im at a loss , a genuine one, im a lesbian, not bi, not anything else im a lesbian and try to ensure that i treat any other identifier with respect. But for some reason i have so many people who are not compatible with this , some who are the wrong gender totally, some born the wrong gender who while i respect their choices i also would like my own respected. If we cant respect each others limits and wants here of all places then what is the point ?

respect .... its a funny old word but its an important one, im gay i am physically attracted to women like myself im not interested in genitals that dont match mine, your not going to convert me,  or shame me so if you dont match that single need then there isnt a point in contacting me