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MatureFLRGent

NYC and FLA based Intelligent articulate female LED relationship inspired gentleman here

I am kind ,warm-hearted, loving, faithful, educated witty, Happy and very romantic. I am very easy to converse with and love sharing my most inner thoughts and emotions with someone that I care about
Im very self-aware and I know deep within my heart that traditional vanilla relationships simply do not work for me.
I have studied female-led relationships for many years and from all angles and perspectives and I know deep within my heart that this type of relationship is where a gentleman like me flourishes and finds his happiness Within to flourish is to grow and be happy in a particular environment, to excel and reach ones full potential and to be the best we can be ..FLR brings this out in me. I think its exciting to have a romantic loving domestic discipline between couples. Who have a special bond in private and appeared to be just another loving couple in public. Our special secret together .
Its All About Us our closeness our love.
To be self-aware is the best gift that one can give to themselves and to someone they love. I seek someone I could love and grow old with and share my life with.
Our community is very special to me but its not always easy to find a proper partner Thus I have joined collarspace in my mission to find my loving mate. The world is a big place what better way to find what you looking for.
I have a good job I own a home my Affairs are in order. I will be seeking to relocate anywhere in the US within the next two to three years preferably somewhere warm
In the meantime I seek to establish an online friendship and to properly Court a lady that shares my goals and hopes I have no problem with a long distance relationship as long as its honest and real I have no problem putting in the time effort and money to travel to build a solid foundation for a permanent relationship.
From my perspective I want this to be organic and real taking the time to get to know each other to check in and
travel and spend time together is the best way to accomplish this.

Some see a long-distance relationship as hopeless and a waste of time and money I look at it from the opposite end, for me its an investment in my future.
So if my words twinkle your heart please say hello lets discuss who we are what we seek and lets see if we are a match

2/12/2023 5:43:35 AM

Willing to Travel within 2-3 weeks of initial contact if the chemistry is there for someone who is a match

12/4/2022 12:04:14 PM

So I'm in the process of writing a very erotic mind-tingling and highly stimulating story about a couple who is vanilla that falls out of love and rediscovers a new and everlasting love through the beauty of flr it's from both perspectives and it involves a lot of thought and emotional content. It's highly imaginative and I'm actually placing my own emotions and thoughts into some of the characters and I'm also being influenced by some of the desires and expectations that are written in some of the lady's profiles on here as a reference when I'm completed if anyone would like a link I'm more than happy to provide it's just a part of my imaginative creative mind that blossoms because of my appreciation for this

12/4/2022 6:11:03 AM

FLR brings out the very best in a quality Gentleman ❤️

10/22/2022 6:16:02 AM

I am seeking to travel and invest time and resources  to meet a potential mate if there is an honest connection with  someone further away who wants to build a future together which includes a proper courtship 🌹

10/22/2022 6:15:07 AM

Just a thought to share.. By limiting ourselves to only locals who " live within hours drive" as I see in so many profiles Aren't we limiting ourselves and missing out on an opportunity to be with a potential partner who offers true love and commitment? Is there anything wrong with maintaining two residences and planning and  spending quality time together to grow our bond weekends and trips together..Isn't that a proper courtship? The possibilities are endless isn't that more desirable then meaningless chats with online strangers and searching?  if we just widen our scope the possibilities are endless Just saying...

12/7/2021 2:07:30 PM

I would like to take a moment to share some thoughts about female-led relationships and the pride that I take Within Myself in embracing our lovely community

Why is it for me?

As we mature through our lives with age comes wisdom and knowledge and self-awareness. Maturity is a beautiful thing it helps us realize the  beautiful moment that we have and this wonderful thing called life it makes us less fearful to be more bold about our desires, our happiness, and our self-awareness, we learn to know what makes us happy within and what we hope to find in a partner.

The frustration that we see daily in normal vanilla relationships are so sad it seems people spend their time arguing and measuring themselves against each other and it creates so much drama and conflict when there is a simple solution.

It is not weakness to tell someone that you love that you would be willing to follow them. That you believe in their wisdom and their honesty . When it comes to the male-female dynamic, we can often look back to how we were raised our mothers gave us life love they cared for us they gave us structure and discipline when necessary .

Why would anyone think it would be strange to transfer this knowledge, love, and life experience onto another adult female in your relationship? Did your mother raised you to be a good man? Yes she did ..Please don't confuse this with any sort of mommy issues that is far from the point I'm trying to make,  the point I'm trying to make in reality is that men have a natural urge and desire to please the women that they love it comes naturally from when we are boys to us we men need to be strong supportive of and loving but in a female-led relationship if you truly add romance and believe in the structure and embrace it with your heart she also feels empowered and loved and secure , and Embraces the female LED relationship dynamic ,it is my opinion that when it is based in love and honesty that you've got a winning combination that simply can't be beat that no vanilla couple can ever possibly have.

The Ladies of our community are the smartest most realistic and most desirable of all women because they understand this.

A gentleman such as myself has a high sexual Marketplace value within the female-led relationship community because we understand love and embrace and have much to offer in that regard. We are proud to embrace FLR.

" in a vanilla relationship men sometimes try to make their Partners jealous, in a female-led relationship, other women are jealous of the man she owns " 

As for me personally I offer honesty old-fashioned Romance faithfulness and integrity.

NekoDesi