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My wife and I are in a Female Led Marriage. I have a lot of joy in our marriage, and I think she does also.

I am 80 years old, she is 78. We have been married 59 years. Over the years she has become more dominant and I have become more submissive.

She picked the cities we have lived in since I retired. She picked the particular houses we have bought. She picked the cars we have bought. She sets out a shirt and pants for me to wear every day. She controls and monitors our bills and finances. She controls the TV remote.

My wants and needs are not relevant.

Neither of us have ever had sex with anyone else. We no longer have sex. I no longer masturbate. I offer to go down on her, but she always refuses.

I give her back rubs every night, which she loves.

I make coffee for her every morning. I go grocery shopping. I put the dishes in the dishwasher and put them up when clean. I clean the toilets, wax the furniture, and do some other house cleaning, but she prefers to do the rest herself. She prefers to do the laundry herself. I chauffeur her everywhere she wants to go, including shopping, weekly hair washing, weekly manicures, monthly hair coloring, and monthly pedicures.

I do not make personal purchases.

I tell people that my wife is in charge.

I am glad she tolerates me.