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This is new profile. Somehow the last one went bad. When I tried to sign in it said name or password invalid. Requested password and got no reply. Dont know what went wrong.

I am well educated and have made a lifetime of professional work, now retired. i have the means to support myself and to travel, all in modest lifestyle. I seek LTR with a woman who is interested in being the leader in our lives. I think that things like chastity reinforce and support a state of submissiveness and encourage obedience to the direction and requirements of a dominant woman. I seek direction in my service to a mistress that is definitive, clearly communicated, and expressed in terms of command. I am not a masochist, but expect punishment for failure to obey. I am a pretty good cook. I will maintain a household. I am presentable in polite company and well behaved in public and private. My strong preference is to winter in modest climates. i prefer to avoid politics and causes and crusades. I much prefer to lead a private life with friends. I do enjoy travel and meeting new people and learning new things. i dont use controlled substances(dope) unless occasional prescribed meds as for dental work or the like.

I do enjoy irregular use of alcohol in modest amount. I dont use or easily tolerate tobacco smoke. i am interested in and willing to learn or be trained in kink beyond my limited experience. Please allow me to emphasize that my interest is in relationship and service, and any specific activity or exercise in kink is secondary to relationship and to service to a woman who might favor me with her leadership in life.

6/12/2022 11:49:51 PM: This is, I think, my first Journal Entry. I have written responses to several profiles posted by women on this site. I have never included a 'laundry list of activities', but rather simply presented myself as a submissive male in search of LTR with a lady who desires to take the lead in a relationship. I have had little luck with this approach, having actually met 2 women, one of which judged me too old (76 then) and still under 80 now. I have read many profiles posted by dominant women here, not a few of which express frustration about subs 'who want to top from the bottom' and a like number who seem to not like for sub men to say what they want in the way of activities. At the same time some women have an exhaustive 'laundry list' of actiities in which they are interested, Recently, I responded to such a profile and before doing so, I printed a 3 or 4 page laundry list of activites from the lady's laundry list. I responded by giving information about my knowledge, inteest, experience, like or dislike, or opinion of each item on the list. Because CS system doesnt seem to like really long responses to profiles, I broke it down in 4 or 5 diffeent messages. To my surprise, the lady read them all, whch is the opposite of my experience with most of my other responses. She sent me a not telling me she liked the detailed responses to her laundry list, even thanked me for it. Of coursel I was rejected, but it was better than beilng ignored. So, tell me please, ladies, do you really want such detailed responses to you profiles on the first contact? Or, is the problem more about being between 76 and 80, is just too old to begin with?? with respect, dachastesub

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