i'm not sure if anyone really reads these journails.  From some of the messages I get I doubt they bother to read profiles.   Anyway for anyone who cares, I am no longer cyber married, nor cyber engaged.  I think the best description of my cyber relationships here is - It's complicated.

Well maybe lightning does strike twice I am now cyber engaged to a fascinating man I met here. We are still working out the details. But isn't love grand?