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Pan Male Slave, 46,  Fayetteville, North Carolina
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HELLO and thank you for viewing my profile.

this slave is seeking to learn more about lifestyle and wants to immerse thus is seeking ONE that can help guide me, train me, teach me, and mold me...and own me.

ideally prefer a Domme or Mistress but might also consider a Dom, Master or even Couple. also willing to talk with any and all as friends to exchange thoughts, ideas, and experiences with goal of expanding my knowledge base and understanding.

this slave is articulate and enjoys stimulating conversation, nice looking, well maintained, very healthy, physically fit, non smoker, social drinker, safe, ddf.

so much more to discuss but rather than write it all here perhaps if my profile intrigues you then we could talk more and share more.

Results from bdsmtest.org
100 Slave
100 Masochist
100 Degradee
100 Rope bunny
99 Submissive
96 Experimentalist
82 BoyGirl
75 Pet
65 Primal (Prey)
59 Exhibitionist
55 Ageplayer
55 Voyeur
53 Non-monogamist
51 Brat
25 Switch
6 Vanilla

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 ncslaveonknees

 Male Slave

 Fayetteville 

 North Carolina

 Willing to Relocate

 6' 2"

 220 lbs

 46

 Pan

 Caucasian

 02/19/19

 

Actively Seeking:

Dominant Transgender

Dominant Female

Dominant male

Domme/Dom Couples

Male Dom Couples

 Lives For:

 Being allowed to beg you for things

 Being allowed to worship your body

 Being allowed to see your breasts

 Being allowed to give you massages

 Being allowed to be obedient to you

 Being allowed to service you orally

 Loves:

 Coffee Shops

 Fine Dining

 Movies

 Travel

 Camping

 Being allowed to worship your behind

 Being blindfolded

 You tying me up

 Being allowed to wear your collar

 Electrical Play

 Rear End Play (Expert)

 Being massaged

 Hair Pulling

 Being humiliated by you

 You putting me on a leash

 Sensation Play

 Role Playing

 Being spanked by you

 You using a strap-on on me

 Being allowed to use a vibrator on you

 Card Games

 Cartoons

 Comedy Shows

 Historical Shows

 Horror Movies

 MMORPGs

 Online RPGs

 Role Playing Games

 Science Fiction

 Web Surfing

 Blues

 Classical Music

 Eighties Music

 Jazz

 Oldies

 Opera Music

 Operetta

 R&B

 Rock Music

 Likes:

 Amusement Parks

 Antique Shows

 Art Galleries

 Beachcombing

 Bird Watching

 Fishing

 Going to the Opera

 Museums

 Musical Theater

 Renaissance Faires

 SCA

 Shopping

 Aerobics

 Bicycling

 Dancing

 Hiking

 Horseback Riding

 Martial Arts

 Rafting

 Scuba Diving

 Skate Boarding

 Snorkeling

 Surf Boarding

 Tai-Chi

 Walking

 Weightlifting

 Yachting

 Yoga

 You disciplining me with a cane

 Eye contact with you not allowed

 Being allowed to worship your feet (Beginner)

 Being gagged by you (Beginner)

 You placing masks on me (Beginner)

 You wearing masks (Beginner)

 Mental Bondage

 You telling me when I'm allowed to speak

 Tickling (Beginner)

 Watersports

 Whips

 Board Games

 Meditation

 Archaeology

 History

 Intellectual Discourse

 Nutrition

 Paranormal Phenomena

 Philosophy

 Poetry

 Alternative Music

 Country Music

 Funk

 New Wave

 Nineties Music

 Pop Music

 Punk Rock Music

 Reggae

 Seventies Music

 Tolerates:

 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales

 Running

 Domestic Service

 Blue Grass

 Electronica / EDM

 Heavy Metal Music

 Hip Hop Music

 New Age Music

 Rap

 Curious About:

 Cages

 Corner Time (Beginner)

 Corsetry

 Diapers

 Enemas

 Exhibitionism

 Genital Punishment (Beginner)

 Local BDSM Community

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Erotic touch

 Fire Play

 Gas Masks

 Hoods

 Housework Service (Beginner)

 Medical fetish play

 Modern Primitivism

 Munches

 Objectification

 Rituals

 Clothing Selection (Beginner)

 Maid / Butler Service

 Outdoor Bondage

 Pantyhose

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Public Play

 Rubber Fetish

 Sensory Play

 Shaving my pubic hair

 Shibari

 Stockings

 Suspension Bondage

 The Silent Treatment

 Theatrical Scenes

 Vacuum Stimulation

 Wax Play

 Aromatherapy

 Herbalism

 Nanotechnology

 Nihilism

 1950s Lifestyle

 Cuckolding

 Female Led Relationships

 Female Sovereignty

 Gor

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Old Guard

 Swinging

 Vampirism

 Victorian Lifestyle

 EMO Music

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Journal Entries:
1/30/2023 6:50:04 AM

OMG

just found my prior DOM from 1989 online and we are meeting tomorrow. i previously served him for 2 years. i am so excited !


1/30/2023 6:04:11 AM

we met on this site and after texting to get to know one another we began talking by phone. there seemed to be a very strong connection. we made plans to meet several times but either his work schedule or my work schedule kept getting conflicted at last minute.

finally the day came where both our schedules were open and we made arrangements to meet. he gave me directions to his home and told me where to park once i arrived. he had told me to come around to back door and enter the screened porch. he told me there would be a blindfold hanging on the back of rocking chair and that i was to strip down completely naked and put the blindfold on and then await further instructions.

 as i drove down the interstate my heart was racing. i had about a 40 minute drive to get to him which gave me too much time to overthink things. several times i thought perhaps i should pull back and hold off. but resolutely i told myself NO that we had been discussing this for weeks and i knew this is what i craved and needed.

as i approached his home it was somewhat secluded with a long winding driveway. i pulled around back and parked as instructed and saw the porch. i got out of card and walked nervously to the porch, my hands trembling as i opened the door. i knew what i was supposed to do but nonetheless called out to him to notify him i had arrived. i was comforted when his voice reassured me and again gave me my instructions.

i proceeded to strip and put on the blindfold. he instructed me to crawl forward towards his voice. i crawled forward anxiously nervously but resolute until i bumped into him. at this time he placed a collar on my neck and attached a leash so he could lead me thru the house to the bedroom.

at this time he stood me up and guided me into a computer chair. he began saran wrapping my body to the chair. then my arms to the arm rests and finallt my legs were likewise secured. i was completely immobilzed.

then i heard the humming sound. it was followed with an old school hand held vibrator like what would be used for sore muscles (i only discovered what it was after our first session). for the next hour or so he edged me. it was incredible feeling like nothing i had ever experienced before. after feeling the lava welling up inside my volcano he told me he was going to allow me to release at which time i had the most rock hard mind blowing orgasm i had ever experienced my entire body was trembling and shaking and i was cobered in goosebumps.

after he allowed me a few moments to regain my composure he spoke and said now our session begins......

 


1/23/2023 1:22:42 PM

this slave is so very grateful for the Doms and Masters it has met and served in person on this site over the years

Collar Space has been instrumental in uniting slave with Master

you ALL were great teachers and mentors and made an impression on this slave and helped add a chapter to the book of discovery in this one's life

slave regrets that while some relationships endured for many months (and one for 2 years) none ended up becoming the life long committment needed and slave accepts responsibility for its inability to commit long term at that momentin time due to life and real world issues

slave eagerly awaits its next Master or Dom and pledges to be open to long term committment

humbly

stefan


1/23/2023 12:11:54 PM

NOT an online player

ready willing and able to meet

can travel up to 3 hours from location to meet

very serious and seeking real time

 

 


1/11/2023 8:38:04 AM

Tribute to Master "K"

 we met on this site. then we began talking by phone - my instructions were very clear - to call him every morning at 6am and every night at 10pm - no exceptions and no excuses

we began talking twice a day - sometimes briefly sometimes for an hour or more - over the next 2 weeks the talks were very substantive and deep and an emotional bond began developing - we had talked for hours about his needs and desires and how i may fit into his life as his slave

we coordinated our days off and made plans to meet - he told me to wear sweat pants with no underwear, slip on shoes without socks, and a button up shirt that could be "ripped" off - he chose a motel location at a 1/2 way point as we lived 3 1/2 hours away from one another

i arrived at motel about 30 minutes early and nervously waited - as the designated time approached i was worrying i was being ghosted but then at exactly the time he rolled up and backed in next to me

we chatted briefly and had a chance to eye one another - he told me to follow him and he drove to the nearby McD's where he exited his vehicle and entered my passender seat

he was a big guy every bit of 6'5" and 275 with a powerful dominating presence that made me feel even more submissive

he looked at me square in the eyes for quite a moment wiithout speaking - finally he said "are you sure this is what you want"

i whispered "yes"

at that moment a McD employee was by my car with brrom and dustpan sweeping up lot and Master K reached over and inched my left nipple very hard - holding on to it tightly - with the McD guy watching - he said "is this what you want"

again i whispered "yes"

the McD guy was now standing near front driver side window as Master K moved hand to pinch my right niplle squeezing so damn hard and twisting - again asking "is this what you want"

again i whispered yes

at this moment the McD went about his duties as he was aware that we were aware of his watching

Master K started at me intently in my eyes as if reading my soul for the longest time

then in a flash his hand was between my legs grabbing my nit sack and squeezing with the stregth of Hercules and brought tears to my eyes as i winced and moaned in pain  - again with a penetrating stare into my eyes - he asked "is this what you want"

i moaned in a whisper "yes"

he told me to follow him - we went to a different motel where he had already rented a room - 

 

more to follow

 


8/23/2022 9:04:10 AM

slave is totally open to phone play or online or email play as relationship is established


8/3/2022 10:05:38 AM

also borrowed from online but so meaningful

 

In private/ At home with no one else present:

1. Slave should always remove clothing as soon as she/he gets home unless Master/ Mistress has laid out or specified clothing for the slave or submissive to wear.

2. Slave should fold clothes neatly or place them in the laundry whenever he/ she gets undressed.

3. The slave or submissive is to kneel in present posture whenever the Master/ Mistress is due to arrive and wait quietly.

4. Whenever the Master/ Mistress is present in a room, the slave must ask permission to enter in the following fashion: "Would it please you if your slave entered the room."

5. The slave will kneel in the room until the Master/ Mistress gives permission that he or she may move or proceed with cleaning.

6. The slave or submissive will wear and gratefully accept any toys the Master/ Mistress chooses to insert or adorn her or him with while cleaning or in any other circumstance.

7. The slave will not speak unless spoken to and may request an opportunity to speak if there is something pressing to discuss during those periods of time when the Master/ Mistress commands silence.

8. The slave or submissive may request an opportunity to serve the Dominant in the following way: "Would it please you to have your slave serve you?"

9. The slave does not sleep with the Master/ Mistress unless it is the express wish of the owner and then this must be seen as a privilege. It can be taken away as a form of punishment.

10. The slave or submissive will always thank the Master/ Mistress for an opportunity to serve whether it was doing a chore or being flogged.

11. The slave will keep their eyes averted unless it is the wish of the Master/ Mistress to have their slave look them in the eyes.

 

12. The slave will address the Master/ Mistress not by their first name, but by the title preferred by that dominant.


8/3/2022 10:02:30 AM
**borrowed from online search but OMG so intriguing

 

101 Ideas to Make Your Slave Feel Owned

One of the main factors, for me in feeling truly Owned is to be constantly reminded throughout the day of Master’s control. These reminders can be subtle or really obtrusive. The more often a slave is reminded of their submission, the deeper it becomes….and the more fulfilling. So here are some ideas you might want to try. And no matter what rules you decide to make on your own, please be consistent. If you’re unwilling to take the time to enforce the rules you make, then there may as well be no rules at all. There is nothing in the world that will make a slave feel less loved than to have a Master/Mistress who ignores their transgressions and does not exert their Dominance.

1. Have them wear slave bells. The constant soft jingling of the bells is soothing and a certain reminder of their submission.

2. When they have broken a rule, talk to them as you punish….and make them speak in detail about why what they  did was wrong.

3. Make them take their shoes off every day as soon as they enters your house.

4. A beautiful, special collar will make any slave joyous. Take the time to select the right one and have them wear it as often as possible.

5. Have them call you each day at a specified time, no excuses.

6. Give them anklets and tell them they must wear one of them every day, no excuses.

7. Whenever possible (i.e. no curious young-uns about), have them kneel before you and ask to accompany you upon the furniture.

8. Choose their hairstyle and go with them to get it cut to your specifications.

9. Whenever possible (i.e. no curious young-uns about), have them display themselves whenever you come into the room…..legs spread, shirt unbuttoned. No matter what position you take, they are to be sure your view is unobstructed.

10. When around the kids or vanilla friends/family, make sure they has an alternative title for you besides Master…..such as “my Love” etc.

11. Use them sexually in a rough, selfish way when you feel like it, interrupting whatever they were doing.

12. Choose a food that they dislike and have them eat a small portion every day for a week.

13. Have them crawl to bed each night.

14. Bring them a stuffed animal each time you go out of town. ~grin~

15. Choose their clothing each day.

16. Have them get your daily wardrobe ready for you the night before; laid out, ironed etc.

17. After punishment, have them kiss your boots and thank you for loving them enough to correct them.

18. Have them bring a warm towel to wash and massage your feet each day after work.

19. Get them tattooed (your choice of art and location).

20. Get them pierced (or preferably if you are trained, do it yourself).

21. Get them branded.

22. Respect, but push their limits.

23. Ask them each night what they did that day that you would not have approved of. *grin* This gets them in the habit of being completely honest and also makes them conscious of the things they could do better each day.

24. Teach them exactly how you want them to kneel and demand perfection.

25. Reward them by allowing them to please you sexually.

26. Supervise them workout routine.

27. Each night they are to kneel next to the bed asking permission to sleep with their Master, and each night they do, they are to kneel by the bed in the morning and thank their Master for the privilege.

28. Have them polish your boots weekly, on their knees at your feet.

29. Negotiate until you are both comfortable with the terms and then sign a contract.

30. Give them a writing assignment: “The definition of Pain – 1000 words”

31. Have them keep a diary of their journey into submission.

32. Instruct them that they may never get themselves something to eat or drink in your presence without first asking you if you want something.

33. Some evenings, keep them on a leash and take them with you no matter what you do, even if you do not speak to them or include them in your activities.

34. When appropriate, they are to speak when spoken to.

35. Reward them by giving them delicious pleasure.

36. On occasion, share them.

37. When it suits you, instruct them not to make eye contact with you without your command.

38. Have them keep their body clean shaven at all times.

39. Conduct random inspections of their body to make sure they keep themselves to your specifications.

40. Make them wear a butt-plug under their clothes whenever they go out alone.

41. For transgressions: have them write your name on the bottom of their foot and tell them to remember they are walking on you with each step. (This is harder to do that you might think….)

42. Master the art of the meaningful piercing stare…..

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5/18/2022 5:08:56 AM

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Results Summary (taken 2022-05-18)

  100%   Degradee More info  
  100%   Primal (Prey) More info  
  98%   Submissive More info  
  95%   Slave More info  
  95%   Masochist More info  
  91%   Rope bunny More info  

5/13/2022 11:06:00 AM

this slave is so needing to be hurt, used, and abused - to be owned - to have value

 

just needed to vent that out

 

stefan


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