After engaging in a few of TPE relationships from this site, I stayed away for four years. But now I crave RL stimulation. (COVID lockdown will do that.)
I believe in reciprocity. In good sex, both partners should derive pleasure from their participation. SM should be no different. I am deeply masochistic, but would love to share that gratification with any sadist who might satisfy my own desires. If there are circumstances where we can do both simultaneously, so much the better.
Back to find that deeper place in RT. Wondering why stone cold sadist is not a category here