare but she is in great shape. She told me to get undressed and into the shower with her. I washed & conditioned her hair, washed her body, shaved her airpits, legs, and pussy too. She asked me why I never made a move on her and I told her I didn't think she was interested in me. She said that's too bad, after tonight it is going to be to late and I will never have this chance again. We kissed a litttle, I got her dried off and into bed and I went home. I saw her the next day at the wedding and she was beautiful. The wedding went on with no problems and as far as I know, my friend has no dea how she spent her last night as a single woman.