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To all the boys and girls.... My personal type is at least 10 years younger and in very good shape. I have a thing for lean muscle and abs and legs. Not the overblown I only work out my upper body type of "good" shape. More the professional dancer, swimmer, tree climber, American Ninja Warrior type of shape. Lives it all the time. Not a gym m with no flexibility or stamina. Must have fast twitch muscles in good shape and must know what I am talking about. I love dancing and sex but....... I am not about sex and kink only or necessarily primarily, I'd rather go dancing more right now. If you are looking for just a play partner, you won't find it in me. My other interests in life take priority. Still moving to NYC later next year as I am not moving until my shitty breast reconstruction is repaired. The new plastic surgeon takes a hell of a lot longer to get surgeries scheduled with and I have 3 surgeries at least to be done 3 months apart in the next year. Plus I have to have the bracket holding my right wrist together rebuilt. as I fucked it up last October. Bad Oncologist prescribed hormone treatments but neglected to prescribe the required calcium. Had a couple of moron drs at Metro Health fuck me over in first quarter of 2019 before the pandemic. If someone interestes me and has an interest in moving to NYC to improve their life, that might be arranged. At the very least, I know I can make over 200k going back to work in offices full time although I have my own business in play now. I have 25 years experience working in NYC and its major metro area as an Executive Assistant and can easily do it again. Yes, I have lived in NYC before. Why I know I will love being there again.

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5/15/2022 12:02:17 PM

Yeah, I thought I would get back here sooner.. shit happens.

Started getting all my medical stuff going this year.  Ugghhh.

I am not looking for oral anything. My concerns this year involve going after the plastic surgeon who f'd up my reconstruction so severely it impacts the rest of my life and sue the f'er. I have to have what he did fixed. Firmly believe he shit on me because I am a medicaid patient. So, my focus is more personal health, at the same time, I have both art and print on demand stuff I am doing, my gardening is just picking up and getting busy at home, and I have an audio podcast I need to get going. On ssi at 560 a month sucks dirty dick.

If you want to be submissive to me, you have to have something to offer in return, not necessarily money, but say vanilla services that help me. Otherwise, I am busy as fuck making the next 20 years of my life better.  

As I usually find my relationships in person doing stuff, make it good to get my attention, or I won't waste my time.

Approaching me about your needs is stupid.


Lola the Iron Mistress


3/28/2022 4:20:03 PM

Hello Horny Ones!!!!

 

At this point, I will be here soon to answer emails stacking up.   Promise.   As to the general thread of life, I am still not on here to hook up, chat about sex, or similar.   I find myself more interested in connecting in other ways and on different levels.   As such, more interested a shit ton of other topics over sex, and doing a lot more in my life for me, than sex.   You will find me on Twitter more than here.

 

Later,

Lola the Iron Mistress


3/2/2022 5:17:46 PM

My primary focus is on improving myself, my life, and my finances as I need my own business(es) going to get the fuck off SSI.

I like to go out and do things.    Not just sex.  Like really, to all the men who think offering their random tongue to be used is attractive, it absolutely is not.  Buy some dental dams if you are tongue slut.   My first thought is how many std's do you have!?!?!    You can get them from oral sex and people who are full on adults who think about sex primarily, turn me off. 

I understand it from teens to 30's... when you get to 40's or older, you had better have a lot more to talk about, think about and exist for you to to talk to me.    I got so bored with my last toy because he was ONLY a walking fucktoy, with paranoid delusions.

The mind is a massive playground and you miss out just thinking about actual physical sex. 

Lola the Iron Mistress

 


3/2/2022 5:08:19 PM

Hello again to all,

 

There is so much more complexity to life and interests.  In actuality, I am a natural born dominant personality and that is separate from and precedes bdsm.  My mother said I learned to talk before I learned to walk because I realized I could get everyone to do what I wanted.  Being dominant is as natural as breathing and has nothing to do with sex specifically, it informs all parts of my life and being.

First assumption people have is that being a Dominant is part of doing bdsm.  I am not looking nor seeking anyone or anything.   My life is doing and experiencing and achieving.   

I would rather focus on art and business and watch shows and smoke bud and chill with my pits than deal with someone else's bucket list and wishes that I will fulfull it for them.  Waste of my time when that is absolutely not sex for me.  Just me doing something well for someone else because they need it and I am exceptional at most things I choose to do doesn't really make it interesting or exceptional for me.  Just run of the mill.  

My sex type is a younger ab'd up sexy twink in their 30's to 40's.   Please note I am not looking for that either.   I am doing me and working on my income and business. 

Here to talk to and meet interesting intelligent people and honestly, practice blogging somewhere while I get my website up.  Have the domain and the hosting set.....  for a few businesses actually.   If you want to be used and are concerned with sex primarily, find someone else.  If you want a fun and interesting life and to do more in it... maybe I will find you interesting.      I was sexually explorative and a NYC club kid (excellent dancer) in the 80's which was a shit ton of fun. Being in charge and very considerate can all be part of a dominant personality and are integral to all ects of my life.

Silly men who contact me asking about what fetishes I enjoy miss the point, fetish doesn't drive my life.   I do.  If you are telling me you want and it is only about your sexual bdsm needs in your first contact, you will get one email and then I will ignore you if you continue only talking about bdsm and sex.

While I do love many things bdsm, I do not love talking about them unless I already know someone.   If I am going to share details like that, I will do so when my website is done and I am blogging and podcasting and using those stories and details for business for all to hear/read rather than tell them to a casual questioner.

I have stories enough from many ects of life to tell and let others live vicariously throughthem while I get some residual income.

My being here on collarspace is to practice blog and, every once in a while, I make a good friend which I value more.   Most of my actual relationships happened in every day life.   

If you really want to know your chances with me, below is the criteria that matters:

I am more attracted to someone in shape, 15 years younger, with a brain, abs, and an interest in something that intersects with my businesses  which use skills/crafts like painting, graphic design, wearable art, clothing/t shirt design, website design, leather work, beadwork, blogging, and podcasting, computer tecg hardware and software support. 

There must also be a connection with personal interests which include a lot Marvel, DC, and sci fi/fantasy shows while working in photoshopand going out dancing and fine dining, when I don't cook at home (excellent home chef here), in-depth conversations,yes I read global news and poltiics and science every other fucking intersting thing I run into and research.  

I learn a lot, talk fast, think faster and most people are overwhelmed.    I do all of these things and more and I want someone who can get involved, keep up, and be rewarded with fun things that include yes, bdsm and just plain old hardcore fuck for an hour and get damn sweaty type shit at least once a day...which is actually my favorite thing.    No huge dicks wanted jsut ones that can go for an hour or more...lmmfao.    Older, petite and that shit don't fit, and not what I want.

Lola the Iron Mistress

 

 

 

 


2/6/2022 12:47:39 PM

Hello to the Newbies, Lifers, Kinksters, and PowerPlay People,

This was my favorite place to blog.  When it was bought and they made it hard to post in your profile and changes required a wait to be approved, which went on for part of a year, I left.

My life has been moving and doing since I was last on here often posting my thoughts.  I still have saved the oiriginal posts I put in my profile.   Some of it was some interesting shit I don't want to rewrite for a podcast or a book.

We are all here to be open, open on the inside and with many hiding their outside with masks and fetish wear..lmao  but open still.  Wide open aren't you, you cumsluts.

To the Men who are just kinksters and here for sex primarily, most of you don't interest me in the least.   I am born a naturally Dominant/Alpha and even in my vanilla life I am the one in charge.  Period.  If you are not able to submit without worrying about sex and orgasms, if you need to act up to be punished, you are not of interest to me.  

My interests include spending a LOT of my time painting, writing and getting an art business up and running so I am independant and no longer on SSI after breast cancer.   One of the things I dealt with in my time away from here.

I am a computer geek, with two pitbulls, art supplies for several businesses, and I am home with a great garden and mobile home spot I will sell in a few years.  Someone who wants to create art or go tech and work on websites, social media for stores, etc. or a good dog person, house cleaner who has a great vocabulary fits my lifestyle.  Lots of free time to learn and improve your own life is a good fit as well.

My life has included fantastic sex, better than yours in most cases.  I prefer to wait to have a superior time than fuck someone not worth a dime.   I am getting shit fixed in my life before I care about a sex partner.    My sex type is not the same as my companion type, unless you are a computer geek with a great smile, abs, ass and eyes....lmao 

 

Let life roll and have fun,

Lola the Iron Mistress


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 Age: 21
 Zamboanga city, Philippines