Seeking My Mistress
I am an attractive, college-educated (young looking) 44-year-old man who is genuinely seeking a special connection with a dominant woman for a possible Female Led Relationship or real slavery dynamic. Location is not important. I would consider relocating for the right woman if we discover that we're a match, and the proper time is invested in order to get to know each other sufficiently.
I understand that there are endless guys on here who are only driven by a kink, lukewarm individuals, and weekend warriors. Most of them would never be able to handle real slavery if they were actually faced with it. At least not long-term. Real slavery isn't for the weak, and it takes a very strong mindset to truly submit as property 24/7.
What drives me towards this lifestyle choice is a deep desire to be owned by an intelligent and competent Mistress. One who knows how to break me down and then rebuild me into whatever she desires. In my opinion, the Owner/slave dynamic is the closest connection possible, because of the level of vulnerability and trust involved. But, only if it is real, and if the dominant isn't simply exploiting the submissive for financial gain. In which case there wouldn't be any real bond at all, it would simply be a paid service.
I am long-suffering, so I have the key ingredient that will allow me to endure her training (regardless of how extreme she desires it to be) in order to be shaped into a slave she could truly be proud of owning, a show horse, her obedient chattel. i.e., The training and time investment would not be wasted on me, she would be able to enjoy the results for the life of her slave.