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Pan Female Dominant, 60,  LasVegas, Nevada
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Im an attractive Mistress with hypnotic deep blue eyes, shoulder length dark auburn hair, very curvaceous. Im 57,incredible legs,especially when Im wearing my stockings and garterbelt or iwesrimg silky black tight pantyhose and high heels or boots. Love wearing sexy frilly things as well as leather. Ive years of experience so youll be in EXCELLENT hands.

So if youre lucky enough maybe Ill pick you to cater to my every little whim. Oh and you will be locked into chastity and Ill keep the keys around a lovely necklace around my neck. NO DRAMA ALLOWED.
Only those serious about serving a true Goddess need apply....

So I know that my profile indicates that Im looking for a slave husband, let me say this until such time when I find exactly what Im looking for,Im very open to having a Mistresssubslave relationship and well you never know where that might lead.

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 Jewishslavehusband

 Dominant Female

 LasVegas 

 Nevada

 Willing to Relocate

 5' 7"

 60

 Pan

 Caucasian

 09/11/17

 

Actively Seeking:

Sub / Slave Male

Roommates

 Lives For:

 You worshiping my body

 Female Supremacy

 Loves:

 Amusement Parks

 Art Galleries

 Beachcombing

 Coffee Shops (Expert)

 Fine Dining

 Going to the Opera

 Museums

 Shopping (Expert)

 Travel (Expert)

 Blindfolding you

 Confining you in rope or chains

 Disciplining you with a cane

 Keeping you locked in tamper evident chastity at all times

 Locking my slave collar on you

 Corsetry

 Punishing your male parts (Expert)

 You massaging me

 You kissing and worshiping my feet

 Leashing you

 Training you to be completely
obedient to me and only me

 Total control over your orgasms

 Dominating you with a strap-on

 Punishing you with hot wax

 Art Collecting

 Cooking

 Tattoos

 History

 Poetry

 Writing

 Opera Music

 Judaism

 Soccer

 Likes:

 Antique Shows

 Clubbing

 Flea Markets

 Gambling

 Garage Sales

 Movies

 Renaissance Faires

 Hiking

 Horseback Riding

 Yoga

 Electrical Play

 You starting and ending every day worshiping me with recitations and rituals

 Fire Play (Beginner)

 Locking hoods on you

 Mental Bondage

 You servicing me with your mouth

 Outdoor Bondage

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Sensory deprivation

 Spanking you

 Whips

 Historical Shows

 Aromatherapy

 Beading

 Candle Making

 Cross Stitch

 Gardening

 Photography

 Blues

 Classical Music

 Country Music

 Folk Music

 Jazz

 Oldies

 R&B

 Reggae

 Seventies Music

 Auto Racing

 Baseball

 Darts

 Football

 Ice Hockey

 Curious About:

 Chess

 Hard Limits:

 Diapers

 Watersports

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Journal Entries:
8/11/2022 6:26:32 PM

So many of you have sent me messages asking about the different levels I train My slave in. A good solid D/s relationship has many levels and layers to it. Each level is a little more intense than the previous one. My friend  Mistress Arina and I have spent years formulating these training levels,  in rye early stages there was a lot of trial and error but with a New York Jewish Dominant Mistress attitude we figured it out. For the past 20 years now we both have successfully trained not only slaves of our own but have helped train slaves for other Dominant Mistresses,we have also trained other Dominant Mistresses in our training methods.  Currently we have been discussing the possibility of writing a Training Manual .

 


First and foremost in order for a D/s relationship to be successful there has to be both a physical and emotional attraction and connection. Then you start building mutual trust and respect,  without these key elements then it's like beating your head against a brick wall or running around in circles going nowhere fast.


8/5/2022 6:51:32 PM

Some of you have asked me about the different levels of training I do with my slave.  So a lot depends on their level of experience as a slave. 

1 stage: After establishing the relationship and both people involved have made the decision to pursue a lifestyle relationship is to go over the shared interests,  dislikes, taboo, hard limits, soft limits and anything that neither of you have done but wish to explore. 

Stage 2: Training of the different slave positions and their importance to Me.  Exploring the different types of bondage and the different things that can be used for bondage such as different types of rope, chains,leather restraints, handcuffs, Saran wrapping, or a combination of things. Training of the ways I like body worship. At this time chasity is discussed and picking out the right type of chasity device.  Orgasm Control is started along with chasity device being put on. 

Stage 3: Mistress/slave Contract is discussed, printed out and making and changes then reprinted and signed. More Training such as pegging, prostate massaging and milking is started. 

Stage 4: Extreme restrictive bondage is explored,  more intense pegging starts with bigger toys. More slave positions are explained. 

Stage 5: We start going deeper and darker by exploring more extreme things that we are interested in trying. Such as extended periods of bondage where my slave is left in bondage for hours as I start training him in the ways I love edging my property for hours on end, Orgasm Denial,  being forced to Orgasm multiple times by various means.

 There are several more stages and very few get all the way to level 12 some only get to level 5 or 7 and then we just continue doing all those things which can be rather enjoyable.  Each slave differs some go from Stage 1 to Stage 4 or 5 very quickly and some are a little slower. 

All in all it does come down to the bond and emotional connection the two share. 


8/5/2022 6:27:30 PM

I've been out of the hospital for a week now. Only to come back to where I'm renting to have to deal with these vanilla roommates. There are 6 of us living downstairs each of us have their own room. There are 3 in particular that are so obnoxious and way too freaking macho all they seem to do late at night and weekends is drink, drink, drink ,smoke , talk loudly, television blaring all night until 3 or 4 in the morning. The other two roommates are okay.  I'm the only woman living downstairs and it's difficult at times. 

Lots going on medically and I really do need some beach time somewhere.....


8/1/2022 3:40:38 PM

NO LONGER SEEKING ANYONE........ 

 


7/28/2022 12:15:01 PM

I am starting my search for a new slave to establish a long-term TPE FLR relationship that does lead to living together and a Femdom marriage. 

Looking for a slave that is serious, sincere, open minded, and ready to start building the trust neccessary to build something together. 

Not here to play silly mind games or waste my time or yours. 


7/27/2022 7:04:48 PM

Currently in the hospital, been here for 10 days. Having blood pressure issues and nothing seems to be getting stable for any length of time. They have also found 2 leaky valves and no plans to repair them . Very frustrating.. 


4/1/2022 9:42:02 PM

Tomorrow is a big day for me. I'll be leaving California, going back to Las Vegas.  It feels weird since I've been here since January,  part of it spent during the time period my darling boy and I were on a break up after some major issues,  thankfully that is behind us and we are stronger than we were before. We have found me a place to rent and he will be spending more time in the Vegas area due to his elderly parents hence he will stay with me as much as possible. Rent is definitely a little cheaper than it is here in California and since he will be helping me with rent this was a decision we both made.  I won't see him until next week and I miss him terribly.  


I guess I have mixed feelings about moving back to Vegas,  will have to get use to a new place and settle into a routine.  It's hard to explain how I feel like part of me is missing when we aren't together. I do believe that I've found my b'sheirt. For those of you that don't know Hebrew or Yiddish the word b'sheirt means soul mate. That is how I feel about my darling boy.


 

3/31/2022 12:13:38 PM

Let Me make something very crystal clear, 

I AM NOT SEEKING A SLAVE, I HAVE A VERY DEVOTED bitch boy slave who is OWNED & COLLARED and is REGISTERED AS MY SLAVE!

I am happy to making new friends, and perhaps be a mentor or a keyholder but NOTHING MORE.


3/30/2022 1:58:24 PM

I'm going to start work on the Mistress/ slave Prenuptial Contract between myself and my darling slave. So I  have a question for those of you that follow my journal. If your Mistress wanted a prenuptial agreement prior tonyour marriage what would suggest to add to it to make Her feel more Empowered in your marriage? 


3/28/2022 11:25:24 PM

Had a wonderful night with My darling slave jim. Unfortunately he was in lots of pain due to a back injury, however he did his absolute best to serve his Mistress. He begged for Me to never stop training him and to never let him go. He tells Me all the time that he belongs to Me, that he is My bitch boy. He admitted that he has started craving more and more anal training. 

He asked what did I have in mind for those 4 days we will spend together once he returns from his trip. He was to go deeper into his slavery and his devotion to Me. He tells Me that I deserve his total obedience, devotion, and commitment. I'm a very lucky Mistress....

 


3/27/2022 6:33:34 PM

slave and I are finally at the motel, poor baby has hurt his back so he is taking a nap. Have BIG anal training session planned for him later this evening. 


3/27/2022 12:14:08 PM

We've hit a minor bump in the road but before tomorrow morning his attitude will have been adjusted BIG time. Will be going with slave to get mani/pedicure for both of us this afternoon, then a romantic night at a motel near the airport in Santa Ana since I have to take him tomorrow afternoon since he's flying to Vegas to see his parents then they are going to Colorado for a few days.  


I've been living here in California since January but will be moving back to Vegas the first of the month,  since my darling bitch boy will be spending more time in Vegas due to issues with his older parents. 

I found the perfect Mistress/slave pre nuptial contract that can be tweaked to suite our needs. So an increase in his anal training tonight want his ass to tingle for days and his hunger to increase 



3/24/2022 9:03:02 PM

Just had a very intense conversation with my darling bitch boy. I love hearing that deep submissive tone in his voice, to hear him going deeper into his submission, to hear his passion, desire and lust for his Mistress, just gives me such joy and makes me feel so empowered. 


We discussed the Mistress / slave prenup contract that I found which will of course have to be tweaked somewhat to suite our needs and to ensure that I have what I want. One if the clauses that I'm insisting on is that should something happen to me I will have found another Mistress similar to me to take him and continue taking him on the path he is on with me.


I've seen what can happen to a slave that has dedicated his life to his Mistress then the Mistress passes away and he is left to try to lead a " normal life, it isn't a pretty thing to witness and I will not let that happen to  my darling boy.


3/24/2022 12:14:40 PM

I'll be picking slave up from the airport tomorrow on Friday and driving him to pick up his car, then following him to his house where I will be spending the night. He has NO idea what I have in store for him,lol.

Since his ass is no longer tingling from our last dildo training he will be receiving some heavy dildo training tomorrow evening that will definitely leave him begging for more and the tingling sensation will most definitely last several days leaving him feeling empty and needing more.

I've definitely turned him into MY bitch boy ass slut and I love IT!!!


3/22/2022 10:32:08 PM

slave, has been begging me to take him deeper into his submission, and to take him to those deep dark places that neither of us have ever gone before. Those places we dream about, fantasize about, need,want and desire. It's so incredibly hard to find that one person that desires to go there with you and is very open and ready to jump down that rabbit hole with you.

In my training of slaves I have 12 levels that they need to pass up until now only one other previous slave came close, only one previous slave went from level 4 to level 7 in a two day time period. My darling slave jim is now the 2nd slave to go from level 4 to level 7 in just two days. In a 4 day period he went from level 1 to levels 2, 3,4, and 7. I've told him that level 7 will be the hardest since the training becomes more extreme and intense. I've explained that levels 8,9,10,11,and 12 will be hard but not as hard as 7.


He has asked to help me write a training manual and also has requested that I write about our journey, our love story. I'm a very fortunate Mistress to have such a devoted, loving boy...


3/22/2022 4:55:34 PM

slave and are starting to go over what I wish to have included in our prenuptial agreement in order to make me feel more empowered over him.

After speaking with an attorney here in California who is kink friendly I now know that the clause I wanted stating that slave jim wouldn't be allowed to serve another Mistress should we divorce or I die before him unless I approved of her or I had chosen Mistress to take my place. 

We can however put such a clause like that in a Mistress/slave marriage contract that can be notarized along with the prenup. 


He is doing well in his training and we are planning an intense 4 day training session in early April, then a 21 day training session sometime in June. He is desiring to learn how everyday life will be 24/7 365 days a year living as my bitch boy slave and slave husband. 


3/22/2022 4:04:43 PM

Please DO NOT contact Me and ask if you can submit an application to serve Me. I am NOT looking for a slave, since I'm in a committed relationship with my fiance slave. I have no problem being friends or a mentor. 


3/20/2022 11:03:41 AM

I am NO longer seeking a slave. My fiance slave and I are back together. 

His intense training has begun and he is already at level 7 of My training levels which there are 12 in total. I will be keeping a journal of his training process.



3/9/2022 11:00:45 PM

Let's play a game....


So you're out on a first date with your potential Mistress. 

You agree to meet Her at Her favorite restaurant, you arrive early and wait patiently right outside the front door. She sends you a text message informing you that She has arrived and is parking Her car.

So do you wait for Her to walk to the front door or do you walk to where She has parked and escort Her into the restaurant?

Do you remember what She told you Her favorite flowers were and do you bring Her a bouquet as a gesture to show Her that you listen very closely to everything She says ? 

Do you sit very quietly as the waiter or waitress approaches your table and wait for your Mistress to speak first? 

After dinner do you walk Her to Her car and thank Her for a lovely evening and patiently wait for to tell you if She wishes to see you again or do you ask Her to please call you when She arrives home to let you know She arrived safely?

 


2/28/2022 6:00:39 PM

So many of you write and ask if my future slave husband has to be Jewish. 

Well to answer your question, No.he does not need to be Jewish. Of course if he is it's just an added bonus. What I look for the most in a potential slave husband is that he truly wants, needs and desires to be in a FLR TPE Mistress/slave relationship that leads to him becoming a slave husband. That he fully understands his role in our relationship and understands that we would blend both lifestyle and vanilla worlds together. He isn't here to play silly mind games or waste my time or his . He is fully prepared to start building trust and prepared to move forward and not waste weeks, months etc before having phone conversations and meeting in person.  This is NOT a game for me, this is who I am.


2/23/2022 10:34:40 PM

Is no one serious out here anymore. Lately it just seems like no one truly wants what they claim to want. I take this lifestyle seriously and I am truly ready to start building a true FLR TPE Relationship 



2/22/2022 10:28:19 AM

I'm getting so tired of so called subs and slaves that NEVER follow through after begging for My attention.  Please if you contact Me please be real and sincere. 


2/21/2022 12:28:27 PM

Yes I am accepting applications for a new slave. Please only apply if you are 100 percent ready to start the process of possibly being accepted. I am open to relocating for the right person since I have no ties to the West Cost.



2/19/2022 10:55:56 AM

I'm now accepting applications for a new slave. Requirements are that you must be prepared to start building trust to establish a long term TPE relationship. You must be open to a true Mistress/slave relationship that leads to living together and a Mistress/slave TPE marriage. I'm open to relocating. 

In your application please provide the following information:

1. Why you are interested in Me

2. Your experience within the lifestyle 

3. How long you served in the past and why it ended 

4. Why you want,need and desire this type of relationship. 


2/26/2018 7:31:05 PM
Question of the week?? When approaching Mistress here on collar space, do you first ask permission to approach Her,or do you just send an introduction message to Her?

2/26/2018 6:14:05 PM
Is there anyone interested in showing Mistress around Vegas?

2/19/2018 9:35:54 PM
Well the CBT session went really well and it was a GREAT stress release. I think he will definitely feel the marks left from the 20plus clothespins I used,hmmm that put a HUGE evil grin on my face.

2/19/2018 5:59:55 PM
Having a WONDERFUL CBT session right now :)

11/5/2017 1:25:20 PM
Here's another question or two for you. 1. In your view what's the most significant difference between a normal vanilla relationship and a true FemDom relationship? 2. If you aren't involved with a Dominant Mistress do you date vvanilla women, and if so do you feel like something is definitely missing in that relationship,but still continue with it?

11/5/2017 10:34:38 AM
Good morning everyone. So here's a question for you. Do you believe that there is a standard amount of time on how fast things progress when starting this type of lifestyle relationship, or do you put your trust in the Mistress and follow her lead?

10/20/2017 3:59:40 PM
Woke up with a very sore throat today, aching all over. Think I'm coming down with something, this is when Mistress could use a devoted slave.

10/18/2017 6:14:05 PM
I cannot take credit for this wonderful poem but I just had to post it here since the words ring so true.... You are not the clay You are not the clay You are the fire that vitrifies it Taking the malleable, fragile materials and Turning them into a strong, beautiful vessel My hands are not the Potters They are the Kiln that directs and focuses your fire They don't create They clarify and coax the final form For I am not a superior Artist No more than you are mud and water to be thrown We, together, make the change in the matter From the damp media Into glazed and revered Artistry Form and function, strength and release Two essential elements Changing each other, together Forever

9/17/2017 7:40:31 PM
I've been exchanging some very HOT & STEAMY messages with a certain Gentleman from the UK, wish more men understood how to be so ROMANTIC in a sexy erotic way. Can't help but smile when I read His messages.

9/14/2017 11:12:12 AM
Okay I'm going to try and make this as crystal clear as possible. If you are seriously interested in establishing this type of relationship and NOT prepared to exchange a few messages here to start getting to know one another better, then moving on within a reasonable amount of time to having a phone conversation to make it more real for both of us then quite simply DON'T WASTE MY TIME OR YOURS. I'm NOR going to spend countless hours, days or weeks going back and forth with endless messages here on CS, or exchanging emails with no progress of moving forward. I will tolerate it....

9/11/2017 5:54:01 PM
I'm curious to know what the submissive men out here think so here are some interesting questions to ponder,please thunk carefully before you answer. 1. How prepared are you to take the steps necessary to start building this type of relationship with a Mistress? 2. What makes you stand out among all the others that vie for Her attention? 3. Do you truly believe in a FemDom relationship that leads to living together and a FemDom marriage? 4.How would you handle friends and family when they try to set you up with the nice vanilla girl when you are serious about a Dominant Mistress 5. Does anyone in your life know of your lifestyle choices?

9/11/2017 12:58:33 PM
Why is it some of you so called sub/slave men seem to think that a woman of a certain age must be"desperate," to want to be married? I assure you I look years younger, and don't act like an old woman..

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