Using the journal instead of updating my profile itself because CS just takes forever to approve any updates.  What I am looking for is a dominant playmate. Open to something casual or serious. At least something ongoing even if a FWB would be great since this lifestyle does require a degree of familiarity and trust. I am married but poly, so someone who is also poly would be ideal knowing they can't be the center of my world at all times as I don't expect to be the center of theirs. My spouse knows everything about me and knows Im looking. She has a boyfriend of her own, and we arent looking together. She will not be involved, and if you ask the conversation ends.