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I can be a kinky devil, firm, fierce, and hungry, but also a bit of a softie. Im here looking for a best friend and partner in one, someone I can trust with everything, since if theres one thing Ive learned in my decade in the kink world (other than you will fall off your chair if you practice rope ties on yourself) its that DDLG is the dynamic where I feel most at home.

Theres something about DDLG that just fits me perfectly its wonderful dichotomy where I get to express both my desire to control, to guide, and to discipline, as well as my desire to take care of my partner through little acts of service - cooking dinner, giving massages, even helping dress and bathe. A little might need to be wanted, but a big definitely wants to be needed.

You will find me to be incessantly communicative, adventurous, adorably playful, fiercely loyal, and deliciously creative. Whilst firm and stern in both play or discipline, I have definitely got a kinder side that delights in all the affectionate sides of a typical relationship.

I would describe myself in my vanilla life as goofy, a nerd, and a textbook dreamer, not to mention honest and open to a fault. I will happily share my darkest secrets with a perfect stranger.