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Hetero Male Dominant, 40,  LondonManchester, United Kingdom
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OurOtherSelf

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There is always a battle between the public self and the private self, this was brilliantly captured in Brian Friels Public Gar and Private Gar in Philadelphia, Here I Come! (Literature lesson over I promise.)

That is the thing with this life of ours, the person we show to the world is rarely the person we are. Unless of course we are about as deep as a puddle!

My public self is a person who is a good conversationalist, athletic, fit, well read, (relatively) intelligent, funny (I hope) and the kind of person who is a gentleman and respects women. I would like to think, that public me is generally a good person.

But then there is the other side....the bad side of me if you will, the private part of myself that likes to dominate and is turned on by submission, punishment and humiliation of my sexual partners - and because I am heterosexual those partners are women.

That is the sadist in me, who likes to dominate, punish (there is nothing quite like a good old fashioned OTK spanking), and generally humiliate and control a woman. I will still of course be that gentleman, outside in public I will respect boundaries and look after you but in the end of the day I am a Dom.

Right now, I am looking for a woman who wants to be dominated and willing to submit, if you step out of line you will be punished. I am hoping to find a person whose public self is independent and free spirited. I am not looking for 247 Domsub relationship immediately, rather I want to get to know someone whose private self wants to be dominated, punished and humiliated and see what happens.

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 OurOtherSelf

 Dominant Male

 LondonManchester 

 United Kingdom

 6' 0"

 80 lbs

 40

 Hetero

 Caucasian

 09/04/20

 12/06/21

Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Switch Women

 Lives For:

 Coffee Shops

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 Bar Hopping

 Movies

 Raves

 Running

 Corsets

 Spanking (Expert)

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 Anal Play (Expert)

 Bondage

 Canes and Crops

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 Eye Contact Restrictions

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 Obedience Training

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 Domestic Service

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11/24/2021 2:14:00 PM

Is it just me or this place a little bit like a bad takeaway.  You say to yourself after your last time you eat there, I am not going back there again.  And yet something keeps drawing you back to it, what is CS's equivalent of the smell of frying chips?  Answers on a post card please!


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